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If she asked.. would you?
Active Ink Slinger
To a reasonable point yes.
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Quote by DirtyRomance
If your girl dropped hints and even asked for you to get rougher during sex would you? For those who are more gentle would you find that a challenge to act in a way you're typically not?
yes, I could be rough. I could spank, tie up, rough fuck, whatever was necessary.
Quote by purpleshade
Personally, I always preferred the gentle approach. I found that my partner could only orgasm during a rough scenario. I would play along, and it was arousing for me too.
The downside to the rough scenario is that I lost respect for her. I started seeing her as a fuck-buddy rather than a soulmate.
That said, a rough shag can really pump the adrenalin though...
See, in my eyes romance and rough sex can go hand in hand. More passion than rough sex just for rough sex sake.
English Gentleman
i would do it. i like to be rough but sometimes you are just not sure if the girl is, so if she asks i would turn it up a notch or two.
Quote by purpleshade
Agreed, but the next question is what constitutes rough sex and what constitutes romance. I feel that individual explanations will be required...
Well the rough would be things I have mentioned. As for the romance, there's the obvious but in this situation I'd say it's more how the man would treat, look, touch who he's with. Like a mix of ' I adore every inch of you... but I'm going to own every inch.. hard'
Quote by DirtyRomance
For me.. hair pulling, spanking, restraining, hard deep fucking, throat gripping, throat fucking, light smacking, biting...
Yes, I would be comfortable with that. My personal definition of 'rough sex' is where she wants to be sworn at, legs lifted very high, very foul language, and she's fantasizing about being . I was asked to do that, hence my 'discomfort' for rough sex.
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I give her whatever she wants. Sometimes she really likes it rough.
Advanced Wordsmith
My girls gynecologist said that I'm too rough and need to be more gentle.... but she always says "harder... deeper... harder" and I do what she says
In my Lush PERSONA I do (or HAVE DONE) all of those things with various individuals. In REAL LIFE, the simple, sad fact is that IF any of my previous lovers WANTED those things, they never let me KNOW! I'm the sort who TRIES to tailor "what" I do to the wants, needs and desires of the particular woman I'm WITH! And, being EXTREMELY open minded in that regard, the simple answer is... SURE!