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Husbands would you share your wife with another man while you watched?

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Only if she'd share me with him as well ;)


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Kenny50
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Only if she desired the encounter and it was not a routine event, She has a grand-daughter that dates black men. I have heard her and other females joke about "once you go black, you will not go back". I believe she would just once like to be fucked by a black man. I have even told her if it was something she would like to experience, I am OK with it, and will still love her afterwards. She has never replied one way or the other.
Britt4u
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I would and have, on more than one occasion. It has always made our sex better and it has eliminated the ugly head of jealousy. It has also helped my wife to be more appreciative of how I make love. That is no slap. I know what my wife totally loves and other guys don't because that takes time and experience, so no matter how good the other man is, when she and I again have sex, the results are almost always explosive and fantastic.
pat278
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I would definitely share my wife. I think it's all about her, to see her pleasured is the ultimate reward. I want everything for her, she deserves it all. If I can make her happy by sharing her then that's what will happen. Of course I'd love to participate, not just watch, but as long as she is happy and being pleasured that's what matters to me.
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Never in a million years. I know it's trendy to be "open-minded," but what's mine is mine. I don't expect her not to desire others just as I do and at least on principle I wouldn't mind her taking another merely for her own pleasure, but I have a rather medieval perception of having a woman as my companion and I'm just not one for sharing.
silverfx42
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I agree with Pat. She deserves all the pleasure she can get and i would love to see it happen
Arxe
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I'm not sure how I would like it in the room unless it was a double team situation. I would like to hear about it afterwards or watch on video though.
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Not for a moment.... She's free to go if she wants....
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I believe that I would share my wife but not me watching. I would like us to participate together. I guess I am not much of a voyeur.
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Yes, of course. I've watched my wife with another man on several occasions. It's a turn on for both her and I and it keeps the marriage exciting.
NOLAHotGal
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As you mentioned you wanted the wives opinion too, here is mine which is also Hubbie's. We have been married for 37 years, and I have been shared for over 35 of them. I believe we have enjoyed each possible combinations. Until we are comfortable with and trust a new lover, Hubbie is always there. The way the scene will go down depends a lot on the desires of the other lover and our level of trust. The most popular has been for Hubbie to watch in the beginning then join in. This is my favorite. If the other lover is a trusted one, I am free to visit him one on one. Of course I let Hubbie know I have a play date. Then I will tell him the erotic details as part of our foreplay.
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Of course not. I have fantasied about it, but that's where it ends. A fantasy is just what is.
ChuckEPoo
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I am kinda blown away by the number of yes votes. I don't think an erotic site is a fair sampling of society. However, the whole wittol and cuckold phenomenon has truly taken root. If I were to guess it has a lot to do with the independence, political, and business power women have in industrialized society. With freedom there is choice.

For me personally I have participated in the whole hot wife lifestyle. It is a huge strain on a relationship. So ultimately we sacrificed the exclusivity of marriage for a sexual playground. There are rewards but also great risk.

The whole thing is puzzling. I was racked with the pain of jealousy but stimulated sexually at same time. Part of her pleasure was knowing I was watching but she had no knowledge of my internal turmoil.

Word of caution. If you decide to let this genie out of the bottle, she's not going back. Sometimes fantasies are best left fantasies. It is a huge gamble. An open lifestyle can work but caution must be taken and trust absolute. Think it over carefully.
HotWife4U
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
I have two boyfriends who share me with each other, and with a couple of FWB as well. I wouldn't be with a man who was so insecure and possessive that he couldn't share me with other men (and women). Jealousy is the root of all evil!


That's also because you've trained them right. Lol.

When there are kids involved, the playing field changes. Not impossible but certainly more complicated. I personally have had a few really bad experiences but am still in the lifestyle. Just much more cautious.
alan4three1
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Chuck, have done so with 2 of my x-wives by mutual agreement. No trauma created, out private sex life got "better", and "Yes" the first time it was a bit uncomfortable, but not for the whole first meeting, or afterward. We're all the kind of people, I guess, that figure "once it's happened, there's no going back". Talking about it before hand is a major help, and agreeing on how it will be set up is essential too. Sorry to take so long. ALAN
theswan
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Yes, I'd be fine with that. We've fantasised about it, it usually leads to her really cumming hard when we talk about it. Maybe it will remain a fantasy but we talk about limits, that only I get to use her arse and that I'll have seconds in her pussy.

I've been on the other end, I've been the one who she was shared with. I had an agreement with a couple that he would sit in the armchair whilst we kissed, touched, and eventually fucked in front of him. He would then have his fun whilst I watched (and recovered!). It clearly worked for them, and I quite liked watching him pound into her after he'd watched me.
brianlarry
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I would, but I don't think she would want to. I love to see her get off and I would be aroused to watch her getting fucked by another guy. Probably just stay a fantasy of mine though.
Todd88
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Whatever makes her happy.
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Watched is the catch of this question since I don't get to watch. Mine is a rather one sided deal, we went from wife swapping to "cuckoldry" because she not only doesn't like to share.
She doesn't trust my Bi little hide to keep straight. With over two decades of her taking it as she wants I have to be satisfied with little crumbs of information as to the who, what, where and when.
maturekcmale
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Call me close minded, old fashioned, insecure, etc., but I would have to say "NO".
mranonymous7
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Quote by mter100
I would love to know how many men out there would love to share their wives with another man while they watched. It has grown over the years and with the population getting older I expect it will grow that much more. I have written a number of stories around this particular subject and have received a lot of feedback on it. I would love to hear any comments you have on the subject. I also asked the married women the same question so it will be interesting to see how each of the answers compare.
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I would be into this for sure
Edwithed
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I would love to watch my wife get pounded by another man. I have told her this but she won't do it.
CocciP
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i'm in a open relationship now and have been for some years now and we got a kid, so yes she fucks around with men and women and so do i(not with men). and i have taken others wife/girlfriends with the guys permission because they wanted to watch.
“We are all born sexual creatures,thank God, but it's a pity so many people despise and crush this natural gift.”
― Marilyn Monroe
“The main reason Santa is so jolly is because he knows where all the bad girls live.”
― George Carlin
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Yes I have. We swap at parties. I have also been involved in a gang bang with her and 5 guys.
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Yes, after being married many years my wife and I felt secure enough in our relationship to turn some of our fantasies into reality and have done so without regret. We wouldn´t describe ourselves as swingers but we have remained open minded to try anything from time to time.
Regnadkcin
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I wouldn't be in to it. If she was, it might happen, but I don't think I would be there to watch.
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I don't share well with others. I am her man and she is my woman. If she wanted to explore with a woman, I would not argue and would enjoy watching her. We complete each perfectly, I need no other woman to satisfy me and she would not need another man either