Sorry guys! I couldn't find the similar question in the Ask The Gals thread. But I am an extremely private person so I tell no one about my personal life. With someone I'm intimate with, I answer any questions as honestly as I can.
I don't divulge unless I have taken a girl home in-front of my friends. Otherwise I keep my mouth shut.
I know this is for guys but didn't see it on ask the girls.
I am very open and honest and I wear my heart on my sleeve, I also am terrible at hiding my feelings and emotions. This can all be great or really bad depending on who i'm trusting to let in. Being so open unfortunately can lead to hurt but I just can't be closed off, it's not me.
More than most, I think. Maybe a lot more. Even my real name slips out pretty quickly.
Partly because if any of my friends or co-workers found out I was writing erotica here, their reaction would be, "Cool. Can I read it?" They'd also be happy knowing I'm getting laid (during those periods I am getting cyberlaid here).
I never talk about it.
I do occasionally share some vague details anonymously (for all parties) online where it's of interest.
I know this is Ask The Guys but....yah, I keep it pretty close to the vest, divulging very little to my male friends and maybe a bit more to female friends, online and off. There have been exceptions, but all occurred when I was in a bad place emotionally.
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I tell my male friends effectively nothing.
The extent to which I tell my female friends information depends on how close I am with them. Some, I tell very little. A select few, I tell just about anything they would like to know.
I've never been one to boast or exaggerate, I don't see the need. Honesty goes a long way.
I wouldn't say secretive, I would say highly shielded.
There's really only one person that I've been very open with, and knows me pretty well, but that's because I feel comfortable with him. How much I share totally depends on the person and my comfort level.
Great thread .. given my circumstances ..i.e. I am single and dont have any worries about being honest etc. ... I dont hold back ..
When it comes up, I tell some of it. I found out when she's with her friends, there are NO secrets.
I have opened up to a few guy friends, usually in some altered state of mind that diminishes my innate shyness. I actually really enjoy open conversations about sexuality--usually about masturbatory stuff because I don't want to betray my partners' privacy. I get really turned on by opening up, though, especially to female friends. I have had a few female friends who have talked candidly about their experiences and preferences--like porn preferences, toys, etc.. I wish there weren't so many hangups about sex stuff. Wouldn't it be cool if sex were less ? Like if you and your friend could get each other off and it was no big deal. Or if a member of the opposite sex could 'educate you' without it involving weirdness? I'm not gay, and guys don't generally turn me on, but I fantasize about giving a blow job or getting fucked--mainly just to relate to my female partners.
