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How many women have you made cum in your life?

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Lurker
Be honest. I can say for almost an actual fact that not EVERY SINGLE woman you have slept with has had an orgasm. So go by the times you are certain she came.

And no need to state your total count of people you've slept with, just how many orgasms were you a part of.

For myself: 9

No shame
Active Ink Slinger
Close to 70 and all have and many multiple times ?‍♂️. Had a few reach 20 or more in a night. Believe it or not.
Lurker
One. Thousands of times, in many different ways, but still only one lady.
Gentleman Stranger
Really, the number of women I've slept with and the number of women I've made come in my life are two different questions. I've written a fair number of stories here and elsewhere, and a fair number of women have volunteered that I've made them (or at least helped them) come that way, which I truly enjoy and appreciate hearing - a few even sent thank you notes, not something I can say I've experienced with the "real life" women/orgasms, although I have received a verbal thanks or some even better token of appreciation on occasion.

I'm going to roll them all together and say somewhere between 20 and 200, but that's totally a SWAG.
Probably only my wife and even then probably not every time. My other sexual encounters were "pros" and faking it is stock in trade for them. So maybe I did make some of them cum, but I have no way of being certain.
Active Ink Slinger
I have to agree with the lady above, no man has ever made me cum. At least that I know of ...keep safe stay at home.
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Quote by Dream_Weaver
Close to 70 and all have and many multiple times ?‍♂️. Had a few reach 20 or more in a night. Believe it or not.

That seems a little far fetched, but I truly don't know what you had to enhance her orgasm. Although multiple orgasms aren't of question.

I only cum on my own accordance, although stimulation and flirty chat can enhance the stimulation. (Just my two-bits worth)
Wilderness Wanderer
if I include myself...

one
The Linebacker
I don't know. Some said they did. Some acted like they did. Some of them did.
Living bi-cariously through Lush
I'll be honest. Most of the women I've been with were a one-time deal, sometimes involving alcohol, and I may not have been tuned in to their needs as well as I should have been. I generally made sure to do plenty of foreplay and take my time - and genuinely relished the body of every woman I slept with - but when I finally came I came, and I didn't necessarily check to see whether she did. Which means probably not. We were young.

My first sexual experience was with a girlfriend who turned out to have major psychological problems - which I didn't figure out until after we broke up. Although she always pretended to cum, I don't think she actually ever did. Among other things she was a compulsive liar - a messy web to untangle after she dumped me and the pieces started falling into place. Not least her manipulative manner in and out of bed, which messed me up for a while.

Fortunately my second serious girlfriend was amazing and enthusiastic in bed. Even more fortunately, she was honest that she didn't always cum, which required her to be in the missionary position. She enjoyed many other positions - even 69, which a lot of women don't seem to be into - and loved having me eat her out, but that wouldn't get her there. She absolutely had to be lying relaxed on her back, matching the rhythm of her hips to mine just right. So I don't think she ever faked it. In fact she couldn't have. In her case, she broke out in a sweat all over, her skin instantly suddenly clammy and goosebumped at the moment of orgasm. No one could possibly fake that, and it happened dozens of times over our long relationship.

As for my wife? I don't talk about my current relationship on here. Suffice to say she wouldn't be my wife if we weren't compatible, and leave it at that.

So that's three women for sure, accounting for untold numbers of orgasms.

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Wild at Heart
Only one, if I whistled just right. Was never good at that.
Wouldn't you rather have a nice cup of tea?
Lots by reading my stories.

Not as many by physical touch, but I do try to make sure that the partners I have had enjoy themselves as much as I do.

Don't believe everything that you read.

Advanced Wordsmith
Who knows for sure? At least two...my first wife had several miscarriages and my second wife gave me a son.
Advanced Wordsmith
At least 30 ... yes i know what You are thinking - Bad Nika!
Advanced Wordsmith
5, same number of girlfriends I've had. I'm a pretty attentive lover, so a night wasn't really a success in my eyes unless my partner orgasmed at least once.
Lurker
I have no way of knowing. I was stationed overseas. I actually tried to keep a number of the women I slept with/had sex with. I probably had sex with close to 150 women while there. No joke. Then there are girlfriends I had, my wife, her girlfriends she shared with me. Not all of them had orgasms, but most did.
Lurker
I have no way of knowing. I was stationed overseas. I actually tried to keep a number of the women I slept with/had sex with. I probably had sex with close to 150 women while there. No joke. Then there are girlfriends I had, my wife, her girlfriends she shared with me. Not all of them had orgasms, but most did.
Active Ink Slinger
In real life probably 6-10. I was married for 28 years. I had one fling with a neighbour during that time. Does cyber count?
Active Ink Slinger
Looking back I can honestly say probably only 4
Active Ink Slinger
Most that I have been with with 90%+ of those cumming on my fingers and mouth. Having a woman cum due to my fingers and tongue is my biggest turn on so helping them reach their peak often does the same for me. During my college days I was at an all male military college in Virginia that is now no longer all male, and there were 6-7 all female colleges within easy driving distances plus I had 2 sisters at one of those schools. Add in UVA and VT, the girls were 6 deep and I was open about not being exclusive, that they should date others and save me some time and I would do the same. Some hated it but most were into it. This was in the last 1970's- early 1980's. Add to that my 1st sexual experience was eating pussy and for several years my only experience other than handjobs, I learned very well. Wish I could say it was 100% but you can't please all the people all of the time. My total count is somewhere in the 20's I guess maybe higher. I have been active for 50+ years and plan to stay active until they dump me in a hole somewhere lol.
Active Ink Slinger
Most that I have been with with 90%+ of those cumming on my fingers and mouth. Having a woman cum due to my fingers and tongue is my biggest turn on so helping them reach their peak often does the same for me. During my college days I was at an all male military college in Virginia that is now no longer all male, and there were 6-7 all female colleges within easy driving distances plus I had 2 sisters at one of those schools. Add in UVA and VT, the girls were 6 deep and I was open about not being exclusive, that they should date others and save me some time and I would do the same. Some hated it but most were into it. This was in the last 1970's- early 1980's. Add to that my 1st sexual experience was eating pussy and for several years my only experience other than handjobs, I learned very well. Wish I could say it was 100% but you can't please all the people all of the time. My total count is somewhere in the 20's I guess maybe higher. I have been active for 50+ years and plan to stay active until they dump me in a hole somewhere lol.
Constant Gardener
pro tip: You have to snap your fingers, and even then - it's all in the wrist action. It literally takes weeks of repetitions to master.
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Wild at Heart
Quote by WellMadeMale
pro tip: You have to snap your fingers, and even then - it's all in the wrist action. It literally takes weeks of repetitions to master.


What about guys?
Active Ink Slinger
only 2

girlfriend 1973 to 1975

wife 1977 to 1989 - separated 2004 and divorced 2005
Lurker
Probably 35-40. All except 4 were from giving oral, the point of which, after all, is to make the woman cum.
Lurker
It's difficult to say. I have to admit that even though each woman is a person and fully in charge of her own pleasure, that I have mastered the art and science of making women cum. So much so, that I don't have to touch them. I only pass by and think lusty thoughts. So it could be thousands, maybe tens of thousands by now. But if I'm honest, I think a small percentage of those could be faking it.
Advanced Wordsmith

I have had sex with 10. I have cum with several more.