I can't really recall there ever being any pain for me when I haven't wanked or had sex in a while. Up until just recently I didn't have ANY sexual activity for almost 4 years (something happened, I completely just lost my 'sexdrive' - didn't sleep with anyone or have a wank during that period).
But then again, as someone have pointed out already, all males are different - some might feel some pain, or a stinging sensation - but I'm not one of those.
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How does if feel if you dont cum for a long time?
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If I go for long enough without sex I lose the desire to come entirely. Only thing is, if I then get turned on in a major way without ejaculating, my balls ache like hell afterwards. (someone once called it blue balls, not sure if that's a common expression)
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I think your bf is a smart man! lol
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There is a really great pressure, and I get a hard on that won't go away until I deal with it. Also, if I haven't cum in a while, I get really irritable.
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That went away when I kicked a certain habit. Having a woman 17 years younger than myself really helps a great deal also.
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Yes, they feel like they will explode.
Just kidding.
No, there's no pain at all and guys use that to pressure a female into bed.
Exactly what he said it don't hurt a bit.
But what was the longest for you? A few hours baby ;)
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I actually think about sex less if I haven't cum in awhile. Once you finally do cum the release is amazing!
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Yes, they feel like they will explode.
Just kidding.
No, there's no pain at all and guys use that to pressure a female into bed.
Actually that's not true for all men. After about four days without ejaculating first one testicle and then the other will hurt off and on throughout the day until I have ejaculated.
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Not painful more like frustrating....that's why God invented masturbation. 
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No pain for me...but then again I hardly go a day without cumming!
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Hello
I was told by a boyfriend once that if he didnt cum for 3 days, his balls would get sore and ache, and the only way to solve the problem was to ejaculate.
I havent heard this from anyone else.
So guys, who does it feel if you don't cum - is it painful?
Katie
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yes, if you don't cum your balls get full & I wouldn't exactly say painful. but definitely uncomfortable. but its a self correcting problem. its called a wet dream.
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Physically, it does not make a difference how long you haven't had an orgasm. Our testicles constantly create new spermcells, but they're not stored forever in an ever expanding reservoir. After a while the sperms deteriorate and are broken down again, to be absorbed in the bloodstream, where some components may be reused and the rest is disposed of by our liver and kidneys. Stories of overflowing balls and scrotums that hurt because they are filled to the brink are fables, and their only purpose is to convince a (potential) partner to perform some sexual act, if only out of pity.
Mentally it's a different story of course. Just like anything that makes you feel good, you're likely to crave it more, the longer you have to miss it.
Mentally it's a different story of course. Just like anything that makes you feel good, you're likely to crave it more, the longer you have to miss it.
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In many countries being gay is a crime, and even in modern societies, politicians try to legalise discrimination. Your voice can make a difference. Have a look at All Out to find out how.
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It hurts and burns as I cum so hard. Kinda like edging over and over for me. But oh so goooood!
Advanced Wordsmith
Not having sex or coming for days at a time I don't think is physically painful. However there are circumstances that can produce the "blue balls syndrome" such as when she takes him to the edge, manually, orally, etc. repeatedly and he does not come for whatever reason. I think the boyfriend's comment was mean to make you feel sorry for him and have sex.
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Have managed without for a month before ... Through circumstance not choice.
Certainly didn't turn blue. But they did start feeling very insistent that I remedy the situation forthwith... Didn't take long when I did, and wasn't particularly satisfying.
Certainly didn't turn blue. But they did start feeling very insistent that I remedy the situation forthwith... Didn't take long when I did, and wasn't particularly satisfying.
The Linebacker
You get a low aching in your balls. If some chick has given you a good teasing and you've been aroused for a while without cumming, you'll get blue balls. Those really ache and drive you crazy. The only cure is to cum.
