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Her orgasm or yours?

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Hers. Making her orgasm is spiritual and also you get a lot of love back ?
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Her multiple orgasms then its me
Lurker
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ALWAYS Her first. My pleasure is Her pleasure as a gentleman.
Active Ink Slinger
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I am the same way, I love making a woman have a screaming orgasm. I would rather do this than cum myself. The louder and dirtier talk, the more I get excited.
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I love to bring my partner to complete orgasmic state - several times if possible - then I can really enjoy my side of it that much more - just sayin
Advanced Wordsmith
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Putting the woman in Orgasmic Bliss is what makes sex so much fun and rewarding.
Lurker
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As much as I enjoy having an orgasm, I'm very committed to making her orgasm. There have been times I've gone too early, but I keep slamming against her clit until she gets hers.
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Hers
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I want to please her first by giving her as many orgasms as I can before I let myself cum.
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Her orgasm is my mental orgasm. I love seeing her and making her cum, so, i try to make her cum, and cum again, as much as possible. My ejaculation is her mental stimulation, and it lets her know what she done to me, and where she has taken me.
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Definitely All about her... Then me
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Long as where both having a hot time its allgood
Southern Gentleman
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I always want her to orgasm first. Doesn’t always happen though.
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I love to get her to have a few orgasms before I go for mine. I get great pleasure watching her have a great orgasam.
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I couldn't agree more. Her satisfaction should come first and leads to me enjoying the experience more.

Quote by LarsKaiden
For me, bringing a woman to an orgasmic state is the ultimate reward in a sexual context. I have always focused on pleasuring my female partners, and I've spent many hours pampering them to this end. The more I make them scream, squeal, squirt and beg, the better. Fact is, the more she enjoys the experience sexually, the more I am satisfied mentally. Otherwise, "Jizz happens!"

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Active Ink Slinger
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Well, the main reason I'm having sex is to get an orgasm. I can't give her an orgasm, she allows herself to have one, just like I do. If I'm working towards one and she is doing the same then we both win. Sometimes I may cum first and if she is trying but hadn't gotten there then I will lend a little help. There are times when she is a good little slut and is my fuck toy.
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I love watching my wife cum on my cock or other mens cocks. Something sexy about pleasing a woman.
colin123
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Her first, always.
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my wife nearly always first.

Once I cum all sexual desire is gone, but still love cuddling and kissing.
Lurker
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I always want her to have a fantastic orgasm, whether I cum or not. This goes back to our dating days when the most I did was finger her to orgasm, and then I went home and jacked off. Then she discovered how to give a hand job and both of us had orgasms on our dates.
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Gentlemanly behaviour requires you to think of others first. Whenever possible I cum second.
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Her, always. If you take care of your woman sexually, you woll have a much more satisfying experience yourself.
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I was raised as a gentleman, so it is ALWAYS 'ladies first'...
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Definitely hers, although she understands if I'm desperate and feel I've got to 'go for it'. We have good mutual understanding. But basically I think of hers as being 'the point. More exciting for me too.
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Active Ink Slinger
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Her first, of course. Much more fun that way. Except sometimes she just wants to be used hard and fast then it's all me.
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I strongly agree with the original post. Bringing my lover to orgasm is a tremendous reward and source of satisfaction for me. I focus on my lover first!
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Quote by LarsKaiden
For me, bringing a woman to an orgasmic state is the ultimate reward in a sexual context. I have always focused on pleasuring my female partners, and I've spent many hours pampering them to this end. The more I make them scream, squeal, squirt and beg, the better. Fact is, the more she enjoys the experience sexually, the more I am satisfied mentally. Otherwise, "Jizz happens!"

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I am 100% with you! 100%.
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i'm a people pleaser by nature. it's difficult to get there myself if i haven't gotten her there first.
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Credibility is everything in this life, and the best way to build it within your sexual career is to ensure women get that nut. It's satisfying to see them get there and also, it guarantees that your name isn't dragged through the mud for being sub-par in bed.

On the flip-side, you gotta be careful because if you make her bust several nuts but she doesn't get you to bust one, it can mess with her confidence.