Hers is much more important to me.
That being said, not having my own is incredibly frustrating, the like 2 times it's happened. lol Hey, sometimes you run out of energy. Am I right?
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Her orgasm or yours?
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WO question hers is more important to me, and in cases can be more satisfying.
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Definitely hers! Hers is much more difficult to make happen than mine.
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HER come is NECESSARY for MINE...
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hers, always. its not a task, its a pleasure
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For me, bringing a woman to an orgasmic state is the ultimate reward in a sexual context. I have always focused on pleasuring my female partners, and I've spent many hours pampering them to this end. The more I make them scream, squeal, squirt and beg, the better. Fact is, the more she enjoys the experience sexually, the more I am satisfied mentally. Otherwise, "Jizz happens!"
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I'm almost always more fulfilled when my lover has multiple orgasms. I love listening to her and watching her facial expressions as she explodes from the inside our. It's so much more exciting than my own release... most of the time anyway.
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Mine 
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Me me me me me me me
But usually if she cums... her pussy squeezing my cock drives me past the point of no return
But usually if she cums... her pussy squeezing my cock drives me past the point of no return
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I take pride in seeing she gets hers
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Hers, always hers.
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Hers and with that, fun and special moments for both of us.
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her orgasm first, don't matter is by eaten her or fucking.. (but usually the 1st one)
mine later or together!
this part situation where is not possible give it to her, eg while I'm driving!
mine later or together!
this part situation where is not possible give it to her, eg while I'm driving!
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Hers--always ladies first-- in the long run, it is always better
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Taking care of your partner is a must, no place for selfishness....
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Its always about her enjoyment first .I love watching her when she orgasms.
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Her orgasm, hands down! My orgasms are never that strong, so after my first few romps, I've discovered the divine sensuality in a woman's pleasure. As a selfish benefit-a woman is usually never more interested in making sure you're in orgasmic heaven, then after you've brought her to the moon as many times as she can handle.
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To answer this question, I recommmend this book, "She comes first" by Ian Kerner. This should be required reading for every high school boy and girl. It is available on Ibooks and probably Amazon. The title speaks for itself.
The romantic bi guy.
Stay horny my friend.
Stay horny my friend.
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Definitely Her no question about it..
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Her's definitely. If she cums a man can be certain she'll make him feel happy as well.
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Definitely hers first, hopefully multiple times, which adds to my ultimate pleasure in the end.
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Without a shadow of doubt, hers first, and sometimes second and then third as it happens to me.
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Always the Lady first, there is something very arousing bringing a woman to orgasm. Although coming at the same time is great too.
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IMO, it would make sense to bring the woman to orgasm first. It helps with lubrication.
However, as long as both parties are enjoying themselves, it's fine.
However, as long as both parties are enjoying themselves, it's fine.
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My pleasure is directly related to hers. Her orgasms are what brings me to mine.
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I've always found that the better it is for her, ultimately the better it is for me.
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Ladies first is the convention, & that usually works in my experience, but there are always exceptions & here are a few I've encountered.
1. 'You dont love me if you dont abuse me.' This particular thing can extend to a preference for being used sexually. I've found with these women (& there are men who are the same) either become unhappy & depresive, or angry and abusive themselves if you dont cater to this. I personally have to time for them. Found that a relationship with them involves too much dishonesty and acting on my part.
2. The male orgasm as intense turn on. Usually see this in group sex settings. Watching males achieve orgasm with others, or bringing one or more males to orgasm themselves gets them to the right mental place for their own. Lots of variations on this: ie: the Gang Bang; Warm up partners for the main event with the husband; Or after the mans O prefers to reach orgasm with her own efforts, a toy, ect...
3. Several I've had sex with or watched had a fetish for semen. Another described the same thing in a candid conversation. These ladies prefered orgasms when able to feel & or see semen on their pussy or clit. Once supplied with that special lube they got their satisfaction with fingers, toys, tongues, another cock. Whatever, but ejaculate was a prefered enhancement for them.
4. Orgasm as a side benefit. This set are into things like Tantric sex & similar eroticism where pleasure is maximized though other actions than orgasm. In simplistic terms the endomorphins are drawn out and mental intensity created to the point where orgasm can be, well, anticlimatic.
Generally I've found with type 2 & 4 ladies the sex is often more interesting or variable & in the longer run more satisfying.
1. 'You dont love me if you dont abuse me.' This particular thing can extend to a preference for being used sexually. I've found with these women (& there are men who are the same) either become unhappy & depresive, or angry and abusive themselves if you dont cater to this. I personally have to time for them. Found that a relationship with them involves too much dishonesty and acting on my part.
2. The male orgasm as intense turn on. Usually see this in group sex settings. Watching males achieve orgasm with others, or bringing one or more males to orgasm themselves gets them to the right mental place for their own. Lots of variations on this: ie: the Gang Bang; Warm up partners for the main event with the husband; Or after the mans O prefers to reach orgasm with her own efforts, a toy, ect...
3. Several I've had sex with or watched had a fetish for semen. Another described the same thing in a candid conversation. These ladies prefered orgasms when able to feel & or see semen on their pussy or clit. Once supplied with that special lube they got their satisfaction with fingers, toys, tongues, another cock. Whatever, but ejaculate was a prefered enhancement for them.
4. Orgasm as a side benefit. This set are into things like Tantric sex & similar eroticism where pleasure is maximized though other actions than orgasm. In simplistic terms the endomorphins are drawn out and mental intensity created to the point where orgasm can be, well, anticlimatic.
Generally I've found with type 2 & 4 ladies the sex is often more interesting or variable & in the longer run more satisfying.
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Her's without hesitation
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Hers. Like i tell my wife, she can go a bunch, I can go once. She is amazing even after 18 yrs. She does take it personal if I dont go however
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bringing a woman to an orgasmic state is the ultimate reward in a sexual context. I have always focused on pleasuring my female partners, and I've spent many hours pampering them to this end. The more I make them scream, squeal, squirt and beg, the better. Fact is, the more she enjoys the experience sexually, the more I am satisfied
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Hers, every time. Somehow I can't climax myself unless my partner has climaxed at least once before me.
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