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Her orgasm or yours?

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What could be more satisfying than making a woman climax? I can't imagine a more manly feeling than looking over a woman who is glowing from orgasm.
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Always hers first, hearing a woman cum for you is the finest sound there is.
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Absolutely hers. no question.
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Her pleasure must always come before my own
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My pleasure is his pleasure..So if I can get him aroused to make him cum.. than I have done what I have set out to do and nothing better than to see that pleasure on his face!!! Makes me even more excited.!!!
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Always aim to make her cum. An orgasm is kinda the point and a guy cumming is standard.

The more turned on and close she gets, the closer I get. My favourite thing to do is play with her for ages, right until she's at the edge, then slip my myself in her and fuck until we both come together
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hers. the point isn't to cum, it's everything leading up to and after that
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Strive to make sure she cums first and frequently!
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I have always strived to make her orgasm at least twice before my pleasure and fucking.
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She has to cum first. Always
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Always her. I enjoy her orgasms even more than my own, honestly.
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hers... the delight and the control... making her cum.. giving her the pleasure I know she wants.. really makes a man feel like a man.
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I have found that if I, as a man, focus on the woman's pleasure and orgasms, that good things cum to me in the end. They are so appreciative of a man that actually cares that they get theirs as many times as they want that they wouldn't even dream of letting him go unsatisfied.

That is why I almost always start with cunnilingus and stay with it until either the woman stops me or until she begs for something else.... The fact that women can cum over and over makes them perfect lovemaking partners. Men are pretty much a "once and done" type of creature by nature and some recharge faster than others but after all the chest beating is done most will admit that it ain't as good after the first time.

Give her what she wants and give it to her as often as she wants and good things will cum to you.... ;)
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
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Quote by GirlyWorld
For me, bringing a woman to an orgasmic state is the ultimate reward in a sexual context. I have always focused on pleasuring my female partners, and I've spent many hours pampering them to this end. The more I make them scream, squeal, squirt and beg, the better. Fact is, the more she enjoys the experience sexually, the more I am satisfied mentally. Otherwise, "Jizz happens!"

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In 100% agree. To see her squeal and squirm is so amazing and hot. When she orgasms because of me it seems to only makes my climax so much more..
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Quote by SereneProdigy
I agree to some degree, though there are many approaches to satisfy a woman, some more efficient than others.

As I discussed in this thread, often times the best way to satisfy a woman is simply to fuck her wildly according to your own urges. Of course I still pay close attention to her needs in such situations, but I believe that there's a point where 'focusing on her' too much can become way off-putting to many women.



Well said! Yes I love getting her off over and over. At the same time, there is something really sexy about "I'm going to take my pleasure on you!". I think the interplay of taking care of her and taking care of myself with a certain amount of of abandon using her body because she is so hot and sexy and I just want to fuck her brains out, is really where it's at.
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Definitely her orgasm first
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Definitely her orgasm first
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I love how overwhelmingly this forum seems to be leaning towards giving, more than being selfish.

I'm an empath, so my lover's orgasm (the more vigorous and intense the better), is a massive pleasure to experience (for me). My own orgasm is more like a punctuation to the experience than the main agenda.
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as a bisexual woman in a relationship with a girl it is important to me that she is satisfied. she always cums first.
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Hers first always it makes a woman so much more exciting to have several orgasms. I love performing oral on her and watching her have many orgasms usually this leads to her begging for my cock to be inside her..
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Always hers....such a turn on to be able to do that!!
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Depends on mood...but I'll be sure she has at least two by the end, unless it's a quickie and there isn't time ;)
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Quote by GirlyWorld
For me, bringing a woman to an orgasmic state is the ultimate reward in a sexual context. I have always focused on pleasuring my female partners, and I've spent many hours pampering them to this end. The more I make them scream, squeal, squirt and beg, the better. Fact is, the more she enjoys the experience sexually, the more I am satisfied mentally. Otherwise, "Jizz happens!"

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It's all about hers! Men are addicted to sex. Women are addicted to good sex.
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It's all about pleasing my lover. The more I can make him cum...there's more for me to lap.
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Her first, each time and every time.
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Hers, everytime anytime.
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Absolutely agree, her orgasm on intensifies what I get in return.
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I don't think it is one or the other, but I will not cum if she doesn't cum. Otherwise what's the point of fucking? If you are guy and just wanna cum, buy some smuts and soap. But if you are gonna fuck a a precious creation like a woman, you MUST earn the respect of the pussy. You must beat it up and make it purr. Anything less, you do not deserve being called back. Maybe this is not obvious, but sex is a ton more fun when the woman cums - even more if she cums multiple times in a session.
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The act of making love is to share pleasure. I enjoy giving my lover as much pleasure as possible. Being able to make her cum is almost as pleasurable for me as it is for her (that's just my opinion)