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Her orgasm or yours?

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Her first. I make her squirm until she begs for it.
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Being able to make a woman moan and have an orgasm (or 2 or more) is the best way to show how good you are in bed. For me, it's all about pleasing my woman.
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This is even posted on my Profile Page!
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This is even posted on my Profile Page!


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It is mainly Hers. ... I caress, tease, lost of foreplay.... until they moan, wet and get wild. get her on to edge for a long time and enjoys her horny eyes. after several orgasms and getting her squirting only I am satisfied. so it IS hers
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I love to find it so much more pleasurable to give her hers before I get mine. As its eaiser to share her second or third with your own
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I love to find it so much more pleasurable to give her hers before I get mine. As its eaiser to share her second or third with your own
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Ladies first...always!
Chuckanator
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It's not a race to finish line. Ideal is both at same time. She usually has multiple orgasms. Fingers, toungue and dick. So that means she would come 1st 2nd 3rd. I'll gladly take 4th in this competition.
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Always hers. My favorite thing in the whole world to watch and be a part of.
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Hers.
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I think it depends on the situation, and the person, but I like to please. With the right partner, pleasing leads to being pleased. In fact, pleasing leads to ambivalence towards necessity of the order of pleasing.
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I like for hers to cum first
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Hers, hers, and hers. Sometimes, I'm fine with not. Just making her cum over and over and feeling her clamp down on my cock is enough of and emotional fulfillment, that I'm cool with cuddling up after she's completely finished...
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it mostly her for me but it better if both of you orgasm at same time with cum coming out both of you as she squeezes you like a vice
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I always made sure she got at least two
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Hers always first then it is my turn
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My goal is hers first or at the same time as me. Sometimes it doesn't work that way but we all have fun trying.
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My goal is hers first or at the same time as me. Sometimes it doesn't work that way but we all have fun trying.
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Hers first always! Quite simply because her orgasm is epic compared to mine, the way she writhes, thrashes about smashing my face onto her pussy and buckling her hips, its my favourite thing in the world! As Discovery Channel has taught me, a woman's orgasm is more elusive, but when achieved it is more intense than a man's because there are twice as many nerve endings in the clitoris than at the tip if the penis, and it lasts much much longer as well. She also gets these little aftershocks which I love! However, the downside is that her orgasms are so intense that she says she can cum only once in a day (but I am yet to push her theory on that).
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Always hers, unless I get clear indications that it's unlikely to happen.

If it's all systems go, then I like to see how many I can extract!

It's like the leaderboard on Space Invaders.
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Her 15/20 first.....even at the expense of me not having one at all.......
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A gentleman always tries to put his lady first.
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I am going to speak the truth. I do want her to cum first, second, whatever. But just because that is my intention, it doesn't always happen that way. For instance, suppose you are both getting close and you give it a little extra, or add some strumming or sucking to it so she cums first, but as she gets close she tightens, maybe spasms, and makes you cum first? I have had something like that happen.
Further, what are we going to do if she feels that way about us? Suppose she knows it is harder for you because of the new medication you are taking for whatever, and she knows she can cum quickly, at almost any time. Thus, she insists on your cumming first? Or simultaneously?
I just want to point out that this is a great question for guys to pile up points hypothetically with the ladies, but if we think of real life situations, I think the truth for me is at least on paper I always put her first, there could be many reasons why two people who love each other know who needs an orgasm the most that very day and it isn't her???? That way, if we are both satisfied, it works as a whole better for both of us. So I would affirm the "US' we make in this. I hope that is clear. lol
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Ive always felt that sex is simply better when she gets off as much as possible. It makes her more enthusiastic and open, and I love love love sex noises and dirty talk, so getting her off keeps me hard for ages.
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Silly question!!! HERS, HERS, HERS and always HERS first, last and always.. You gotta keep the ladies happy enough for a return visit! If it was all about the males orgasm then they wouldn`t have put our tongues so close to her clitoris, nor would they have invented fingers that curl up just right to massage the G-spot so perfectly!!!
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