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Ok guys. How long can you last during a sex session and what was the quickest you came?
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Guys. How long can you last.
Active Ink Slinger
It depends on how anxious/excited I am from the warm up for how long I last.2PVAu7rVaawokAYz 
Quickest ... half way in and I "LOST IT" before I got full depth, 
but dang it was GOOOOOD!! 
Sadly, I live / survive on those memories now.xZakUb9bD93aB3vM 
Active Ink Slinger
Quickest? lets just say it was a game of "Just the tip" haha bu that was a Looooong time ago.
How long? That depends on a lot of things I wait till she's satisfied, usually 20-30 mins. But if she wants an all nighter, i'll have a couple of drinks and can go till the sun comes up, or goes down. Really depends on her and what she would like.
How long? That depends on a lot of things I wait till she's satisfied, usually 20-30 mins. But if she wants an all nighter, i'll have a couple of drinks and can go till the sun comes up, or goes down. Really depends on her and what she would like.
Not long enough, usually, though if I have time for "seconds" things improve. PE is a problem for me, esp. if I'm not getting off regularly or I am very excited/nervous about the encounter. Usually, I am okay through foreplay, but tend to go off fairly quickly once fellatio or intercourse commences. A patient, skillful partner can help me enjoy it more even when things go awry.
Advanced Wordsmith
If I'm REALLY worked up, then 5-10 minutes.
Normally, 20-30 minutes.
If I get it up a second time shortly after the first, I can go pretty much as long as I/she wants.
Normally, 20-30 minutes.
If I get it up a second time shortly after the first, I can go pretty much as long as I/she wants.
Clumeleon
70–80 years.
Active Ink Slinger
Thanks guys. Great answers well almost all great answers.
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by mrd82
often, too long. and that's not a humblebrag--finishing is sometimes a problem for me. not sure why.
Honestly, it makes me feel better to know I'm not the only one. Thanks, amigo.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by mrd82
often, too long. and that's not a humblebrag--finishing is sometimes a problem for me. not sure why.
Lots of reasons why, but we don't want to analyse it. Gets worse with age, lol.
Active Ink Slinger
I can last a while, but I have to build my stamina to do so. After weeks/months with out sex it's not as easy to maintain.
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Active Ink Slinger
Quote by mrd82
often, too long. and that's not a humblebrag--finishing is sometimes a problem for me. not sure why.
Not saying that this applies to you, but too much masturbation can cause this problem. If you're dick is used to your kungfu death grip, it's hard to replicate the same tight grip in a woman.....
Alternatively some meds have the same effect
Gentleman Stranger
It varies widely, from 10 - 30 minutes normally, maybe up to an hour if we take a time "out" to play and share a bit of oral in the middle of it. But also, when extremely aroused by foreplay or other things it can be as little as a couple of minutes. No set time...which keep us guessing, but just because I'm done doesn't mean I'm done with her. That's one of the joys of a multi-orgasmic partner!
The quickest? There were a couple of times at the start of this whole life's-adventure when I barely got it out of my pants...and once when I didn't! I was 16...what can I say? I'd like to think I've improved...
The quickest? There were a couple of times at the start of this whole life's-adventure when I barely got it out of my pants...and once when I didn't! I was 16...what can I say? I'd like to think I've improved...
Active Ink Slinger
most men will lie about this soo ima give the truth.. the first time u bust doesn't count.. its really just build up..... u cant jack off because your hand doesn't fel like a pussy..... most men like 85% will last between 3-13 mins. the shortest ive been would be 13 mins... but that was the first one.. the second one can go on until u need too.. but that's just me
Cryptic Vigilante
That's extremely variable for me and dependent on a lot of factors:
- If I was having sex with a tight supermodel and was somehow forced to fuck her at full speed: probably 1-5 minutes.
- If I was allowed to modify the rhythm while fucking: probably closer to 5-10 minutes.
- If I'm wearing a thick condom and fucking an average-looking girl instead (or one that I'm more accustomed to): probably closer to 15-20 minutes.
- If I apply my numbing cream and/or I'm allowed to switch to cunnilingus at will: probably as long as I want to.
Not to mention that my mood can influence these numbers a lot.
A lot of men can't last as long as they pretend to, by the way. I've read a few times that 45% of men ejaculate in 2 minutes or less, and that the average time is somewhere between 5-7 minutes:
The way it is for me is that I very rarely cum accidentally; most of the times I can 'decide' when I cum, but I usually reach a point where stimulating my dick just a bit more will make me cum. That way, I'm more prone to 'premature climax' than to 'premature ejaculation' per se.
When I approach climax, there are different ways I can handle it: I can switch to a different technique that doesn't stimulate my dick for a few minutes, or I can allow myself to cum if I feel we've fucked for long enough already. Sometimes if I unexpectedly approach climax after only a few minutes but still feel like indulging in hardcore in-and-out fucking, I can also cum on the girl right away and wait for my second round to fuck her appropriately; I usually enjoy licking/fingering her pussy (or her ass) right after that. Playing with a pussy while observing my cum all over a girl makes me utterly horny, so I'm usually ready to go after around 10-15 minutes; the girl can enjoy a few oral orgasms in the meantime (which are actually easier to provoke than during a proper fucking session for a lot of girls).
That said, I usually try to avoid reaching climax too soon by switching to many different techniques: I can stick my cock deep inside her pussy and massage her clit with my hand instead, I can slap/massage her clit with my dick, I can stimulate her g-spot with the head of my cock (which doesn't build my own climax at all), I can slow down and kiss her passionately, I can switch to oral/rimming, I can ask the girl to ride my cock instead (which is often less intense), etc., etc. Most of these fun techniques don't stimulate my dick in any way and they're just as enjoyable for the girl, which is great.
And I usually keep two different brands of condoms at hand: thin ones and thick ones. The thin ones are great because they're transparent and barely apparent on my dick, and they provide more stimulation. The thick ones have more of a whitish tint, but they're great to significantly reduce the stimulation on my dick. I can choose one or the other depending on my mood and/or what I want to perform. And then I have my numbing cream which I discussed about a few times on these forums and which allows me to fuck intensely for pretty much as long as I want to.
Having said that, I rarely see the point in fucking for more than around 20 minutes for each round (excluding foreplay): me and my partner can already go through many different positions/techniques in that much time, so anything longer than that usually gets a bit repetitive. Just watch a regular porn scene, and you'll see that the actors can go through a lot of motions in a relatively short amount of time.
- If I was having sex with a tight supermodel and was somehow forced to fuck her at full speed: probably 1-5 minutes.
- If I was allowed to modify the rhythm while fucking: probably closer to 5-10 minutes.
- If I'm wearing a thick condom and fucking an average-looking girl instead (or one that I'm more accustomed to): probably closer to 15-20 minutes.
- If I apply my numbing cream and/or I'm allowed to switch to cunnilingus at will: probably as long as I want to.
Not to mention that my mood can influence these numbers a lot.
A lot of men can't last as long as they pretend to, by the way. I've read a few times that 45% of men ejaculate in 2 minutes or less, and that the average time is somewhere between 5-7 minutes:
Quote by [url=http://www.risingmaster.com/what-is-premature-ejaculation-definitions-statistics/
RingMaster.com[/url]]In 2005 a study across 5 countries found that the average time men lasted during sex was just 5.4 minutes.
The way it is for me is that I very rarely cum accidentally; most of the times I can 'decide' when I cum, but I usually reach a point where stimulating my dick just a bit more will make me cum. That way, I'm more prone to 'premature climax' than to 'premature ejaculation' per se.
When I approach climax, there are different ways I can handle it: I can switch to a different technique that doesn't stimulate my dick for a few minutes, or I can allow myself to cum if I feel we've fucked for long enough already. Sometimes if I unexpectedly approach climax after only a few minutes but still feel like indulging in hardcore in-and-out fucking, I can also cum on the girl right away and wait for my second round to fuck her appropriately; I usually enjoy licking/fingering her pussy (or her ass) right after that. Playing with a pussy while observing my cum all over a girl makes me utterly horny, so I'm usually ready to go after around 10-15 minutes; the girl can enjoy a few oral orgasms in the meantime (which are actually easier to provoke than during a proper fucking session for a lot of girls).
That said, I usually try to avoid reaching climax too soon by switching to many different techniques: I can stick my cock deep inside her pussy and massage her clit with my hand instead, I can slap/massage her clit with my dick, I can stimulate her g-spot with the head of my cock (which doesn't build my own climax at all), I can slow down and kiss her passionately, I can switch to oral/rimming, I can ask the girl to ride my cock instead (which is often less intense), etc., etc. Most of these fun techniques don't stimulate my dick in any way and they're just as enjoyable for the girl, which is great.
And I usually keep two different brands of condoms at hand: thin ones and thick ones. The thin ones are great because they're transparent and barely apparent on my dick, and they provide more stimulation. The thick ones have more of a whitish tint, but they're great to significantly reduce the stimulation on my dick. I can choose one or the other depending on my mood and/or what I want to perform. And then I have my numbing cream which I discussed about a few times on these forums and which allows me to fuck intensely for pretty much as long as I want to.
Having said that, I rarely see the point in fucking for more than around 20 minutes for each round (excluding foreplay): me and my partner can already go through many different positions/techniques in that much time, so anything longer than that usually gets a bit repetitive. Just watch a regular porn scene, and you'll see that the actors can go through a lot of motions in a relatively short amount of time.
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Ok guys. How long can you last during a sex session and what was the quickest you came?
The quickest I've ever cum was immediately upon insertion. It was my first time, ever, and while the rapid response was unwelcomed by me, I didn't lose my hard-on, and was able to continue to a second cumming - and even a third! I was young and energetic.
Here lately, it seems to take forever to cum. I've never timed it, but I know that at least once it was more than 20 minutes (in Brazil, I was told that the woman would be mine "to keep for 20 minutes" and I had to pay extra because of the overtime).
Active Ink Slinger
I think the quickest I ever came from fucking was probably just shy of a minute. I'm sure if I was really motivated I could get off in probably 15-20 seconds but I've never had a reason to try.
On average it's maybe about four minutes but it really depends on how quickly I've managed to get her off (ladies first, am I right gentlemen?).
Longest, with straight-forward, uninterrupted fucking, would be about 20 minutes (excluding the times I didn't get off at all). That was a pretty isolated incident though.
On average it's maybe about four minutes but it really depends on how quickly I've managed to get her off (ladies first, am I right gentlemen?).
Longest, with straight-forward, uninterrupted fucking, would be about 20 minutes (excluding the times I didn't get off at all). That was a pretty isolated incident though.
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Rookie Scribe
Well really it varies for me. Depends on the person, the setting, the surroundings. Depends on the time of day even. And also depends on how many times I may have already gotten off. The quickest ever?? Hmmm, probably about 30 seconds - kissing, feeling, OH SHIT IS THAT HER HAND IN MY PANTS? DAMN IT what a mess I made 
Yep - young love.
Yep - young love. 
Active Ink Slinger
Once again, age has helped prolong the climax. Now I enjoy edging as long as possible.....and spending more time on her. But after I enter her, it's usually only a matter of minutes, which is the case for her too since we're both on the edge by that time.
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Advanced Wordsmith
The quickest I came, literally the second push. It was a girl I unexpectedly hooked up with (later she was my gf). It was so embarrassing.
Normally I would last about 15 to 25 minutes.
Long sessions can be up to 3+ hours but that's with edging and taking short breaks.
short ones, about 5 minute, from penetration to ejaculating.
Normally I would last about 15 to 25 minutes.
Long sessions can be up to 3+ hours but that's with edging and taking short breaks.
short ones, about 5 minute, from penetration to ejaculating.
Active Ink Slinger
I cum very fast if i get pleasured very fast. It all depends on the pleasure balance. If pleasure comes very fast then i cum fast. If it comes slowly, then i last long.
Wouldn't you rather have a nice cup of tea?
I can cum in less than five minutes if I'm really turned on. With a woman I've gone about 25 minutes. I could probably go longer depending on my partner.
On my own, I've edged for up to 6 hours straight (though a usual session is more like 1.5 - 2 hours), and the only reason I came was because I was getting bored.
Cumming quickly feels good (I mean, you're cumming, so what's to complain about?), but I do prefer to take it slowly and build up to a huge climax.
On my own, I've edged for up to 6 hours straight (though a usual session is more like 1.5 - 2 hours), and the only reason I came was because I was getting bored.
Cumming quickly feels good (I mean, you're cumming, so what's to complain about?), but I do prefer to take it slowly and build up to a huge climax.
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Active Ink Slinger
im good for at least 5 minutes