I once asked a young twenty something woman why she preferred older men.
Her answer was they take their time and they last longer the older they are.
Not get on, get off, and get off
they they are more inclined to take the time to assure their lover of an orgasm or multiple ones because they are more likely to engage in lengthy foreplay and teasing.
For me it all depends on all the usual things.. how turned on i am, how much stimulation I've gotten before penetration, how long since my last orgasm, what position we are in.. and so on.
I usually last a few minutes if we go slow and I pace myself. If I get over the peek without climaxing I can go for another 10 minutes or more before it builds up again.
If she wants me to just "go for it" then I can get off really quickly though.
The quickest for me was the very first time I was with an x-gf. We were fooling around in bed but still had our clothes on... she was on top of me and all of a sudden she pulls my cock out of my sweat shorts, pulls her shorts and panties aside and slips me into her via the leg opening. It was so unexpected that I came nearly right away. She was definitely a little disappointed but round two lasted much longer and she was satisfied. lol
I can last for 15/20 minutes easily. Quickest I came was within the minute, but I was really young when that happened.
I depends on the situation. If we have been fooling around and lots of stimulation i last a few minutes once penetration, but if its just a little foreplay and then penetration it can be 10-15 minutes.
Quickest for me was a couple of minutes. I was excited and just lost my virginity. Although I was feeling that orgasmic rush, I didn't care for the fact that she was not even close to there.
Longest for me was close to 4 hours. We had a lot of fun, and I got her off many times. But in the same token she was getting frustrated because she was feeling that she wasn't able to satisfy me, even though she totally was.
If you are counting just sex it is always more than 5-6 min
Although I am certainly below the 13" monsterdick 7 hour fucksession average on here... :P I will try to be honest.
I have never really kept time, something would be wrong if I was counting the minutes, haha, but I think from foreplay to finish, about 40 minutes?? Very roughly? Maybe 30, maybe 45. Above half an hour but less than an hour I suppose.
I never know if that's good or not. I always make sure to get an orgasm out of her before I finish if possible.
typically I last around a minute or so, Fastest would be the times Ive came in my pants before starting.
When I'm with one that I love? As long as she does, but as soon as her face scrunches up and the moans come from her mouth as SHE cums....yeah, even if I was nowhere near 'the edge' at that point, I'd very quickly be over it.
Otherwise, I'm one of those weird people who can't 'let go'. I've got to the point where I've given up long before I cum- there is just NO 'I need to cum' sensations unless I'm really trusting of the person I'm with. And the girls, contrary to popular belief, DON'T love it. They really really want you to cum, or they feel bad. Undesired and broken, almost. Not as bad as if I was a 30 second wonder, perhaps...but they don't feel great about it
I do love reading these. Yes I can sneak in here every now and then.. From a gals side, if I am having a hard time cumming, and he cums, that will usually send me over. And I agree with AngryLover, if my Lover dont cum, I wonder what is wrong with me, what didn't I do right..
Of course the answer here is 'it all depends.' For me, I can last a fairly long time as long as the woman does not get me going so well that all I want to do is just bust a nut. This could happen, for instance, if she's sucking me hard and finds that 'sweet spot' on my head or shaft. I'll feel my cum loading up in the upper most portion of my shaft. I know at that point I have to get her to back off a bit or she's going to have a warm, creamy mouthful!
Hmmmmmm...
On AVERAGE I'd say from 30-40 minutes of the SERIOUS in-'n-out... (But, I'm not shy about saying, 'oh, give me a second' and SLOWING DOWN if I think that will please her/both of us... Even getting out of there for a time and doing other stuff!!)
Of course, there ARE TIMES when I won't wait... You can TELL if she's going to MIND you being QUICKER and if she DOESN'T, then I think that's fine, IN FACT, it can pleasure her MORE that you don't want to WAIT!!!
Recovery Time can be an issue right there!!! (About 10-15 minutes for ME depending upon the MOMENT...)
I LIKE to bring a lover to MORDEN, (a London Underground joke...) before I finish, preferably with at least two 'OOOOHS!' as we travel! (I Mind The Gap!!!)
To be clear, with CERTAINLY every long-term lover I've ever had THERE WILL BE OCCASIONS where she ISN'T going to cum... (an EXPERIENCED male lover will ACCEPT that as in NO WAY critical of his efforts...) Women are MUCH NICER like that than men!!!
(BTW an INEXPERIENCED lover, (I WAS that soldier!!!) will QUIZ a lover as to WHAT didn't work??? Might as well divide the CD collection RIGHT AT THAT POINT in my SAD experience...) Women HATE that shit!!!
Worth pointing out also that men, EVEN THOSE IN A RELATIONSHIP, masturbate alone AS WELL as fuck their lovers. In THAT case, I can come in a little as a minute. (Less if her used knickers are under my nose...)
Now, THERE'S honesty for ya!
xx SF
(Once, (to my GREAT SHAME...) at a dinner party with several other couples we knew EXTREMELY well, I opined, AND IN ALL SERIOUSNESS, that I HAD NEVER HAD a woman FAKE an orgasm with me... My THEN GF and the other three girls at the table laughed SO MUCH they CHOKED on their Chardonnay as ME and the other guys looked at each other in disbelief and SHOCK!!!) True Story!!!
Depends who you are with, when was the last time you had sex, and excited you are
As long as it takes to make sure my lover is fully satisfied and has had several orgasms. After all, I am a gentleman, and gentlemen always finish last.
I can cum pretty much whenever I decide to, thanks to way too much masturbation when I was younger. If the sex isn't that great or we have been at it for a while (30min+) and my dick is starting to get desensitized, I'm more likely to have to exert some conscious effort to get myself to cum rather than stop myself from doing it. Third time cumming in two days usually starts feeling forced.
Of course there can be situations where it's simply too exciting and you can't help it. The only time in recent memory when I came uncontrollably was the first time with a blonde teen girl with a gorgeous ass. I hadn't had any sex for two months, which was a large contributing factor. I was on top, able to control my thrusts, but it felt too good without a condom and her tight wet pussy inevitably milked the load out of me after just a few minutes. I felt like a teen with premature ejaculation all over again and was so embarrassed for a moment, but also sufficiently turned on by her to continue without going limp and made it up for her with a 45-minute session fucking her silly before cumming again. After all, I couldn't have broken my promise that I'd show her what older guys are all about. ;)
Cant remember exactly but I always went the distance .. anything from 1 - 3 minutes I think.
Definitely a depends answer. If she wants me to go longer I'll have her give me a blow job first. I recover pretty quickly and then can go a lot longer.
I usually get her all worked up first with oral and playing with her toys. By that time she wants me to get in and give her a good hard fuck. She usually cums multiple times before I finally bust my nut. I need her to cum first before I cum. I can feel her cumming as she clamps down with her pussy.
I'd say most times it is probably between 20 to 30 minutes. If it goes longer than that she needs lube as it would hurt her and then it isn't fun for either of us. This is a classic case where quality is better than quantity. Going to long can be a bad thing.
I can cum really fast, u know when there is no time and both want to have a quick fuck. So then it can take like 2 minutes or so, giving our best to fuck as hard as possible and being quite noicy.
But the longest, it depends on how u want to do it. I love to change the rythem and it helps me a lot to last longer, more than an hour being 100% producitve =) hehehe. That brings a lot of orgasm to a lady =)
As most have said, its very variable, depending on a number of things. For me, what affects the time is how long it is since I last ejaculated, how eager for sex my partner is, and how much and what type of foreplay has preceded the actual penetration (I put fellatio as foreplay). Timewise, I have cum in just a couple of minutes and also have lasted close to a half hour. As I got older, fortunately the longer was more usual, but also so did the recharge time. But there's plenty to do with your lover apart from just penetrating her.
