Guys, how do you trust a woman that you got to cheat?

29 Oct 2012

I never asked or tried to get anybody to cheat. I ask this because I had a girlfriend that told me she loved me and want to spend the rest of her life with me cheat on me. She is now married to the guy with which she cheated and I always wondered how he could trust her.

Also, I suspected that he could be a member of Lush. I am also fairly certain she would have a complete fit if she knew he visited any web sight like this. I was casting a line and I got a really big bite on it. After she officially dumped me and started dating him I ran into them once and he ran as quickly as he could from me leaving her alone with me. I remember as I talked to her she wouldn't look me in the eyes.

And by the way, I caught him looking for sex on line so I know he cheats on her at least by her own definition.

I will also say that I am much happier because she left me. I don't know if her situation is good or not. I just wish she would have been honest with me because I have no respect for her now.

3 Feb 2018

Well, I don't plan to marry her. If she isn't getting satisfied sexually and is willing to have a go with me, I'm in. If she goes all nympho and starts fucking any and everybody, well, that's her business. At this point, she's leaving quite a trail and her hubby is going to find out. If she stays with just me, it can be a FWB thing. She's going to be discreet about it I would think. I will treat her with respect and try to keep it about the sex, since that's the whole point of us getting together.

3 Feb 2018

It would depend on the circumstances, it can't be generalised.

For example, imagine a situation where it's a good friend of yours who isn't getting satisfied in her relationship, and you gradually become intimately close with her. I would see no problem whatsoever with trusting her.

3 Feb 2018

I trust no one. I expect women to cheat. It's when they lie about it that ends it for me. Just be honest about it.