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Guys, have you ever paid a woman for sex?

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JefferyB
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Sure I have ... I paid a LOT for each of my first two wives. And I didn't get a lot for the money spent!
bill11
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No I have never directly paid for it
Paman
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Marriage is the price men pay for sex. Sex is the price women pay for marriage.
Guest
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First off, any guy that says the usual, "I've never had to." is a douche bag. There aren't many people that actually have to. You do it because you want to. You do it to get what you want, when you want & with no strings attached.

I've paid twice, each for oral sex from a prostitute (2 different ones). I'm not ashamed in any way. I'd do it again if I wasn't so broke. And married, boo hoo.
LarsKaiden
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No, I have never paid a woman (or man) for sex. Firstly, it would be a waste of my money, and secondly I would be afraid of catching something. Having said that, I agree with others that have said it's a choice, and I have no problem with those who do.
BosDom55
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Married 21 years. I'm on the installment plan.


OMG - I LAUGHED!~~
BosDom55
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Quote by c50t
Married 21 years. I'm on the installment plan.


OMG - I LAUGHED!~~
BosDom55
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I used to have a roomie, Melinda. We fucked and she gave great head as a roomie, then became something of a pro. I would have her suck me off - and it was well worth what I paid her... She and one other woman were the only ones I actually paid for sex
jack76
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u pay for every bit of pussy you get, directly or indirectly
Guest
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Nope never have never will
JimB01
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when I was younger I paid A couple of times
Guest
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yes - many times
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I wonder sometimes about my coworkers.... they go out at night get incredibly drunk... try and get some, and end up with a 2am "partner" the regret or I hear the stories about.

I wonder if they would be better "paying for it" and having no regrets and no hangover the next day.
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I pay them to leave
ZigDust
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No, but I've definitely thought about it lately.
Porgy87
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Just once. I hired a pro named "Doris" to relieve me of my virginity. She was kind and efficient.
Saintz
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Yes, twice.

Once in the Redlight district (I live in Amsterdam) and once a callgirl.
I did it to satisfy my curiousity.
EricRhodes
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Yes, but not in the conventional way most think of as paying for sex. Married my pregnant GF at 18, a father at 19, totally worth the price I had to pay for my stupidity, two daughters. Priceless, would not change a thing.
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LOL DEFINE "paid!" First of all, YES, I have enjoyed prostitutes (the HONEST women). Next, as a female friend of mine observed on a similar thread in "Ask the Gals", basicly, anytime you take a woman out and pay for everything the two of you DO you ARE "PAYING" for sex! Lastly, the MOST EXPENSIVE form of prostitution is MARRIAGE! So, by and large, MUCH MORE OFTEN than not you ARE paying for it in some way. The only question really amounts to is it a socially and legally ACCEPTABLE way.
1nympholes
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Guys I am confused. If only a few of the men in the world paid for sex, how its it that some Escorts do so well financially. But then I am Blonde!
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I have done it too,when I was younger also,but at the time it was nice!
HotLittleMoments
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Yes. For one thing sex is a physical need as well as an emotional one, especially for men. Particularly if you're travelling, or your spouse or partner is away, paying for sex is a good way to satisfy a physical need without risking the development of a potential emotional attachment to someone else. Of course, it's a question of available time and access to discretionary spending as well as being attracted to the prospect of a sexy new experience.

It doesn't work, without guilt attached, if you believe sex is indivisible from commitment or emotional ties to a partner, or if you have a disposition towards jealousy.

In my experience, anecdotally, more women do this (under similar circumstances) than may be apparent in social data. I know a number of women who have spent a considerable amount of time travelling on business, often on extended international trips, and who pay for sex occasionally or even regularly.

I know my wife did this and, as similar occasions arise, still does. The same applies on solo holidays. When she's been away, or I have, we understand that the other will probably have sex by some means or other if it is desired.

The general rule of the market applies. The more you pay, the better and more comfortable the performance and experience offered.
Ambrose
SereneProdigy
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Not directly, but girls often send me the bill of repairs when we have rough sex at their apartment.
ChuckEPoo
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I used to pay through the nose. In fact, I was on the payment plan. I was married.
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When I was in Rio I did, once. She worked as a hooker at a night club, and since that was the reason we met, yes, I had to pay for it. She was worth the price, I guess - I was well satisfied with her efforts.
HappyEndings
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Quote by 1nympholes
Guys I am confused. If only a few of the men in the world paid for sex, how its it that some Escorts do so well financially. But then I am Blonde!


Most men won't admit it. They think it's admitting that they're somehow undesirable. Faced with the opportunity, very few men I know would turn it down if they could afford to pay for sex and if they felt they wouldn't get caught by the law or the wife/GF/SO.

I certainly would LOVE to have sex with a woman/women that demanded all the money they would ever get from me just for a sexual encounter.

Sex is a wonderful thing and except for a few magical men that almost all women seem to want, most of us go around wishing we had a lot more sex and to have it a lot more often than we do.

Prostitution is forbidden in almost all of the US and public humiliation and even jail time are the client and professional sex worker's fear. This is ridiculous. Those laws are archaic and uneducated but it will likely never change here because women don't want to release their sexual stranglehold on men.

I know I sound bitter and I'm really not. Just disappointed and frustrated like the average American male.

Prostitution should be regulated, taxed, and treated like any other profession. After all.... It's really the oldest profession in the world. ;)

As to the original question. No... I never have but wish I could without the fear of criminal prosecution or disease. The lack of prostitution is undoubtedly one of the major reasons for a lot of the perversion running rampant in this country.

In most of the world it is quite common for a man to have a wife and a mistress (prostitute) that he pays for sex by "keeping her" in the things she needs. It's sometimes illegal but largely ignored.

Now I'm reading that a lot of young college girls are turning to "sugar daddies" to help them with college expenses. Of course this is thinly veiled prostitution. I see nothing wrong with this but the law frowns heavily on it and from what I understand is doing it's level best to stop it.
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
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Never. Not my style at all.