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Guys - do you have any problem with her getting rough and physical with you - such as smacking your

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I love rough sex both ways. One of the sexiest things ever a woman has done to me was smack me in the face while she was ridding me. Also, I enjoy a woman digging her fingernails into me while fucking her. The harder she digs them in, the harder I'll fuck her.
I sometimes even put my hand in my wife's mouth for her to bite while fucking her hard. And again, the harder she bites me the harder I bang her. It hurts, but in that good way
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I enjoy being sub and enjoy being hurt but draw line at the balls some things are a deffinat NO
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I like if my women gets spittle rough and tells me what she wants.
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i've done this several times with a woman. I am into role playing from time to time and if the woman is into doing it why not ? let her have some fun with it as us men do. I like it when she wants to dominate me in the bedroom & make me submissive for a night. If she wants me to suck her strap on cock or bend me over to slap my ass, go for it. Talk dirty to me as you make me do whatever you want tonight.
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It's nice to let the roles shift back and forth from time to time. Sometimes I want her to know how crazy hot she makes me and let her see the "impulses" that she inspires. Conversely, I love knowing that she's "driven" sexually as well and if there're moments when she wants to tackle me and get what she needs "NOW" then, I feel lucky and flattered.
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I enjoy having my ass smacked, scratching, and having my balls handled roughly, but not into being tied up and taped. I guess i like pain but not humiliation and submissiveness.
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Well I do not mind at all and no I do not have problem with my gf been on me. SHe can scratch me, spank me, bite, squeeze, etc. I think it is very hot if she did went a lil dominant over me though I am more dominant, but i have no problem for my baby to be rough on me lol I do like her to be rough. ;)
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I like it hard and rough. As long as she can give it back, I will fuck her lights out.
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I like rough sex, but rough sex only works both ways. Each person giving as much as they can take themselves.
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Not if she is gentle about it. LOL.... If I understand the point here, I do not like anyone to be demeaning to me in any way, just as I would never intentionally demean another. However, when a man loves a woman, there is a point at which the two lovers are in need to making a claim on the love of the other, mutually. I would be honored to be marked by a woman who truly is claiming me. My favorite way is for her to scratch my backside so strongly that she draws blood, marking her desire to claim me and mark me as HERS. As far as I am concerned there is a difference between asking a man to be a masochist to work out your own issues, and a couple being rough out of love that is real, mutual, and profound.
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Guys - do you have any problem with her getting rough and physical with you - such as smacking your ass, leaving scratch marks, squeezing hard on your testicles, tying you up, tape your mouth shut, pouring hot wax on you. I think it works both ways myself and more men should be submissive.

Twenty years ago, yes to all of the above. Now, give me a heads up. No ball squeezing, no hitting other than spanking, and no thanks on the wax. I've done a lot of stuff when I was younger, some was good, some just never felt right. Also, no spitting. My wife is the first woman I've ever allowed to choke me and it's a pretty normal part of our aggressive play. If anyone else touched my throat it would be over, no discussion, no debate, we are done. It's always been a hot button for me (almost hit the first massage therapist to touched me there before I even thought about it... Obviously some deep seeded issue that I should have worked out in therapy in my 20s).
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I especially love ball spanking.
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No I like a bit of pain, love it when she sucks and bits my nipples
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Admittedly...I'd try all of them. Have tried a few, but with most things the mood has to be right. Getting my ass slapped and scratch marks are always fun, but I cant see doing the others just anytime, ie. nooner / quickie ect.
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Having my testicles squeezed hard is not on my bucket list. Nor is hot wax. However, with the right woman ( whatever that means) - or man - I'd be willing to give almost anything a try. Hey, if she really wants that ....
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Balls squeezed tight and hot wax are out for sure. Scratch marks....YEAH! Tie me up, put duct tape over my mouth, spanking....if she really wants to, I'll oblige but they aren't my thing. I can play the part if it's her fantasy or fetish.

I actually do enjoy, when I'm going down on her and she really gets into it, for her to start pulling my hair.

So, the answer is yes, I enjoy it when she gets physical. For me, some of the best sex is when it's kind of a sexy wrestling match.
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YES ... I do NOT want to slap / hit / scratch or anything of that nature. IMHO, it is disrespectful. Slap / smack / scratch me and its over! Let me say that fingernails just barely caressing skin is pure pleasure. Scratching to point of leaving marks or drawing blood is a big NO-NO.
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Personally, I encourage this type of behavior. Makes me wanna go rougher.
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Generally speaking, no, I don't enjoy playing the submissive. And this has nothing to do with 'having things done to me' or 'putting the girl in charge', I just don't like perceiving myself as a weak little male that obeys to his woman in fear of retribution; to me, that would be as off-putting as fucking a bearded strongwoman. I enjoy feeling masculine and fucking feminine women, and the natural interaction that results from this male/female synergy where I assume the greatest part of control and initiate most actions. And I wouldn't exactly call myself a 'dominant' either, to me sex naturally is an act where 'a man does things to a woman', and not the other way around: in most sexual scenarios, if I didn't initiate things and manifest some form of assertiveness there wouldn't have been a whole lot happening.

That said, I do enjoy rough/physical partners, but more in a way where they try to assume control, or where they provide some form of resistance to what I'm performing myself: pushing me away as I'm trying to pin them down, trying to escape my hold as I'm grasping their arms, sitting on my face as some kind of revenge toward all the harsh things I previously did to them, etc. And it's also fun to let them assume some control too every once in a while just to see what they'll do to you, but again this isn't an act of submission as I'm still the one who initiates it and that's in charge. I did indulge in those 'dominatrix' scenarios a few times, but I then assumed the role of the 'potent man that's willingly putting himself at the service of woman', instead of the 'poor little man that must imperatively obey to his woman'.

Regarding all the specific maneuvers mentioned in the OP...

Smacking my ass: I don't mind the sensation, I just don't like it being done to me in a submissive atmosphere. A girl smacking my ass in a mischievous manner to tease me and to attest how firm it is is a nice thing, a girl trying to dominate and/or punish me usually isn't.

Scratch marks: It's not something that I actively seek, but I can tolerate it in some instances. It's not a sensation that particularly thrills me, but in the case of a rougher session I could hardly blame the girl for wanting to release some tension by clenching my back with her nails. That said, I much prefer when it's being done in a passionate/uncontrived manner, rather than a girl that's purposely trying to make me suffer. If I could choose however, I'd go without.

Squeezing my balls: That's a big no-no. This could be extremely dangerous and I don't enjoy a whole lot of focus on my balls anyway.

Tying me up: That's great, assuming that the girl is creative and knows how to make the best out of the situation. Again, I don't exactly see it as an act of submission (I'm often the one that proposes it anyway), it's just fun to let the girl assume full control and observe what she'll do to you when she's perfectly free; a girl could hardly dominate me and tie me up forcefully anyway, often times I'm the one that even instructs her on how to tie me. Funnily enough, according to my experiences this leads to something quite sensual much more often than something harsh: more often than not, the only 'cruel' things that girls do to me is teasing me and playing with orgasm denial.

Tape my mouth shut: I just don't see the point in that, so that's a no. I don't enjoy gagging girls myself either anyway.

Pouring hot wax on me: I absolutely love wax play! It's actually one of my favorite kinks. Contrarily to what many might think, it's not that brutal when you actually know what you're doing (you can read my guide if you need some tips). I just love the sensation, especially when I'm helplessly tied up and the girl is offering a blowjob/handjob at the same time: I adore the thrilling anticipation of hot wax dropping on my torso, the tingling sensation that propagates all over my body as the girl is playing with my dick, the awesome mess it creates, etc. Once more, I don't see it as submissive act at all, it's just something that girls can offer me which I thoroughly enjoy, just like a blowjob or a girl riding my cock isn't quite a proof of submissiveness.
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Im good with smacking and scratching but not so much ball squeezing or tying up.
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I enjoy an aggressive woman that likes to get a little rough sometimes. I haven't tried all those things but with the right woman I'm up for anything.
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Guys - do you have any problem with her getting rough and physical with you

Generally I am the more physical

leaving scratch marks
It's happened bu usually on my back or but from her climax, not from scratching me

squeezing hard on your testicles

I actually love this, fingernails, etc I guess I have strong balls, from gentle to rough, I love it.

tying you up

Yep I'm down for that

tape your mouth shut

Umm nope

pouring hot wax on you

hmmm maybe I've heard that there is a low temperature wax for sex play.

more men should be submissive.

I like women who take control and take charge from time to time, but no I am not submissive at all.
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It's a two-way street.
Nothing wrong with her getting on top and being a Dom.
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The first time my mom spanked me I was horrified that it was actually happening but the more she spanked me the more I found myself masturbating after the fact. It became quite apparent that I enjoyed being disciplined by a strong female personality. I've thanked her countless times for disciplining me in this manner and always look forward to the next time.
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One of my exes used to punch me in the face.
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Quote by SereneProdigy
Generally speaking, no, I don't enjoy playing the submissive. And this has nothing to do with 'having things done to me' or 'putting the girl in charge', I just don't like perceiving myself as weak little male that obeys to his woman in fear of retribution; to me, that would be as off-putting as fucking a bearded strongwoman. I enjoy feeling masculine and fucking feminine women, and the natural interaction that results from this male/female synergy where I assume the greatest part of control and initiate most actions. And I wouldn't exactly call myself a 'dominant' either, to me sex naturally is an act where 'a man does things to a woman', and not the other way around: in most sexual scenarios, if I didn't initiate things and manifest some form of assertiveness there wouldn't have been a whole lot happening.

That said, I do enjoy rough/physical partners, but more in a way where they try to assume control, or where they provide some form of resistance to what I'm performing myself: pushing me away as I'm trying to pin them down, trying to escape my hold as I'm grasping their arms, sitting on my face as some kind of revenge toward all the harsh things I previously did to them, etc. And it's also fun to let them assume some control too every once in a while just to see what they'll do to you, but again this isn't an act of submission as I'm still the one who initiates it and that's in charge. I did indulge in those 'dominatrix' scenarios a few times, but I then assumed the role of the 'potent man that's willingly putting himself at the service of woman', instead of the 'poor little man that must imperatively obey to his woman'.

Regarding all the specific maneuvers mentioned in the OP...

Smacking my ass: I don't mind the sensation, I just don't like it being done to me in a submissive atmosphere. A girl smacking my ass in a mischievous manner to tease me and to attest how firm it is is a nice thing, a girl trying to dominate and/or punish me usually isn't.

Scratch marks: It's not something that I actively seek, but I can tolerate it in some instances. It's not a sensation that particularly thrills me, but in the case of a rougher session I could hardly blame the girl for wanting to release some tension by clenching my back with her nails. That said, I much prefer when it's being done in a passionate/uncontrived manner, rather than a girl that's purposely trying to make me suffer. If I could choose however, I'd go without.

Squeezing my balls: That's a big no-no. This could be extremely dangerous and I don't enjoy a whole lot of focus on my balls anyway.

Tying me up: That's great, assuming that the girl is creative and knows how to make the best out of the situation. Again, I don't exactly see it as an act of submission (I'm often the one that proposes it anyway), it's just fun to let the girl assume full control and observe what she'll do to you when she's perfectly free; a girl could hardly dominate me and tie me up forcefully anyway, often times I'm the one that even instructs her on how to tie me. Funnily enough, according to my experiences this leads to something quite sensual much more often than something harsh: more often than not, the only 'cruel' things that girls do to me is teasing me and playing with orgasm denial.

Tape my mouth shut: I just don't see the point in that, so that's a no. I don't enjoy gagging girls myself either anyway.

Pouring hot wax on me: I absolutely love wax play! It's actually one of my favorite kinks. Contrarily to what many might think, it's not that brutal when you actually know what you're doing (you can read my guide if you need some tips). I just love the sensation, especially when I'm helplessly tied up and the girl is offering a blowjob/handjob at the same time: I adore the thrilling anticipation of hot wax dropping on my torso, the tingling sensation that propagates all over my body as the girl is playing with my dick, the awesome mess it creates, etc. Once more, I don't see it as submissive act at all, it's just something that girls can offer me which I thoroughly enjoy, just like a blowjob or a girl riding my cock isn't quite a proof of submissiveness.



I just want to sit & listen to you for days ??
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ive been slapped, restrained, choked, scratched and bitten but always by milfs
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I don't see the appeal in having my testicles squeezed or hot wax poured on me, but other than that she can get as rough as she likes.
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Quote by Ramona_likes
Guys - do you have any problem with her getting rough and physical with you - such as smacking your ass, leaving scratch marks, squeezing hard on your testicles, tying you up, tape your mouth shut, pouring hot wax on you. I think it works both ways myself and more men should be submissive.


Yes I would lol and I agree on the submissive , Id want to take it from a girl with a strap on too as she smacked my ass