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Guys - do you have any problem with her getting rough and physical with you - such as smacking your

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Not at all, the in fact it can be a huge turn on in the right situation, I like a girl with character! But I wouldn't want it like that all the time...
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My wife will scratch my back in the heat of passion. Thats when I know I'm hitting the right spots, got some fresh ones on my back from last nights amazing session smile
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I have no problem with being submissive with the right person which I trust.
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I would like to find a woman to try those things with. Every woman I have been with has been submissive. I would like to try the submissive role every once in awhile.
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id love it all,but,sqeezing the balls too much is a no no.tie them up tight&i luv it&hot wax!mmm.
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I could try being submissive but I don't think her even think her thinking of mistreating my balls would work. Sure she could try but id probably either take over and make sure she couldn't touch them again reversing the roles, or id fucking run for it
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i would happly give any thing a try ;)
Have fun.
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I absolutely love a woman who will dominate me! I love scratch marks, and fingernail marks in my back, its like a badge of honor! The only problem is finding a real woman who will do this to me! My has occasionally, but I crave it more often! I really love to be tied or cuffed while fucked with a strap-on!
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Guys - do you have any problem with her getting rough and physical with you - such as smacking your ass, leaving scratch marks, squeezing hard on your testicles, tying you up, tape your mouth shut, pouring hot wax on you. I think it works both ways myself and more men should be submissive.

Smacking ass.... check
Leaving scratch marks.... check
squeezing hard on my testicles.... um, no thank you
tying me up...... to some degree
tape my mouth shut.... not going to happen
hot was.... check

If my belle wanted to do rough things with me, short of ball gags, harsh physical restraint, cutting, and taping of the mouth, I am game. Nipple clamps, would work too. smile But I am far from a submissive guy. I just let my woman use me the way she wants to (within the guidelines I stated). I am not delicate. ;)
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Smacking ass.... check
Leaving scratch marks.... check
squeezing hard on my testicles.... um, no thank you
tying me up...... to some degree
tape my mouth shut.... not going to happen
hot was.... check

If my belle wanted to do rough things with me, short of ball gags, harsh physical restraint, cutting, and taping of the mouth, I am game. Nipple clamps, would work too. smile But I am far from a submissive guy. I just let my woman use me the way she wants to (within the guidelines I stated). I am not delicate. ;)


I'm ready for you hun
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No none whatsoever to be treated that way is as I would expect.
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No, in fact I encourage it.
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Guys should let the woman treat them rough even mean. Guys should feel special if they think enough of them to be rough. I'm more into women myself but some of my clients like me to really get rough with, which when you think of it is kinda of funny. I mean I'm 4 feet 10 inches and don't even weigh 90 pounds! LOL
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No problem with any of these things when between the two of us.
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I'm not into sub behavior. Or really dom stuff either. I'm a dedicated hedonist - pleasure all around!

That said, I enjoy MOST of the things you mentioned if the situation merits it. I've never had my mouth taped (seems needlessly limiting to me), and I'd never go for the testical squishing (just no).

Once I was with a gorgeous girl that I'd had an interest in for some time. She asked my friend what I liked, and he told her I'd enjoy having some nails run up my back. Well, she took him quite seriously and I ended up with some stripes. It was a surprise, and I ended up with some stripes for about a week, but fun. However, I immediatly let her know that kind of digging into my flesh was not my desire as a steady practice. We found many other ways to stimulate each other that didn't involve me scaring my neighbors at 3 am.
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I do enjoy a girl who is aggressive, such as slaps, digging her nails in, love bites etc... Nothing better than a girl who demands ;)

I'm not into BDSM or the like, if it doesn't turn me on it's not something i'll try.
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a little rough is fine. Scratch marks and smacking my ass is fine. I don't want my testicles squeezed.
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a little rough is fine. Scratch marks and smacking my ass is fine. I don't want my testicles squeezed.
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I don't mine rough action at all.....well as long as she doesn't hurt my balls or go too far. And as for being submissive, I'm not the type but my girl has always been a dom to others and from time to time I allow myself to be submissive to her, a man should please his lady as much as she pleases him
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Quote by Ramona_likes
Guys - do you have any problem with her getting rough and physical with you - such as smacking your ass, leaving scratch marks, squeezing hard on your testicles, tying you up, tape your mouth shut, pouring hot wax on you. I think it works both ways myself and more men should be submissive.


I am pretty much good with all of this. I actually love having my balls squeezed, not too hard, but enough to know she has control. There has to be respect and trust from both sides when playing these games. Nobody should get hurt, ever.

Never had my mouth taped shut yet. I do like hot wax. As far as the smacking, scratch marks, tied up...well I'm getting excited! But thats just the submissive in me coming out.
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Open to all except for the squeezing of the testes. Willing to try most thingsat least once though
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I cant say from experience but I suppose I would give some of that a try .. not taping my mouth up however .. how the hell could I continue to drink my tea!.
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Damn, I have to confess that I don't normally ask about being rough. With a guy I normally just am. A few guys have complained, especially the ones who have a wife or other girlfriend at home, but the roughness, scratch marks, bite marks, slaps and so on go with the territory.
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Well if I manage to bring out the animal in her I consider that to be a positive achievement. It is of course different for most men in this situation as opposed to women as you always know that you can retake charge of the situation physically. So mentally it is a different optic for men and women I think.
I'd be interested to find out the view of you women out there on that point...probably I should repost the question in "ask the gals"? Not a forum expert...
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I've done the hot wax but that did nothing for me! I prefered hot/iced drink blow jobs.
A girlfriend at uni turned into a wildcat when I went down on her, I had to try and get any vulneable parts out of her reach but she usually got a handful of my hair! She often drew blood on my back and shoulders by digging her nails in, that hurt!
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She scratchs the hell out of my back. I love it!! ;)
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Not my thing but. Sweet dreams are made of this.Who am I to disagree? I traveled the world & the seven sea's. Everybody's looking for something.
( Annie Lennox )
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Mmmmm. I love being spanked, caned, beaten, especially by a female. The other stuff mentioned? No thanks!
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Not a problem at all. My wife can do anything to me.