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Forward or Shy

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Active Ink Slinger
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Forward - some of us just aren't smart enough to take subtle hints. Like, grab my dick...now I understand!
Active Ink Slinger
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It's best if they are forward. Less confusion.
Site administrator
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Well if she isnt forward then nothing is going to happen since I am quite shy.
Advanced Wordsmith
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prolly fwd just cuz i cant read their fing minds
Wild at Heart
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I don't give a fuck really. I just like her to be hot.
Lurker
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In my single years, I liked both actually. It depended on the type of female I was dealing with to see which one (Forward or Shy) I'd get.
Lurker
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For me i like girls to be more forward an open about everything but i also like a bit of a shy girl to.
Raised on Blackroot
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Why not both?

Too forward seems desperate, too shy can seem frigid.

I just don't wanna be left guessing. Make your intentions clear, ya know?
Active Ink Slinger
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I prefer not shy but a somewhat reserved flirtation at first, and a much more forward approach later. But like so many other things it really depends on the woman. If she can pull off shy without seeming withdrawn, or if she can be forward and feel natural, then so be it.
Cryptic Vigilante
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I like a middle ground between those two extremes, to be honest. Just as it is for seduction, I think it is the role of the lady to give hints, and the role of the man to be smart enough to figure them out and act accordingly.

- Not giving enough hints might be a sign of inexperience/insecurity. In those cases, I don't feel any guilty if the lady isn't fully pleasured.

- Giving too much hints spoils the pleasure of figuring out her needs, which also spoils the feeling of a mutual bond.

I like to see sex as an erotic dance, where each partner anticipates the other's motions, without blatantly stating them. When I finally make a move according to the little signs she gave, the pleasure is all the more sensual and rewarding.
Active Ink Slinger
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I like them to drop noticeable hints but let me ask them out. I dont mind if they ask me though.
Active Ink Slinger
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I like a little bit of both. I like a woman who is shy and hints at what she likes while I try to find it. But what I would like most is a note-taker so that I can remember what she likes next time. Sometimes you can get so caught up in the moment, sort of like a dream, and when you wake up, you don't remember
the details. Ugh! lol
Active Ink Slinger
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Should be well matched
Lurker
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Forward women PAH!!!

No work, no play

Some guys are just plain lazy
Active Ink Slinger
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I prefer forward - I like a woman who knows what she wants.
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Lurker
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I think I am more forward but women tell me I am more shy
Active Ink Slinger
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I honestly Like the shy ones smile specially the ones that turn out to be really kinky behind closed doors ;)
Active Ink Slinger
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Forward and kinky
Lurker
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i love women .. i don't care if they are forward or shy smile if she is forward, it would be a plenty of fun and if she is shy, it would be more like love-making, making her feel the heat ;)