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For the older gentlemen: What keeps you so in to sex?

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I've got quite a few male friends on Lush in their fifties and sixties, just wondering what it is about sex that keeps you older men so involved with it? What keeps you coming back to Lush so much? Nothing wrong with it, just curious about the allure of sex at an older age. My grandpa is in his late sixties and plays golf all day long in Florida, and does volunteer work the rest of the time. Maybe he does something like Lush, but I'd be surprised. Just curious my older men guy friends, not saying anything's wrong with anything; please don't get all defensive about it. lol ;)
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I've got quite a few male friends on Lush in their fifties and sixties, just wondering what it is about sex that keeps you older men so involved with it? What keeps you coming back to Lush so much. Nothing wrong with it, just curious about the allure of sex at an older age. My grandpa is in his late sixties and plays golf all day long in Florida, and does volunteer work the rest of the time. Maybe he does something like Lush, but I'd be surprised. Just curious my older men guy friends, not saying anything's wrong with anything, please don't get all defensive about it. lol ;)


What's the allure of sex at a younger age?

I'm not as old as the guys you are talking about, but I have to say I just don't understand the reasoning of the question. Sex is great- and I'm assuming men don't hit 50 and think 'well, this is shit then'. So nothing changes about sex other than the age of the guy doing it (and, perhaps, the frequency!). But the same biological needs that occur for men in their teens continues to death.

Some women hit menopause and see a decline in their sex drive, but that's because they have changed biologically (but menopause effects women differently, and not everyone will see a drop in sex drive- but any change can be attributed to a change to their bodies). But there is no such male change- we are always producing Semen, and our testosterone will always be pushing us to release that into fine ladies (or others) bodies (or into Kleenex, as is my most recent experience)
for me, I always come back to this forum because its really interesting. How sex make your life better. For my mentally says life without horny, there is no life.,
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What's the allure of sex at a younger age?

I'm not as old as the guys you are talking about, but I have to say I just don't understand the reasoning of the question. Sex is great- and I'm assuming men don't hit 50 and think 'well, this is shit then'. So nothing changes about sex other than the age of the guy doing it (and, perhaps, the frequency!). But the same biological needs that occur for men in their teens continues to death.

Some women hit menopause and see a decline in their sex drive, but that's because they have changed biologically (but menopause effects women differently, and not everyone will see a drop in sex drive- but any change can be attributed to a change to their bodies). But there is no such male change- we are always producing Semen, and our testosterone will always be pushing us to release that into fine ladies (or others) bodies (or into Kleenex, as is my most recent experience)


"I'm not as old as the guys you are talking about, but I have to say I just don't understand the reasoning of the question".....I guess what prompted my question was a guy in his sixties who wanted to talk really nasty dirty to me and with me here on Lush. Like I said, not a problem, just got me to wondering.
It never changes, I can still perform every act. I still love everything about making love! The feel, the scents, getting her all wet and excited, and I LOVE eating pussy! I'm 67 and I have a couple friend over twenty years younger that me that I see. Age has never been a problem.
Now, I will admit that my knees aren't as good as they were, and that does create some problems.
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"I'm not as old as the guys you are talking about, but I have to say I just don't understand the reasoning of the question".....I guess what prompted my question was a guy in his sixties who wanted to talk really nasty dirty to me and with me here on Lush. Like I said, not a problem, just got me to wondering.


Well, because if those pictures are of you (you can never be too sure on this site), then you are a sexually attractive person and, as a straight man, he liked you.

The only thing that really get's me is the age difference, but I've always been interested in older women and certainly can't see me going for someone 40 years older than me (when I get to the age when it's possible for me to share sexual messages with someone 40 ish years younger than me, that is....)

What I meant though, in my original post, was that I don't get why you think his older age would make him uninterested in sex? Your premise seemed to be that you thought he was too old to be interested in sex, and so my response was really to show that he is just an older man, but a man none the less
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I've got quite a few male friends on Lush in their fifties and sixties, just wondering what it is about sex that keeps you older men so involved with it? What keeps you coming back to Lush so much. Nothing wrong with it, just curious about the allure of sex at an older age. My grandpa is in his late sixties and plays golf all day long in Florida, and does volunteer work the rest of the time. Maybe he does something like Lush, but I'd be surprised. Just curious my older men guy friends, not saying anything's wrong with anything, please don't get all defensive about it. lol ;)


If you're going to ask this question about men's interest in sex you might also ask: "what it is about eating that keeps you older men so involved with it?"

It's a male appetite, no more, no less, and there's nothing that requires men to lose an appetite, any appetite.
This is such an easy question. I am into sex because I can still get aroused. Since I first became aware that my prick could get hard and create physical and emotional pleasure I've been into sex. I can still become aroused quite easily and therefore I am still into sex. Simple.
Smart and attractive women. They've got to be smart to be attractive to me. The rest my libido takes care to supply.
I just have a very fertile imagination. I write stories here on just about every topic. I meet on-line people that I like, some I like very much. I get turned on by all the horny stories from all walks of life. And while I have done most things in life, there are still some that elude me.

One day though!

I used to be a pervert. In here, I'm normal!

Watch this space...She is really - cumming soon!

I've liked girls and (later) sex all my life. My wife and I had a normal sex life, vanilla maybe, as you would call it now, but it was all we knew, so satisfactory for us. The frequency slowed down naturally as we got older, and in the last year of her life she was unwell, and it stopped altogether between us, although I masturbated occasionally. After her death, I suppose it would have continued like that, except that I had just got my first computer, and inevitably later discovered the porn world. I was astounded at what went on and it immediately revived my latent sex drive. After a few false starts, I found chat sites, and eventually, with a bit of help found myself on here, surrounded by like-minded folk. Unfortunately, my sex life is now all in my head (and hand), but the interest is as strong as ever. I can't answer for all men, but for me, and others like me, given the stimulation, the urge is still there. I just like ladies!
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I've liked girls and (later) sex all my life. My wife and I had a normal sex life, vanilla maybe, as you would call it now, but it was all we knew, so satisfactory for us. The frequency slowed down naturally as we got older, and in the last year of her life she was unwell, and it stopped altogether between us, although I masturbated occasionally. After her death, I suppose it would have continued like that, except that I had just got my first computer, and inevitably later discovered the porn world. I was astounded at what went on and it immediately revived my latent sex drive. After a few false starts, I found chat sites, and eventually, with a bit of help found myself on here, surrounded by like-minded folk. Unfortunately, my sex life is now all in my head (and hand), but the interest is as strong as ever. I can't answer for all men, but for me, and others like me, given the stimulation, the urge is still there. I just like ladies!


GOOD FOR YOU CD and why shouldn't it be just because of your age... you are a DARLING of Lush Sweetness and we all adore you.
The Duchess of Tart

Please check out my new story, co-written with the amazing Wilful.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/long-time-coming.aspx

And my latest poem, The Temptation.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/erotic-poems/the-temptation.aspx
As a 75 yr old my 2 penny worth is - 'because I like it & I can'
Thanks guys for all the responses! Good insight you're giving me! smile
My advice to the OP

I personally have no interest in 18/20 year old boys and so I don't friend them... I suggest you do the same with men of a certain age if they are out of your preferred range for a sexual experience.

At the end of the day this is a sex website..They are not here for a handshake and a mug of tea..My

If a member is speaking to you in a manner you dislike there is always the delete/block option.

Hope this helps
The Duchess of Tart

Please check out my new story, co-written with the amazing Wilful.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/long-time-coming.aspx

And my latest poem, The Temptation.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/erotic-poems/the-temptation.aspx
Quite Honestly...

At 53 now, I am IF ANYTHING even more into it than when I was younger!!! (And I THINK I'm better at it now!!!) It's CERTAINLY less of a PANIC now!!! It's a little more UNRUSHED!!!

But, the same things still basically appeal... The beauty, attractiveness and allure of a certain partner... DEFINITELY a sexual attraction... But, latterly, I appreciate a more CONVERSATIONAL CONNECTION... (I don't think that's necessarily AGE RELATED, but it has to exist more than it once did...) I can't NOW do it without a real affectionate connection... I like to TALK, I like to LAUGH, I like to FLIRT with a partner... (And experience that BACK, obviously...)

What I WILL SAY, (and this has surprised me...) is that AS I GET OLDER I tend to go for older women, that is women MY AGE... (When I was A LITTLE younger I was a bit of fan of younger birds BUT ONLY BECAUSE THAT WAS ALL I MET!!!) More lately, I prefer a more mature girl. (They're better at it for a start and it's LESS HASSLE!!!)

xx SF


You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

It's simple...an orgasm is probably the most delightful feeling in the world, why not keep enjoying it?

Yes, it's even better than scratching that itch we all get at times!
Hypnosis - You will read this and desperately want to read my first story - There's Something About.......
As for me, I gave up 12 years ago trying to date after some really bad experiences and a marriage where the sex ended long before the marriage did. I stayed within the marriage but did learn to date the 'Palm Princess' to reach satisfaction... She never says no and never has a headache!

After my divorce, a female doctor asked me during my annual physical how my sex life was. I told her nonexistent. She told me I needed to masturbate for prostate health, it keeps the tubes open so they don't need to use a roto rooter to open things up. That was enough to convince me to continue and use Lush or some other websites for 'inspiration'.

As for why I still do it, it's because I'm old, not dead. I just completed my 66th orbit around the sun! Hope that explains it from my point of view!
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GOOD FOR YOU CD and why shouldn't it be just because of your age... you are a DARLING of Lush Sweetness and we all adore you.


Thankyou my lovely Kiera, I love you too.

Own back! I've put the same question on Ask The Gals. Should be interesting!
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This is a TRUE STORY...

When I lived in Greece, (at a time when I was totally drug free...) a friend of mine there, who used Viagra recreationally, although he was younger than I) offered me a tab to try... Now, as it happens, (HONEST!!!) erectile dysfunction is a problem I've never had, alone or with a partner... But...

So, I go home, ALONE... I have this pill... AND IN THE SPIRIT OF EXPERIMENTATION... (I've done every other fucking thing!!!) I DROPPED it...

The good news is that it works...

The BAD NEWS is that it doesn't stop working for about six fucking hours...

So, it went like this:

Drop pill. ("HELLO!!!")

Jerk Off...

Cum...

(Dick says, "Is that it??? I'm STILL HERE!!!")

More jacking off, longer this time obviously... Another cum...

(Dick says, "Is that all you got???")

Let's just say it was the longest FIVE FUCKING HOURS OF MY LIFE!!! (I couldn't even SLEEP because the fucking cock was in the way!!!) In the end, it wasn't even SEXUAL!!! (I was just like, "OH GO-A-FUCKING-WAY!!!") Hellish...

xx SF
I've always enjoyed naughty/sexy stories such as Penthouse Forum and others. I've always felt that those good stories as well as well done porn have helped me be a better and more creative lover. I still read stories and pass the ones I feel are really hot on to my girlfriend for her to read. Speaking of her she's definitely my #1 reason I still enjoy sex even if my equipment doesn't work as it once did. I love getting her off!
O dear, does this mean that you lose interest in sex as you grow old — I hope not, but then I'm not old, just maturing like a fine wine. Oh, I also have a little help from a friend. LOL
I'm just thankful that it still feels amazing after all these years to have a mouth, a sopping wet pussy or a warm soft hand wrapped around my cock. I've never had a problem getting it up and never had a problem cumming, and I hope things remain that way for many years to cum! smile
"Being male is a matter of birth.
Being a man is a matter of age.
Being a gentleman is a matter of choice."
Since every erection may be the last, it needs to be sufficiently celebrated and utilized as long as possible.
Here's and old joke: A sex researcher was interviewing a 102 year old man and asked at what age he stopped thinking about sex. The old man smiled and replied, "You're going to have to ask someone older"!
Well I have 45 and my sex drive is as high as ever seems that am horny now and as far as sites like Lush just adds a different element of thrill .