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Do you kiss a girl on your first date or even do more. What would you do with a late 40s girl?
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Hello Angela. I hope you aren't saying, or worse yet, even thinking, that a lady who is 46 is even beginning to get old. Or perhaps to old to be dating. Nothing could be further from the truth so put those thoughts out of your mind.
I'll assume our date went well and we had enjoyed each other's company. At the end, I'd walk you up to your door, hopefully holding your hand, and if we had already made plans for another time, I'd once again let you know how much I'd enjoyed our time together, and that I was looking forward to our next date. If we hadn't had that discussion, then I'd tell you what a wonderful time I'd had, and ask if we could get together again sometime soon. Then maybe a quick hug and perhaps...maybe a friendly kiss on your cheek, then a goodnight wish, then leave. You mentioned it would be a first date, so quite likely we'd met someplace. In that case, I'd walk you back to your car, open and/or hold the door, then everything I've mentioned above.
I know, kind of boring aren't I?
I'll assume our date went well and we had enjoyed each other's company. At the end, I'd walk you up to your door, hopefully holding your hand, and if we had already made plans for another time, I'd once again let you know how much I'd enjoyed our time together, and that I was looking forward to our next date. If we hadn't had that discussion, then I'd tell you what a wonderful time I'd had, and ask if we could get together again sometime soon. Then maybe a quick hug and perhaps...maybe a friendly kiss on your cheek, then a goodnight wish, then leave. You mentioned it would be a first date, so quite likely we'd met someplace. In that case, I'd walk you back to your car, open and/or hold the door, then everything I've mentioned above.
I know, kind of boring aren't I?
If you're feeling bored during this Covid-19 epidemic I’d like to suggest
you take a peek at a story I collaborated with SueBrasil, a brilliant author.
It's about a mistake in judgment a lady makes concerning a friend, based
on the hurtful words of someone that only thinks of himself. Will that
conniving person succeed in ruining a beautiful friendship, or will she see
through his lies? It's gradually creeping up towards the 30,000 mark
and we’d love any votes or hearing whatever comments you may wish
to make. It is listed in my profile under ‘FAVOURITES’ as Apologize.
www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/apologize.aspx
you take a peek at a story I collaborated with SueBrasil, a brilliant author.
It's about a mistake in judgment a lady makes concerning a friend, based
on the hurtful words of someone that only thinks of himself. Will that
conniving person succeed in ruining a beautiful friendship, or will she see
through his lies? It's gradually creeping up towards the 30,000 mark
and we’d love any votes or hearing whatever comments you may wish
to make. It is listed in my profile under ‘FAVOURITES’ as Apologize.
www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/apologize.aspx
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Hello Angela. I hope you aren't saying, or worse yet, even thinking, that a lady who is 46 is even beginning to get old. Or perhaps to old to be dating. Nothing could be further from the truth so put those thoughts out of your mind.
I'll assume our date went well and we had enjoyed each other's company. At the end, I'd walk you up to your door, hopefully holding your hand, and if we had already made plans for another time, I'd once again let you know how much I'd enjoyed our time together, and that I was looking forward to our next date. If we hadn't had that discussion, then I'd tell you what a wonderful time I'd had, and ask if we could get together again sometime soon. Then maybe a quick hug and perhaps...maybe a friendly kiss on your cheek, then a goodnight wish, then leave. You mentioned it would be a first date, so quite likely we'd met someplace. In that case, I'd walk you back to your car, open and/or hold the door, then everything I've mentioned above.
I know, kind of boring aren't I?
A true gentleman is never boring
Devil's Advocate
Thumb her.
What?
Seriously, if it was going well and I had a view to getting into a relationship with her, I would ask her if I could kiss her. I play a pretty long game down the deep end, which is all about respect.
If I wasn't sure at the end of the night, I'd probably leave it with a kind smile and an intention to give a second date a chance. I'd do a next day call back in that event.
Obviously if I wasn't into it, I'd thank her for the date and say goodbye.
And if it was clear nothing was going to come of it, but we both just wanted to settle to bang one out, then what the hell are we talking about here? I'd already be looking for my pants and swiping up an Uber.
What?
Seriously, if it was going well and I had a view to getting into a relationship with her, I would ask her if I could kiss her. I play a pretty long game down the deep end, which is all about respect.
If I wasn't sure at the end of the night, I'd probably leave it with a kind smile and an intention to give a second date a chance. I'd do a next day call back in that event.
Obviously if I wasn't into it, I'd thank her for the date and say goodbye.
And if it was clear nothing was going to come of it, but we both just wanted to settle to bang one out, then what the hell are we talking about here? I'd already be looking for my pants and swiping up an Uber.
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill.
Well, I'm a mid-50s guy so a late 40s girl is actually about right. As for what I would do on a first date, depends on who I'm dating.
If she's someone I already know well (as happened with my wife, who was a friend first before dating happened), then things would probably move fairly quickly. Kissing for sure, maybe even making out.
If she's someone new to me, then probably a bit slower. I like to get to know someone before we get too intimate.
Unless it's like a casual Tinder date or similar, then we're probably talking Full Monty before the evening's out.CFYAjsrWA869ITZU
If she's someone I already know well (as happened with my wife, who was a friend first before dating happened), then things would probably move fairly quickly. Kissing for sure, maybe even making out.
If she's someone new to me, then probably a bit slower. I like to get to know someone before we get too intimate.
Unless it's like a casual Tinder date or similar, then we're probably talking Full Monty before the evening's out.CFYAjsrWA869ITZU
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I'm sure the three guys above here are all nice gentlemen, however, I don't see myself on a date with either of them. Now if Bria happened to enter my range of vision, that would be a different story.
Bria, I'd jump over hurdles to have a date with you. Perhaps start out at a nice restaurant in a secluded corner booth with soft music gently playing in the background. We'd slowly get to know each other as we enjoyed our late dinner. Afterwards, if you were willing, a hand-in-hand romantic stroll along the beach as we enjoyed each other's closeness and the brilliant sunset over the water. The light, cool breeze helping to keep our emotions under control. As the last red and gold rays slowly faded below the distant horizon, I'd escort you back to your car while letting you know what an enjoyable evening I'd had, and that I would love to see you again. After a friendly hug, I would ask you to give me a call when you get home so I'd know you arrived safely.
Bria, I'd jump over hurdles to have a date with you. Perhaps start out at a nice restaurant in a secluded corner booth with soft music gently playing in the background. We'd slowly get to know each other as we enjoyed our late dinner. Afterwards, if you were willing, a hand-in-hand romantic stroll along the beach as we enjoyed each other's closeness and the brilliant sunset over the water. The light, cool breeze helping to keep our emotions under control. As the last red and gold rays slowly faded below the distant horizon, I'd escort you back to your car while letting you know what an enjoyable evening I'd had, and that I would love to see you again. After a friendly hug, I would ask you to give me a call when you get home so I'd know you arrived safely.
If you're feeling bored during this Covid-19 epidemic I’d like to suggest
you take a peek at a story I collaborated with SueBrasil, a brilliant author.
It's about a mistake in judgment a lady makes concerning a friend, based
on the hurtful words of someone that only thinks of himself. Will that
conniving person succeed in ruining a beautiful friendship, or will she see
through his lies? It's gradually creeping up towards the 30,000 mark
and we’d love any votes or hearing whatever comments you may wish
to make. It is listed in my profile under ‘FAVOURITES’ as Apologize.
www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/apologize.aspx
you take a peek at a story I collaborated with SueBrasil, a brilliant author.
It's about a mistake in judgment a lady makes concerning a friend, based
on the hurtful words of someone that only thinks of himself. Will that
conniving person succeed in ruining a beautiful friendship, or will she see
through his lies? It's gradually creeping up towards the 30,000 mark
and we’d love any votes or hearing whatever comments you may wish
to make. It is listed in my profile under ‘FAVOURITES’ as Apologize.
www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/apologize.aspx
I don't often go on dates, as such, but when I do I typically mention in as aloof a manner as possible that I had fun and would like to get together again (in a way that, to me, avoids coming on too strong, but to her, likely seems mostly disinterested) and avoid any sort of physical contact at all because I'm awkward.
Ladies.
Ladies.
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No need for you to feel awkward, JJF68. When in the presence of a beautiful lady, we all experience the same horrible feelings of our mind going blank so we can't think of even one intelligent thing to say. Our tongue is so tied up in knots that if we do manage to say something, it comes out making us look like an even bigger fool. Our hands shake and our knees feel like soft rubber and tremble so much we are sure they can be heard knocking against each other a block away. But you know something, all that and more does not matter in the least, because they love us anyway.
From your description, there is nothing wrong with what you do, except perhaps drop the 'aloof' part. Just tell her how much fun you had in your normal, everyday voice. You telling her how enjoyable your time together has been is not being to aggressive or coming on to strong. If she has also enjoyed the time together, that is EXACTLY what she wants to hear from you. Any goofs you may have made will completely disappear from her mind and she will gladly accept your suggestion of getting together again. Try to relax and be yourself. Don't try to be anything you're not. It never works, because women can spot in a moment if a guy is doing that and they usually find it to be a big turnoff. They want to learn about the 'real you', the same as you do about them.
Just remember they have their insecurities the same as you and I do. She may have been as nervous about the date, or even more so, than you were. Anything you can do to show even a little self-confidence, will put her mind at ease, which will help her enjoy the date.
So take a few deep breaths, square your shoulders, tell yourself you can do this and get out there and impress the lady of your dreams. If she is even the least bit interested, she'll let you know and will make it easy for you. When that happens, you just rounded third-base and are well on your way home.
From your description, there is nothing wrong with what you do, except perhaps drop the 'aloof' part. Just tell her how much fun you had in your normal, everyday voice. You telling her how enjoyable your time together has been is not being to aggressive or coming on to strong. If she has also enjoyed the time together, that is EXACTLY what she wants to hear from you. Any goofs you may have made will completely disappear from her mind and she will gladly accept your suggestion of getting together again. Try to relax and be yourself. Don't try to be anything you're not. It never works, because women can spot in a moment if a guy is doing that and they usually find it to be a big turnoff. They want to learn about the 'real you', the same as you do about them.
Just remember they have their insecurities the same as you and I do. She may have been as nervous about the date, or even more so, than you were. Anything you can do to show even a little self-confidence, will put her mind at ease, which will help her enjoy the date.
So take a few deep breaths, square your shoulders, tell yourself you can do this and get out there and impress the lady of your dreams. If she is even the least bit interested, she'll let you know and will make it easy for you. When that happens, you just rounded third-base and are well on your way home.
If you're feeling bored during this Covid-19 epidemic I’d like to suggest
you take a peek at a story I collaborated with SueBrasil, a brilliant author.
It's about a mistake in judgment a lady makes concerning a friend, based
on the hurtful words of someone that only thinks of himself. Will that
conniving person succeed in ruining a beautiful friendship, or will she see
through his lies? It's gradually creeping up towards the 30,000 mark
and we’d love any votes or hearing whatever comments you may wish
to make. It is listed in my profile under ‘FAVOURITES’ as Apologize.
www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/apologize.aspx
you take a peek at a story I collaborated with SueBrasil, a brilliant author.
It's about a mistake in judgment a lady makes concerning a friend, based
on the hurtful words of someone that only thinks of himself. Will that
conniving person succeed in ruining a beautiful friendship, or will she see
through his lies? It's gradually creeping up towards the 30,000 mark
and we’d love any votes or hearing whatever comments you may wish
to make. It is listed in my profile under ‘FAVOURITES’ as Apologize.
www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/apologize.aspx
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All I can say is that young lady is very lucky to have a Dad that is willing to sit and watch, 'Baby Shark and the Magic School Bus' with her. Very lucky indeed. I salute you for doing such a fine job with your daughter and hope you keep up the good work. As far as romance goes, apparently it found you once, so I doubt you can say with absolute, 100% certainty, it won't find you again.
If you're feeling bored during this Covid-19 epidemic I’d like to suggest
you take a peek at a story I collaborated with SueBrasil, a brilliant author.
It's about a mistake in judgment a lady makes concerning a friend, based
on the hurtful words of someone that only thinks of himself. Will that
conniving person succeed in ruining a beautiful friendship, or will she see
through his lies? It's gradually creeping up towards the 30,000 mark
and we’d love any votes or hearing whatever comments you may wish
to make. It is listed in my profile under ‘FAVOURITES’ as Apologize.
www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/apologize.aspx
you take a peek at a story I collaborated with SueBrasil, a brilliant author.
It's about a mistake in judgment a lady makes concerning a friend, based
on the hurtful words of someone that only thinks of himself. Will that
conniving person succeed in ruining a beautiful friendship, or will she see
through his lies? It's gradually creeping up towards the 30,000 mark
and we’d love any votes or hearing whatever comments you may wish
to make. It is listed in my profile under ‘FAVOURITES’ as Apologize.
www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/apologize.aspx
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Looking at the titles, I wondered if they were the same when I wrote my letter. They didn't seem like they would fit together, but you never know. I'm certainly not an expert on kids movies, which I guess kind of shows, doesn't it? :) I try to be encouraging to people and work to get them to remain hopeful and see the good things around them. As you stated, there is enough pain and suffering in this world, so if something I say helps reduce that slightly, then I'm happy. I certainly wish you well and hope everything turns out okay for you.
If you're feeling bored during this Covid-19 epidemic I’d like to suggest
you take a peek at a story I collaborated with SueBrasil, a brilliant author.
It's about a mistake in judgment a lady makes concerning a friend, based
on the hurtful words of someone that only thinks of himself. Will that
conniving person succeed in ruining a beautiful friendship, or will she see
through his lies? It's gradually creeping up towards the 30,000 mark
and we’d love any votes or hearing whatever comments you may wish
to make. It is listed in my profile under ‘FAVOURITES’ as Apologize.
www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/apologize.aspx
you take a peek at a story I collaborated with SueBrasil, a brilliant author.
It's about a mistake in judgment a lady makes concerning a friend, based
on the hurtful words of someone that only thinks of himself. Will that
conniving person succeed in ruining a beautiful friendship, or will she see
through his lies? It's gradually creeping up towards the 30,000 mark
and we’d love any votes or hearing whatever comments you may wish
to make. It is listed in my profile under ‘FAVOURITES’ as Apologize.
www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/apologize.aspx