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Ever Been to a Sex Club, Hotel Take Over, House Party, Couples Swap, Threesome?

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How many Men have been to a Hotel Take Over, House Party, Couples Swap, Swinger Club, or Threesome, & how many people do you think were participating? Did you enjoy it? Is it something you would do regularly? & If you were in something like this would you limit you self in the number of partners or did you/would you take on more than two or three?

Wonder how the Ladies will answer this one
My husband and I went to a kinky alternative night club night. It was full of people wearing costumes, leather, corsets. There was a rope tying station, racks with whips. It was a very open place and had it's rules such as "Look but no touch unless invited." There was a dance floor and my husband and I danced a lot, though we took breaks and watched people heavy petting, pleasuring each other (within reasons such as BDSM). I enjoyed viewing, I'm a voyeur. I did have a few guys interested in me to participate but I'm to shy and just want to watch.
Never been to a open BSDM venue like that. A couple years ago I did meet a woman who was very much into pain. Many decades ago I attended a house party where the host had some BASM furniture in the basement. None of that was used that evening. I think that was the party where we did the key swap thing.
Went once to I guess a sex club with a guy I was seeing, maybe our only date as he was just a sex bud. Crowd was older than I would have liked at my age then, I was early 20s and kind of the center of attention for that reason. Highlight was a pitch black room where you just went in and grabbed whatever you could find, my first ever girl encounter in that room so happy memory. Everyone was very respectful I will say that. Glad to say I tried it but no rush to again.
I'll bet you were the center of attention. Nice you enjoyed the dark room. The general concept kind of scares me.
Ahhhh. Fond memories!
Hi, Katie here. I'll answer for hubby too. I've never been to an actual "sex club" but have belonged to a sex group for years. Hubby joined in after I'd been at it for quite some time.
I've always been open for some new adventures, and our Lush Stories are pretty much the real thing. We're still happily enjoying the lifestyle and I get to please a lot of partners. ;)
Never. The idea turns me on. Never sure if it turns me on more than the reality. My OH and I have fantasised about it, but never got close to doing it.
Never done any and not all of them appeal to me. A couple swap or a threesome would. Not sure about the others. They seem to me like they would involve more anonymous contact and I'd feel more comfortable with someone I get to know a bit first, which would be more likely with a swap or threesome.

Kind of moot question for me, though, since I doubt present partner would go for any of it.
Once in a city, far, far away, this doctor I knew threw parties. He had a big house, all mod cons and a hot tub. Many couples showed up and there was lots of nudity. It wasn't an orgy per se, but various couples would pair up for the night in one of the many bedrooms. There were definitely threesomes and foursomes. I was single and with my friends who were all paired up, thusly didn't get to participate often. I took a girlfriend there, but she looked askance on it even though we were just going to be a couple there.
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... I took a girlfriend there, but she looked askance on it even though we were just going to be a couple there.


Introduced two young women to 1980s swinger type couples swapping & groups. One had experince with 3sms & foursomes as a college student. The other a student at the time had enough curiousity and desire for adventure to try it several times. The second was very outgoing & being young was the center of attention of the men. She acquired another bf & I lost track of her soon after, but suspect she continued with groups & other NSA sex.
I've been in three, four and five-somes with mixed gender bisexual, and once in a six-way gay male, but I've never been to a hotel type thing or official sex club. I like to know, or have a personal reference to strangers I'm going to have sex with. Many times I have played with different bi-couples who would arrange an unknown friend to be at our play date. I love the idea of seeing old friends who introduce me to someone, and within a short time span I'm sexually involved with them.

My favorite was when my favorite bi couple arranged another bi couple with me as the extra man for the express purpose of giving both the wives a DP while cocksucking, what they mistakenly call 'air-tight' (you'd have to have inordinately large nostrils for that to happen, although deep throat can accomplish it for fleeting moments).
Been decades since I've been in anything like the last post describes. These days its just the occasional threesome.
threesome....she blew me while he ate her.
Been to plenty of parties and had lots of fun....!!!!!!
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Been to plenty of parties and had lots of fun....!!!!!!


Yup, when the door is opened by a scantily clad lady & you step into a room of people successfully seducing each other....
I have been to house parties and swinger clubs. I have fond memories of the women and men I fucked and sucked.
I have taken part in a few gang bangs, hotel parties and house parties, as well as, been to a few swing clubs. Have had fun and a lot of orgasm.
Had just started visiting a sex club when this thread started. Lady invited me to a Indianapolis club for a evening of sex with her & another man. Since its one of the closest clubs and a comfortable place I've returned a half dozen times & spent the $20 for a membership. Turns out its a handy and affordable place to meet people for a evening threesome, take a curious lady for a hot date, ect. I'd been to a fair number of house parties, couples swaps, and motel hookups for threesomes ect... This club is a larger with more variety version of all that.
Hubbie and I belong to a couple lifestyle / swing clubs. We usually attend a couple nights a week. When he is out of town he will lend me to another Master for the days he is gone. One has a BDSM night once a week. The othervone has a big Dungen available any time the club is open. One of the clubs has sister clubs in Dallas and Houston. Our membership is good at all 3 clubs.

Brandie
If you know of any safe clubs in London can you pm me the details etc Cheers
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If you know of any safe clubs in London can you pm me the details etc Cheers


If they have a web site you can get some clues from that. If the safety rules are clearly posted on the site it means the management is more serious about them. Rules like nothing without permission, some of the play rooms having doors that can be locked. If the club has a mandatory education session for new members its a good sign, tho few do. If they are very restrictive on single male members its a good sign.

I educated myself on some singer web sites. Things had changed a lot since the 1980s. & as a single my rule is to go only wen I am to meet others or have a partner. The last is always good. Take a wing man or girl, always a good idea. Someone who knows when to give you space and when to be there to lean on.
been to few and was real nice and kinky, best was actually in san diego, went single and played all night