Does it bother you when a woman does this during sex?

3 Apr 2015

It's a major turn on for a woman to touch herself during sex. Why not do it if that's what you need?

13 Nov 2015

No, on the contrary, I find it hot. I can see how someone who was lacking confidence might feel otherwise though

13 Nov 2015

Quote by DirtyMindedMom
So, guys, my question is: Does it bother you at all if your partner is basically masturbating herself while you fuck her? Does this make you feel like she's telling you that you're not getting the job done, or are you honestly okay with it?

Not at all! It's a turn on for her to rub her clit or do whatever makes her feel good while fucking, giving a blowjob, or anything else.

13 Nov 2015

Not a bit! Think of how hot it can be to watch someone you're attracted to masturbate. When you see her doing that as you're fucking her, just think that not only are you getting to fuck her, you're getting a show!

15 Nov 2015

I love when she rubs her clit when I'm fucking her it turns me on

15 Nov 2015

Quote by DirtyMindedMom
Hey boys,

I sometimes like to play with my clit while my husband is fucking me. I worry that this might make him feel like he's not satisfying me, so I have to do it myself, but that's not the case at all. When I've asked him about it, he's told me he doesn't have a problem with it and that he likes when I do it. I pretty much believe him, but I also don't think he would admit it if I was making feel like less of a man or lover.

So, guys, my question is: Does it bother you at all if your partner is basically masturbating herself while you fuck her? Does this make you feel like she's telling you that you're not getting the job done, or are you honestly okay with it?

Thanks,
Rachael

One has to take a practical and realistic approach to such matters. We only have two hands for goodness sake. One to hold onto something in order to maintain position and the other for a cup of tea.

So its fine... cant do everything at once!

18 Nov 2015

All too often it can really heighten the situation. Big Hugs

When a lady is riding you 'Cowgirl' and you only have two hands.
There are three points of contact, both breasts and clit.

So it sort of equates to mouth on one breast, one hand on the other breast and on hand for the clit.

And she is trying to rip my ears off with her hands.

19 Nov 2015

Not at all.

20 Nov 2015

If it's a hand, then its fine,sometimes its encouraged . If it's a toy well then yes. Very much

22 Nov 2015

If you and your guy will check the female anatomy together you will see that in many cases there is little stimulation of the Clitoris during penetration. Not always but with most couples.

That does not mean that penetration does not feel wonderful, just that it could be even better with some Clitoral stimulation.

He will be pleased if his primary goal is to make Sex all it can be for you.

Sorry I know this is the guys section, but once in a while a woman has something worth hearing.

22 Nov 2015

Hell no! Sex is supposed to be fun, !!!!!

22 Nov 2015

love it when a girl rubs herself turns me on even more

28 Nov 2015

my GF often rubs her clit if she is on top as she likes controlling the pace of when she cums. when im on top she usually lets me take control, i often rub her clit as we are thrusting to heighten her pleasure

28 Nov 2015

hey, whatever it takes for her to enjoy it. even if (god forbid) i'm not doing the job right, at least hopefully she'll still get off

28 Nov 2015

Not in the least,look at it this way,she could decide to phone a friend.

28 Nov 2015

A study found that the most arousing activity for women is both penetration and clit stimulation. Now, outside of a Porno I haven't seen anyone do that properly. But the study is spot on. Rubbing my clit while i get pounded or eaten out is something that often pushes me over the edge.

28 Nov 2015

Not at all.its a turn on

28 Nov 2015

Not at all.its a turn on

28 Nov 2015

My sweetie does it all the time. Why would it bother me if it gives her pleasure?

28 Nov 2015

No, it would not bother me. Not a bit.

"I expect nothing. I fear no one. I am free." Nikos Kazantzakis

29 Nov 2015

It's all about fear excitement. I actually find it hot, too.

29 Nov 2015

The whole point of fucking is pleasure and satisfaction for both, so if she wants or needs to do that to make it right, I have no problem with it.

31 Dec 2015

I think the woman just gets lost is the moment and wants to maximize the pleasure... I always take it as a compliment that she is really turned on....

31 Dec 2015

Doesn't bother me at all if it takes that for her to orgasm that's fine by me.

11 Apr 2016

Quote by DirtyMindedMom

So, guys, my question is: Does it bother you at all if your partner is basically masturbating herself while you fuck her? Does this make you feel like she's telling you that you're not getting the job done, or are you honestly okay with it?

Thanks,
Rachael

I'm all for her being satisfied, whether it's fully by my stimulation or a little assistance on her part. I love to watch my woman masturbate because it's so arousing.

11 Apr 2016

Not only do I not mind, but actually find it very arousing when a woman plays with herself during.

11 Apr 2016

I find it even more arousing. I am sure it is much more common then you may think.

11 Apr 2016

You can do it all day long for me. Before during or after ;-)

20 Apr 2016

the way my wife's pussy feels when I am inside and she plays with her clit is down right orgasmic!

4 May 2016

Pleasure is pleasure. Any man who is insecure about a woman elevating her pleasure during sex - in any way that suits her - needs to make sure his balls are screwed on tighter... or just grow a set.

Personally, I absolutely love this! It is such a turn-on to have my woman completely into our time together! It is so damned sexy!

Love is beautiful.