Active Ink Slinger
Hell fucking NO! I think it's so sexy and like to stop fucking just to dive back in and lick her for a while and suck her fingers. So hot...
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Does it bother you when a woman does this during sex?
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Advanced Wordsmith
There are some positions that the penetration doesn't rub against the clit and so her using the hand is highly erotic, I have not only enjoyed it but on occasion taken her hand placing it there and rubbing with her to set up the rhythm. Or have whispered in her ear as her hair is tangled in my hands how she need to start rubbing now ...
Advanced Wordsmith
I don't mind it at all, I believe masturbation is good for you.
Active Ink Slinger
I think it is hot that she starts playing with herself. Especially when I see it happen.
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Quote by DirtyMindedMom
Hey boys,
I sometimes like to play with my clit while my husband is fucking me. I worry that this might make him feel like he's not satisfying me, so I have to do it myself, but that's not the case at all. When I've asked him about it, he's told me he doesn't have a problem with it and that he likes when I do it. I pretty much believe him, but I also don't think he would admit it if I was making feel like less of a man or lover.
So, guys, my question is: Does it bother you at all if your partner is basically masturbating herself while you fuck her? Does this make you feel like she's telling you that you're not getting the job done, or are you honestly okay with it?
Thanks,
Rachael
Actually I find it incredibly stimulating! I love it when my lover is exciting herself, whether I am balls deep or not. And while in any position. I would actually encourage her to do so, because it is so hot!
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Active Ink Slinger
Absolutely not - it's all about enjoying ourselves and I think it's very hot for the girl to rub her clit while we're having sex.
VERY HOT!
VERY HOT!
Active Ink Slinger
It doesn't bother me in the slightest. If I had to come up with any complaints, I'd say that it can sometimes limit how close I can get to her in certain positions (gotta leave room for her hand and wrist) but that's a pretty minor gripe.
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No, it is about mutual pleasure and if that helps her get her best pleasure and I am getting mine, all the better...as long as that it all there is to it. If I'm not performing to give her what she needs, then I want her to tell me and we can work or it together, don't hide it, that is never a satisfactory long-term solution.
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colin123
I find it very sexy myself, my wife also likes to slip a cock ring with a rabbit attachment on my cock, tis she loves.
colin123
I find it very sexy myself, my wife also likes to slip a cock ring with a rabbit attachment on my cock, tis she loves.
Active Ink Slinger
I usually hand my wife the vibrator before I slip inside her. It's an awesome experience for both of us! 
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Bother me? No, not a bit. I LOVE for the woman I'm with to get off. As to the "how of it," NO, that I'm NOT concerned with. Whether I use some "toy" at some point to increase her pleasure or she uses her fingers or a toy is irrelevant to me. Her PLEASURE IS as is her ORGASM! The quality of my ego trip is not lessened by it. ;)
Active Ink Slinger
Anything that increases her pleasure has to be good. Have been with someone who was afraid to touch herself and that was not much fun. Part of the pleasure of good sex is both parties expressing themselves.
Active Ink Slinger
I have an confession.
At the tender age of 22 (was still virgin at 21) the first time a girl did this it, well, made me feel uncomfortable. I only had sex with her that once. We ran into each other out at a nightclub about 2-3 months later and I even then acted like a chicken shit little wimp, that was probable more embarrassing.
I have never forgotten that.
Today I actually encourage my wife to play with her clit while we are fucking and somehow this makes me more aroused. I haven't spoken to a shrink (or me mates for all you Aussies out there) about this and not likely to either.
At the tender age of 22 (was still virgin at 21) the first time a girl did this it, well, made me feel uncomfortable. I only had sex with her that once. We ran into each other out at a nightclub about 2-3 months later and I even then acted like a chicken shit little wimp, that was probable more embarrassing.
I have never forgotten that.
Today I actually encourage my wife to play with her clit while we are fucking and somehow this makes me more aroused. I haven't spoken to a shrink (or me mates for all you Aussies out there) about this and not likely to either.
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Ah no, no problem at all. It's a total turn on. The whole point is getting off. My wife used to do this all the time but then I bought her a bullet vibe. Believe it or not she had never used one.
She loves it. She uses that on her clit while I fuck her. She usually has a few clitoral orgasms and then a few more deeper G spot orgasms when I go deep and hard.
She loves it. She uses that on her clit while I fuck her. She usually has a few clitoral orgasms and then a few more deeper G spot orgasms when I go deep and hard.
Active Ink Slinger
If she flicks her clit, that's fine. I like a woman who is sexually liberated and not afraid of her body.
Active Ink Slinger
Doesn't bother me at all…in fact, that is pretty hot.
Active Ink Slinger
Well, guys, u seem very open minded about it, since my lover ALWAYS slap my hand away when i stroke my clit. Our relation is kind of new, so i haven't say anything yet... but it bothers me a LOT, and how to say that to him without hurting his feelings? Sighs...
Live and let live
Active Ink Slinger
It is something that is really very arousing to me as well, so as long as her knuckles do not get in the way there is nothing bad about it.
If anything she is letting me know that she wants to climax while we make love... and that is a very good thing.
If anything she is letting me know that she wants to climax while we make love... and that is a very good thing.
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Quote by ohlalamaryla69
Well, guys, u seem very open minded about it, since my lover ALWAYS slap my hand away when i stroke my clit. Our relation is kind of new, so i haven't say anything yet... but it bothers me a LOT, and how to say that to him without hurting his feelings? Sighs...
I would rather guide a woman's hand to her clit, and let her play as much as she likes. It would be a huge turn-on, especially seeing hearing and feeling her orgasms, brought on through mutual stimulation. Why would anyone want to interfere with that, except for some sort of control. You should have control over your own pleasure.
"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than open one's mouth and remove all doubt" - Mark Twain (or Lincoln, or Confucius, or...)