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That'd be no problem at all. It's all about pleasure and if you get your fingers involved for more effect... the better it is all around. Plus, the visual for the guy is awesome.
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Does it bother you when a woman does this during sex?
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Hey boys,
I sometimes like to play with my clit while my husband is fucking me. I worry that this might make him feel like he's not satisfying me, so I have to do it myself, but that's not the case at all. When I've asked him about it, he's told me he doesn't have a problem with it and that he likes when I do it. I pretty much believe him, but I also don't think he would admit it if I was making feel like less of a man or lover.
So, guys, my question is: Does it bother you at all if your partner is basically masturbating herself while you fuck her? Does this make you feel like she's telling you that you're not getting the job done, or are you honestly okay with it?
Thanks,
Rachael
Perfectly normal Rachael a lot of women only reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation keep on rubbing.
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Absolutely not I think it's hit and sexy that means she is into what were doing!
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It wouldnt bother me, if your worried though you could always encourage him to do it for you, that way he will be the one pleasuring you and will also know that you want him to bring you that pleasure and it not being a case of you basically saying "move over Ill do it" lol tho Im sure he doesnt feel that way 
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I think it's extremely common. With my first sexual partner it kind of bothered me but now not at all. If she enjoys it more then why not??
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No problem here. Frees up that hand for me to do other things to her.
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I have never had a woman do it , but if she did , no problem . When I'm fucking a woman I want her to enjoy herself and cum , if masturbating helps that's good .
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I'd reach down there and do it myself if it were bothering me.
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Of course not. Its erotic
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Do not mind at all. As a matter of fact, it is erotic and sexy.
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Does it bother me? Hell no... I encourage it! Nothing feels better than an orgasming pussy around my cock.
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Doesn't bother me at all, Infact I think it's a real turn on. Lets me know she real horny, and loving what I'm doing.
Advanced Wordsmith
Totally cool with it. Few women do it. I wish more would. Men are so very visual, after all.
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Not had many do it but I find it very hot for a woman to be so desperate to cum round my cock.
Even hotter when they play with themselves whilst sucking me off
Even hotter when they play with themselves whilst sucking me off
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Not had many do it but I find it very hot for a woman to be so desperate to cum round my cock.
Even hotter when they play with themselves whilst sucking me off
Even hotter when they play with themselves whilst sucking me off
Advanced Wordsmith
Most women need clitoral stimulation to climax. So really he isnt doing what you need. BUT that doesnt mean you are not enjoying what you are doing. My wife does that. I actually started it while she was sitting on top of me I rubbed her clit and she realized she liked it. She started doing it and I went and got a cockring that holds a bullet vibrator so she can be stimulated on her clit while I am inside of her.
I have also started using a dildo on her while sucking on her clit, that drives her thru the roof.
She says for her birthday she wants to have someone take her doggie style while I suck on her clit.
I have also started using a dildo on her while sucking on her clit, that drives her thru the roof.
She says for her birthday she wants to have someone take her doggie style while I suck on her clit.
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I think it is very sexy when my fiance does that during sex.
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Doesn't bother me at all. I love it. Shows she is getting into it as well.
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I find it incredibly hot, since she is probably cumming like crazy, or is about to. Often sends me over the edge too, when I see her doing it.
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Not in the least. I have reached down and done it myself for her.
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To be quite honest, no, it doesn't bother me.
We should all be thankful that we're getting some sex and whether the lady wants to contribute is a bonus.
But then if the lady's legs are over your shoulders you can also play with your lady's magic button.
If she's riding 'Cow-Girl', with her head back and caressing her breasts, then I know I can tickle her fancy.
When it's over and she collapses on your chest, you can hold and hug and cuddle.
You might get a face full of her locks, but who cares.
We should all be thankful that we're getting some sex and whether the lady wants to contribute is a bonus.
But then if the lady's legs are over your shoulders you can also play with your lady's magic button.
If she's riding 'Cow-Girl', with her head back and caressing her breasts, then I know I can tickle her fancy.
When it's over and she collapses on your chest, you can hold and hug and cuddle.
You might get a face full of her locks, but who cares.
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I encourage it most sessions, I like her to get off as many times as possible and it drives me crazy so why not.
If all enjoy don't stop.
If all enjoy don't stop.
That does not bother me. I love it when women have orgasms. To me that's the main goal of having sex with a woman. It's probably true that I'd be disappointed if I can't get her off somehow - with my tongue or fingers or my cock - but if she needs to touch herself to get to the promised land, no matter what I do, then so be it. The beat thing about sex with a woman is looking at her, just being with her, after she has had one or more orgasms. I'd ne disappointed if what I contribute doesn't get her off ( I figure that's my job) but not offended or hurt or any of that.
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Nope
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I love it and find it deeply erotic