I am just curious too ask if you this
since im a virgin and and very unexperience - all i do is watch porn and rub myself
But are their other things a girl/guy too do sexual withou going too far and still have sexual fun together and get off
i ask this cause i have been dating this guy for a few weeks now and i want too to take things up a notch
but i dont know how and dont know what things we could do besides Kissing and holding hands
and of the thought of do more than kissing and holding hands excites me
i am very curious too what i can do too make this special guy in my life feel good
any advice for this 25 year old virgin
Thank you and sorry for sounding so weird about it i feel embrassed asking but i really need
some tips and advice since im not ready for sexual intercourse
i know i want too try oral with him but what are some other methonds too making him feel good
and me feel good of course, that is if im good too him lol ;)
PS you can chat with me on here just PM me when im online i love meeting new people
This seems like a really, really odd question for woman to be asking. Moreover, a 25 year old woman. I don't say that because I'm judging you, but because I'm curious as to how this situation came to be.
It seems like you would know what you do to make yourself cum. He can do that too. If he doesn't know how, you can teach him. If he's into you, he'll definitely pursue that option, unless he's a jerk. Again, if he's not a jerk, he can and should go down on you. You'll know what feels good, and so you'll know how to guide him. To a certain extent, at least.
He should also be able to help guide you in making him "feel good" as you put it...
Now for the big question: You're 25... and don't want to have intercourse? This again is ABSOLUTELY NOT A JUDGMENT, but it is a curiosity to me. I don't quite understand. I do, in as much as I didn't want to have sex for years after it's normal to experiment, but that's primarily because when I lost my virginity - way too young - it was involuntary and needless to say there was some psychological trauma involved. If I've struck too close to home, I apologize, but I'm curious why you don't want to? Also, as a side note, most women don't usually orgasm simply from vaginal intercourse with no other stimulation.
Anyway, I hope that's a little bit useful.
When my wife and I were dating, we did alot without doing intercourse, since she wanted to be a virgin when we got married. Using my tongue, fingers or even rubbing against her, she would cum several times. While I could get her to cum all three ways, by far, my tongue was the easiest and her favorite, plus I thoroughly enjoy it as well!
Yes! Use fingertips, mouth or try a little bump n grind.
of course the tongue is the best way
I, like centerline, am a little confused to this also because I read your profile, and in it you say, "i love rubbing my little bud unit i cum on my hand."
It is obvious then, that since you know how to make yourself cum, you should expect your guy to be able to make you cum also.
And I am not being judgmental either, just stating a fact here.
I have to admit, since you say that the thought of more than holding hands and kissing excites you, you sound like you are actually ready to take it to the next level. You are twenty-five years old after all.
But, since you say you do not want to have sex yet because you are not ready, there are several things he can do to you to make your eyes roll back into your head.
First of all, let him know you are ready to take it to the next level and that you are comfortable with him to do this to you.
The tongue is a wonderful way to have him get you off. Just give in to him and let him experiment on you. And it doesn't have to be your vagina or your clit. He can use his tongue on your nipples if you rather him start simple. Some women can orgasm just from nipple stimulation. Tell him to take it slow and see how it feels to you. If you want more and faster, tell him to go faster. There is so much he can do with his mouth on your nipples.
When you were ready for him to go down you, let him take control. If he knows what he is doing, he will know if you like it or not. He will be able to tell by your movements and your tone. If he does something you don't like, be sure to tell him so he will learn how to please use.
Also, as other's have already stated, not just the tongue can be involved. Experiment with fingers and hands and find out where he touches you excites you the most. Maybe his finger running over your center contour will do more for you than his mouth.
You never know until you try. The main thing here is to just relax and let it happen. You want to be able to enjoy the experience.
"So don't cry to me.
If you loved me,
You would be here with me.
Don't lie to me,
Just get your things.
I've made up your mind."
--Evanescence
i used to be able to make my ex cum just by teasin her nipples a certain way
Buy a vibrator and show him where your clit is. That should do nicely...
You are asking this question on Lush?
The answer must be "yes" - and for the reverse, a woman making a man come - or this place would have far fewer members. I realize that many read and do not cyber, but the demographic still must be pretty high.
As to your situation, again the answer is "yes" if he is skilful and attentive.
(Sorry for barging into Ask the Guys, but even Augusta is open to women now.)
Absolutely.
We can give pleasure with totngues and fingers.
well jus watch 40 dys 40 night
You have said that kissing and holding hands is what you have been doing so far.
Most of the responses here have been about him going down on you. That seems a pretty big jump to me.
I think showing him how to touch you with his fingers might be a better first step.
If i may offer you a piece of advice from a guy with a few years on him.
Set the boundaries you two want and make them clear so he can avoid any frustration and ultimately any animosity. Testosterone is a hell of a thing. The drive behind it can be overwhelming for a guy at times.
A lot depends upon a persons libido , sexual concentration , imagination and sensitivity to erogenous zones , of which there are many .
I have experienced girls/women orgasm from my sucking and licking their breasts , another very sensitive zone can be kissing/licking the neck from the earlobe to the angle of the collarbone , where I have also caused an orgasm .
I believe they call " A Dry Fuck " when both man and woman are fully clothed ; he rubs his erect penis against her mons , they feel the pressure through their clothing . A girlfriend and I achieved orgasm that way , leaves a sticky mess in one's underwear , but worth it .
My early dating and romance were before the days of the pill , condoms were not easy to find and Nice Girls Didn't !
This is a subject that has come up before. The answer is a resounding yes! I know this from personal experience. I have made a woman come from just squeezing her thigh just above the knee. I have made a woman come by just sucking on her earlobe. There are hundreds of ways to make a sexual woman come. But if the woman has a problem coming it might take a little more effort, but I guarantee that I can make some women come without fucking her. The only exception would be an unfortunate woman who is clinically unable to have an orgasm.
I can make a woman have an orgasm just by looking at her. I'm that hot.
I think there is a lot of ways of having orgasms without having intercourse. Which are the easy ones such as nipple play is a good one if you’re not comfortable having him go down further. If you are then there is always oral. You give it to him, him giving it to you. There is so much you can do without having sex. You’d just be having a lot of foreplay to cause the orgasms which isn't a bad thing at all.
○ Kissing
○ Fingering
○ Oral (Giving & Receiving)
○ Dry humping
○ Biting
○ Sucking
I guess almost anything you've seen on porn that might have turned you on. You can also ask him what he likes. Unless he is a virgin also? Even if he is, he might watch porn too. That’s another way. You can also just masturbate together and get your own selves off being in the same room.
Fingers and Licking can be good both ways just do what feels right and enjoy him exploring your body if you feel uneasy then tell him so.
I have had some very strong orgasms from just a man's fingers...i love to be fingerfucked and my clit licked and sucked. I will cum strongly with just that!!
if u read ancient spiritual and shrine peoples life u will find the true way of love with orgasm (cum), after many worthy reading on sexual life enjoyment i realized there is a very strong will power method to look deep into the eyes of opposite person until u find the real person and real thoughts(subject actually picturing in brain with the support of heart) running in that person whole powered behave.
if u(any or all users) want an experience just use this few steps i would suggest u must have to act until u find the true reaction abt gal cum.....
1. use u r face to face sitting looking into the eye ball of each other
2. use ur breath to mix in the aroma of ur body to each other without touching
3. concentrate in the eyes of each other and just feel fantasy doing sex with each other
4. go on until u find arousal in ur love making parts of body
5. stay cam dont close ur eyes
6. tears will come from ur eyes till u don't close ur eyes
7. hold ur hand in others hand
8. make sure u r becoming close to each other without making body touch except hands
9. all this needs both person must have same desire to do
10. if this is not happening u will find the other is lier and just want a sex
Definitely, my girlfriend loves being fingered but what really drives her mad is having her nipples played with.
There are a lot of things that you can do without engaging in intercourse. There is oral sex, mutual masturbation, phone sex, and other things. I suggest that since you are already watchingn porn and masturbating, go on line and look for porn that features oral sex, or mutual masturbation etc.. and this way you can get an idea of what these things are and how they are performed. There are sex toys that you can share that are not penetration toys, like the butterfly, that you wear that stimulates your clit and he can contol with a remote control.
Realistically, there is a cornucopia of things that can be done that can cause an orgasm without penetration, so do a little research and let the good times roll!
I have made a woman have an orgasm just by sucking on her nipples.
