Strip clubs, as a rule, don't turn me on. Nor do most other kinds of buildings.
Some strippers, on the other hand, do.
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Do strip clubs turn you on or not?
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Quickly tired of that scene as a good place to drop a lot of dough for little return... LOL (other than a bad case of "blue ball"). Good place to get "played".
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Nope, but I've also never been to one so...
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Not really....it all feels a bit, well, sterile.
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The idea of a girl stripping in front of me certainly turns me on and one doing it up on a stage, dancing to music is no exception. Years ago I was at a college party where the house owner had a dance pole and a stripper had just so happened to be in attendance. After the party had wound down she gave a little show to those that still remained. She only stripped down to her underwear but I loved every second of the show to the point that I was convinced I had to visit a club at some point. Well, it's been a long time since and I've never gone but the allure is still there.
There is something about a girl being flitatious and sexy that just supercedes the reality that she is probably only doing it for the money. Still, I'd like to think that her work to pleasure ratio is at least 50-50 (at least that's what I would tell myself).
Truthfully, I've never gone because I'm too shy. I'd be worried about being too much of a creeper or a cheapskate that I wouldn't be able to enjoy myself. Maybe if I went with a friend or two and had a couple grand to burn I'd let loose but, honestly, there are better ways to spend that kind of cash. Nevertheless, the appeal is still present in full force, as much as I care not to admit it. These are beautiful women on full display after all.
There is something about a girl being flitatious and sexy that just supercedes the reality that she is probably only doing it for the money. Still, I'd like to think that her work to pleasure ratio is at least 50-50 (at least that's what I would tell myself).
Truthfully, I've never gone because I'm too shy. I'd be worried about being too much of a creeper or a cheapskate that I wouldn't be able to enjoy myself. Maybe if I went with a friend or two and had a couple grand to burn I'd let loose but, honestly, there are better ways to spend that kind of cash. Nevertheless, the appeal is still present in full force, as much as I care not to admit it. These are beautiful women on full display after all.
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The idea of a girl stripping in front of me certainly turns me on and one doing it up on a stage, dancing to music is no exception. Years ago I was at a college party where the house owner had a dance pole and a stripper had just so happened to be in attendance. After the party had wound down she gave a little show to those that still remained. She only stripped down to her underwear but I loved every second of the show to the point that I was convinced I had to visit a club at some point. Well, it's been a long time since and I've never gone but the allure is still there.
There is something about a girl being flitatious and sexy that just supercedes the reality that she is probably only doing it for the money. Still, I'd like to think that her work to pleasure ratio is at least 50-50 (at least that's what I would tell myself).
Truthfully, I've never gone because I'm too shy. I'd be worried about being too much of a creeper or a cheapskate that I wouldn't be able to enjoy myself. Maybe if I went with a friend or two and had a couple grand to burn I'd let loose but, honestly, there are better ways to spend that kind of cash. Nevertheless, the appeal is still present in full force, as much as I care not to admit it. These are beautiful women on full display after all.
A couple of grand? REALLY? It doesn't take anywhere NEARLY that much to have a great time even here in the States! $100, $200 if you want to "splurge" unless the place is also a cathouse, THEN take ONE grand (In case you one hour turns into two!) Oh and BTW sticking anything MORE than a single into her G string won't get you anything more than laughed at for thinking it MIGHT.v5558D9LNZxiZvie
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A couple of grand? REALLY? It doesn't take anywhere NEARLY that much to have a great time even here in the States! $100, $200 if you want to "splurge" unless the place is also a cathouse, THEN take ONE grand (In case you one hour turns into two!) Oh and BTW sticking anything MORE than a single into her G string won't get you anything more than laughed at for thinking it MIGHT.PyXzVX0whf1Zp7on
Since I've never been to one I have no idea what to expect to spend. I figure a couple grand would be more than enough, just no idea as to how much more.
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Uh like I said, that's too much unless you plan to "treat" a buddy or two. The amounts I've shown you above should get you where you wanna go. ;) That includes: cover charge, drink minimum (even at their inflated prices ) AND a lap dance or two. IF It's a cathouse type, the girl should run $200 an hour and so will "the room" (on premises).
I didn't enjoy it at all. It reminded me of going "window shopping" with my parents when I was a kid. They had no intention of buying anything, just looking at the display windows on Michigan Ave. in Chicago. If you can't just bang the dancer right there on the table, what's the point of the whole experience? Blue balls and sexual frustration ain't my idea of a good time.
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I have been to strip clubs many times. Mostly when I was younger (in my early 20's) . Do I get turned on? yes. How can you not with sexy lady's all around you taking off there cloths. But now not so much. With all the money you spend in that place, there is really no pay off, (if you know what I mean).. Now I go with my lady to spice things up and get her lap dances.
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I used to spend at least three days a week in different clubs around Tampa. At first yes, girls getting nude in front of you, lap dances where they are grinding on you. After a while it's just like a bar. You know what they look like, I went just to see them. Yes I made friends, dated some, and lived with one for about six months until she decided to travel the circuit. Nothing wrong with dancers, if the guys are willing to spend it there going to take it. I know the girl I lived with had paid her USF tuition off in full, had a PHDS, and owned three apartment buildings.
But the answer to your question, is yes but with moderation.
But the answer to your question, is yes but with moderation.
Well that's just my opinion, sorry if you don't like.
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No. Not at all. Quite the opposite--they repulse me. Having been a close friend of a girl who worked as a stripper, I know all of the horrid things men expect to receive for their dollars, and what it can do to a woman's self-esteem.
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At first when I was young. It was a forbidden pleasure, which always excite us. As I've gotten older, and more jaded, they are a turn-off. Lots of money given to fake smiles with empty promises = a broke man and achy balls. Oh, and the drinks are more expensive especially when the girls are selling them at your table.IvZIs4bovsN9uCZm
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I didn't enjoy it at all. It reminded me of going "window shopping" with my parents when I was a kid. They had no intention of buying anything, just looking at the display windows on Michigan Ave. in Chicago. If you can't just bang the dancer right there on the table, what's the point of the whole experience? Blue balls and sexual frustration ain't my idea of a good time.
It's called a "lap dance" and costs extra. She'll hot dog you with her ass crack then dry hump you to music and you get your rocks off in your underwear. SHE CAN touch you, you CAN'T touch her (in MOST clubs). It doesn't cost what the other guy up there thinks but it ain't for the super cheap either.MKicx5HvqgWoJ2aE
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I've been to one once. I was the designated driver for the group. I sat in the back drinking coffee. One of the women came up to me and said 'you're not into this, are you?'. Apparently my dis-interest was not hard to miss.
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Been a cpl times and definately not. You have to sit on your hands, no touch policy, and you pay good money for a pair of boobs and a wiggle of an arse.
Id rather save my money and treat myself to something nice
Id rather save my money and treat myself to something nice
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I won't say they turn me on bit I enjoy spending time in them. I have met many strippers over the years and while some are fake and give you fake interest I have met many great ones who are "real" and just trying to make a living for them and their kids. The trick is to get to treat them with the same respect you would with anyone else you meet. I count many strippers among my friends and they have help me when I need it just as I help them when I can.
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When I was young and single, very much. The last time I was in a strip club my oldest daughter was a senior in college and all I could think about was, this could be my daughter ... a total and complete turn off.
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They do nothing for me. In the couple of times I have been taken I found them boring.
We are naked for the most part indoors so the idea of watching somebody strip off erotically does not turn me on.
I prefer to undress my partner if its necessary, seductively in our own bedroom.
We are naked for the most part indoors so the idea of watching somebody strip off erotically does not turn me on.
I prefer to undress my partner if its necessary, seductively in our own bedroom.
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I agree I haven't been in any in like 33 years. In my forties I used to drive A cab part time. There were several strip joints in the town I worked in, Cicero IL. At least 1or 2 times A week I would get A call to pick up A stripper at one of the clubs. I found out why those clubs are so dimly lit. If you seen most of these women in the lite of day you would loose interest. Talk to them when their in their comfort zone away from the clubs, And it becomes all to clear to you why their in that line of work. In summation;Like cops I never met one I trusted or would want to be friends with. No thank you I have better things to do with my time & money. 
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They do nothing whatsoever for me.....utterly without any appeal at all. It is the same principle as sexy pics....nude or porn pics of professionals pulling stupid faces or, in videos, faking orgasms etc are of no interest at all. But real people, in their real homes....now that's different.
I used to work close to "For Your Eyes Only" in my city......seeing the girls at the back door arriving for their shifts.......well as has been mentioned elsewhere you could tell why the lighting is always so low.
We were asked to pitch to do some advertising for them....sooooooooooooo sad to see the poor guys who'd paid for one of the girls to talk to them for 30 minutes.
So all in all it's a "no" from me.
I used to work close to "For Your Eyes Only" in my city......seeing the girls at the back door arriving for their shifts.......well as has been mentioned elsewhere you could tell why the lighting is always so low.
We were asked to pitch to do some advertising for them....sooooooooooooo sad to see the poor guys who'd paid for one of the girls to talk to them for 30 minutes.
So all in all it's a "no" from me.
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In a previous job the corporate culture involved strip clubs (along with a lot of steakhouses and football games), maybe once a month or so. I can't say I never enjoyed myself, but they tend to leave me pretty cold. It's so artificial and dehumanized, and so centered around money. And the strip club crowd is SO depressing - take a look around at the faces of the men at a strip club sometime. They are blank with desire. Blank. There is a real joylessness to it.
And a time or two I'd catch a detail (what comes to mind is seeing a small scar on a girl's lip) that took me totally out of the performance and left me wondering about the girl, and her real life, and what working there must be like. It made me sad.
So. I might go again someday. But in general: not my thing.
And a time or two I'd catch a detail (what comes to mind is seeing a small scar on a girl's lip) that took me totally out of the performance and left me wondering about the girl, and her real life, and what working there must be like. It made me sad.
So. I might go again someday. But in general: not my thing.
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I used to manage a strip club in Indianapolis, IN ... called 'The Body Shop'. After about a week it is difficult to get turned on, you see it everyday and it is not like the dancers work too hard at being new and inventive each day. What I did find out was how wonderful some of the women actually are. When you see them as real women and not the fantasy it is easier to just have a good time with them. It actually became more like babysitting for naked kids.... I would do it again... 
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I was a bodyguard for a stripper in Tucson for a while. It was just a business for the strippers. A way to make money. Hardly ever was there any true mutual attraction as much as a "transaction"
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