I imagine many things. If the friend is attractive to me of course I imagine what it would be like. Does not mean I act on what I imagine. Friendships are precious things.
If I ever got an inking that the friend had an interest in a relationship re-imagining I would act slowly. Because mistaken signals between the sexes are much more common than friendships.
Some, sure, but not all of them. As others have said, I wouldn't want to risk fucking up a friendship over a romp between the sheets..
My cock always say yes whether it is anyone
The man from Del Monte...he say Yes
My Karma just ran over your Dogma
Huh, no. Not all of my female friends are gorgeous and are up to my sexual standards; and this might sound arrogant, but I can allow myself to be selective.
If we're talking about those that would actually be up to my sexual standards but that I'm only friends with for various reasons, that would still be a 'no' in a lot of cases. I really am an 'all or nothing' kind of guy, so if I don't see sex happening with a specific girl because I have the feeling that I'm not her type or because that would turn a sincere friendship into an awkward/cheating situation, sex really isn't on my mind. A hot friend can still entice me occasionally, but that's usually on a low/casual level and I often do my best to keep it that way in the aforementioned circumstances. I have a lot of pride too, and I don't exactly enjoy 'craving a girl desperately' or 'fantasizing about her' when it's not reciprocated in any way. And it probably removes a lot of pressure when you can actually get laid elsewhere.
To be fair, I'm not really the kind to 'fantasize' much in the first place. This has nothing to do with not having a dirty mind or feeling guilty about it, I'm just not really used to arouse myself by using only my mind; I guess that I'm very visual, I almost always masturbate to porn/pictures. A girl can still excite me immensely simply by wearing sexy clothes and interacting with me, but I don't really imagine her naked or doing things to me: I take the 'seduction process' for what it is, and that's plenty enticing for me in and of itself. And I'll start imagining myself doing things to her when we'll get there, there's no need to skip steps.
I definitely fantasize about a few of my female friends. Some times we flirt but it never goes any further, except for once. I had a very good female friend and we had sex. It was amazing and the best sex either of us ever had. We wound up getting married.
pretty much so, yes......
Sorry to butt in on an ask the guys thread, but as I know a number of straight men who's friends are mainly female and completely platonic, so I have been thinking about this one, and an incident on Saturday sort of encapsulated this point of view. One of my dancing friends is very comfortable around women, and as dancing is very tactile anyway, all us ladies are very touchy feely and huggy with him as we feel completely safe. However he is so used to this fraternal attitude towards the opposite sex so when someone is actually hitting on him it just doesn't register!
At the latest social dance two young women were flirting with him competitively; batting their eyelashes, hanging on his arm, vying for his attention throughout the evening. All the 30-odd people in the room were very aware of what was happening - apart from the man himself, who genuinely hadn't noticed until it was pointed out afterwards and we all teased him mercilessly. I have bestowed on him the nickname of Oblivious Boy...
Yep. At some point or other. Maybe just because I'm near enough constantly horny but yep, every female friend, any and every female work colleague that I find at least of average attractiveness etc etc... SO's sister even though she's not as attractive as SO. I have a compulsion to fantasize about almost everyone and find out what it's like with them in my mind.
Not all of them and not all of us.
Many, but not all.
There are some who I don't find sexually attractive - great friends, but not sexually attractive
There are some who are off limits because it would really mess up inter- or intra- family relationships.
There are some with whom it would be illegal, in this country.
All? No most definitely not.
Some? Not really. More of the odd thought of "mmm she's hot".
Very few ... have sometimes imagined sexual scenarios. But this requires mental effort on my part which is usually when I have nothing better to do! The devil makes work for idle hands (and minds) etc.
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Sometimes then sometimes it get weird since you know them so well
I haven't done that to be honest, they're attractive and all but I've never thought of them in that way
Call me what you will but I have never fantasized about a woman I didn't find attractive. That said most of wife's girl friends are pretty hot. So heck yeah I fantasize about having sex with them. I fantasize about her having sex with them. I fantasize that they all have sex together and I come home to lend assistance to their needing at least one hard cock.
ok, I think I mostly covered that.
Does that answer your question?
..... well in that case I think I want to know them better so that they can become my friends - we all begin strangers.
