Quote by Dancing_Doll
Hey Newsletter - hope you change your mind and stick around. I honestly think that some people got their backs up because in your original thread in the other section, it stirs up that sentiment that women are presumed to be giving sexual signals while engaging in completely innocent activities. Even though your question may have been totally casual or just a thought, for a woman that has been perved on before or objectified, it can trigger that kind of reaction. If this had been your original Q without the attachment to the other thread, I think you would have had far more 'yes' answers. There's plenty of guys that enjoy lingerie or clothing fetishes or enjoy masturbating with them or even wearing them. You're not out of place here. I don't think it's an 'all-guys' have this fetish thing though. Most guys are excited at the idea of seeing a woman in lingerie, but probably not all are turned on by the actual undergarments themselves. Some are though - so it becomes a fetish. I don't think anyone would say there's anything wrong with that - as long as it's understood that a casual display like a laundry line isn't out of the norm for women because we assume most people just see it as clothes. Hope that helps and you aren't totally dissuaded by the forums. Many threads have their ups and downs as discussion is generated - it's just par for the course on the internet.
All I can add is that, in my opinion, this place thrives on lively debates and differing opinions. Your question ruffled a few feathers, so what, don't get aggressive or personal about it. Tolerance also includes tolerating other people when they don't concur with you.
