Cyber-dates? Do you do this?

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Thanks for your opinions. Not judging, just fascinated that some people get that much into it. I think it's a great thing if it brings some extra fun into people's lives.

John, if you stepped up the dinner fodder, you might get out of the potting shed. Just saying.

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Oh, I can only imagine...





Dear OutspreadMama69,

I thereby invite you to have dinner with me at this upscale French restaurant 'The Mustached Charlatan'. If you'd indulge me, I'd like you to wear that red plunging dress that this woman is wearing in the Comment I sent you Tuesday (the one just below that other GIF I sent where a blonde is humping her pussy on a stripper pole). Of course I'll only be looking into your marvelous eyes, but this could be nice if I ever feel like looking elsewhere. Myself, I'll be wearing my classic tuxedo which accentuates my athletic build and my broad shoulders, the exact same that Tom Ford is wearing on my avatar.

We then could have a romantic walk on a promenade. Hopefully, and if the stars are well aligned, you'll let me fuck your ass at some point, though I really won't bother if you don't feel like it as I'll be browsing VixenVirgin89 profile at the same time anyway.

Yours truly, BigDickNickXx

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Ladies please feel free to post your own experiences or thoughts with this, here.

Recently 2 of my online girl friends have told me their cyber-partners "date" them. I had never heard of this before. One girl told me her online partner would send her an email telling her where he would be taking her for their "date". Links to pics of where they would be having dinner etc might be included in that. They would then meet online at a specific time. I don't think either couple use webcam so the fantasy remains just that. . Both my friends told me it's the guy who plans all this.

Do any of you guys do this? If you do can you tell me why? I have been at lush for two and a half years and this is the first time I've heard of this.

If you would feel more comfortable sending me a PM with your post please do.

I AM NOT LOOKING FOR CYBER-DATES. Just sayin'.

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Do they send pictures of the meal that they are eating?
Oh god! Do they split the bill?

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Ok T thanks for the advice .. I will keep some bags of cheese and onion crisps in the shed from today .

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Cheese and onion ain't gonna cut it J. Do you want to give her onion breath? What about bangers and mash? Lol

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I don't do it myself, but I see it here all the time in chat. There are even people that come in a chat room posting a picture of what they may or may not be wearing.

In chat, you can choose a background and create a theme for your room, so taking it a step further to create a date isn't all that far-fetched. If you're sitting at home in a robe and yesterday's undies while pretending to wear a tux or a designer dress, it's all in fun. It's just another form of role playing, which is encouraged here.

As long as you're not hurting anybody, it's not a big deal. I don't judge.

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Ladies please feel free to post your own experiences or thoughts with this, here.

Recently 2 of my online girl friends have told me their cyber-partners "date" them. I had never heard of this before. One girl told me her online partner would send her an email telling her where he would be taking her for their "date". Links to pics of where they would be having dinner etc might be included in that. They would then meet online at a specific time. I don't think either couple use webcam so the fantasy remains just that. . Both my friends told me it's the guy who plans all this.

Do any of you guys do this? If you do can you tell me why? I have been at lush for two and a half years and this is the first time I've heard of this.

If you would feel more comfortable sending me a PM with your post please do.

I AM NOT LOOKING FOR CYBER-DATES. Just sayin'.

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My understanding is this.

That you were told about these dates privately and that the persons in question didnt expect you to then create a forum about what they told you as a friend and privately, both friends are somewhat hurt that you took it upon yourself to make a forum about it and discuss pubicly what they told you privately as a friend.

A cyber date can be anything I am sorry noone took the time with you.

Doesnt have to be sexual often isnt, just means that said person wants to arrange to spend time with you.

I have done so and it can be anything from getting a film off youtube to watch together, or spending time talking and posting songs. Watching grand prix together or having cyber sex...either way its a specific amount of time spending time together..at times yes if one has imagination one can invisage a place you would both like to go and treat it as thus if one wanted to and if one takes the time to do so rather than just just getting off..my hat off to the ones who take the time to do so.

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Like DUH *you* .. there is no power in the shed .. how the hell am I supposed to cook anything .. omg you would be soooooooooooooooo useless at cyber .. you just dont think these things through before you engage the mouth.







lmao .. sorry T .. love ya really .. lol.

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Thank you, Kiera for sharing your cyber-date experiences with us. I didn't mention any names but thanks for coming forward as someone who does cyber-date and what you do on those cyber-dates.

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With a "friend" like Trinket .... who needs enemies?

I think the origin of this thread is in poor taste. To throw "friends" out like that is cringe-worthy.

Kudos to Kiera for saying so.

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My understanding is this.

That you were told about these dates privately and that the persons in question didnt expect you to then create a forum about what they told you as a friend and privately, both friends are somewhat hurt that you took it upon yourself to make a forum about it and discuss pubicly what they told you privately as a friend.

A cyber date can be anything I am sorry noone took the time with you.

Doesnt have to be sexual often isnt, just means that said person wants to arrange to spend time with you.

I have done so and it can be anything from getting a film off youtube to watch together, or spending time talking and posting songs. Watching grand prix together or having cyber sex...either way its a specific amount of time spending time together..at times yes if one has imagination one can invisage a place you would both like to go and treat it as thus if one wanted to and if one takes the time to do so rather than just just getting off..my hat off to the ones who take the time to do so.