I guess to some guys, its worth it being able to talk to those profiles that "only chat with women" . it kinda makes me wonder...how many of these "lesbians" are just dudes talking to each other? I suppose that would make them transsexual times two?
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but why?? and why is it a guy thing??
It's very rare that I agree to a request for a chat with a man or women on Lush as I'm not into cyber but I agreed on this particular occasion because I had previously agreed to be her friend. It wasn't long before the woman asking for the chat was wanting to fuck my ass, when I replied "sorry not into anal" she said "well just suck me off then". I closed the chat window then deleted her from my friends list. I think he (sorry she) was probably drunk or stoned and had forgotten what she/he was supposed to be.
Why is it a guy thing to pretend to be a women?
I don't know as this was my first experience of it but...
It certainly puts Freud's theory of "Penile Envy" to the test
Why is it a guy thing to pretend to be a women?
I don't know as this was my first experience of it but...
It certainly puts Freud's theory of "Penile Envy" to the test
Good Question...
As you notice, I have a girl's name and a girl's Avatar... Though I'm a straight guy...
Initially, when I joined Lush my normal monikers Steve F, Stephen, etc were taken and so i went for Stephanie, (rather unusually, I've have both DJ'd, in full drag, and written magazine columns under the moniker of Stephanie.) The main reason I did this was to protect my anonimity. And I chose an Avatar that looked like who she might be and that I fancied and I went to work!
Incidentally, from Day One I always was tagged as MALE on my profile. If anyone bothered to look!
Now...
As many of my friends here will confirm, The First Thing I say upon being contacted by a fellow-Lushie is that I'm a Guy. I'm a great believer in honesty and writing as 'Stephanie' is one thing, (indeed writing under a pseudonym frees my imagination to the point where I can go places where Steve would be hesitant to explore...) BUT msging as 'Stephanie', (I don't really chat and never cyber...) that is pretending I'm female is simply dishonest and counter-productive. I'm around in part to meet people, so what's the point in lying?
I have on numerous occasions received apologetic Msgs from men who obviously have no interest in talking to another bloke. These days, I avoid befriending other guys UNLESS they have commented on the writing, (Blind-befriending!) and I always STILL mention I'm a guy...
Having now turned into a confirmed Lushie I have posted pictures of what I REALLY look like on my profile page. Despite the popularity of Lush Stories, I still haven't been outed in my home town yet, or had stones thrown at me in the street! (Ridiculous as it sounds, I did imagine when I first joined that this could happen!)
I have chosen NOT to change my lush name or Avatar because I've grown to really like what she let's me write and anyway she's really hot! (And that's only a little bit odd, I think!)
It's despicable and sad and terribly insecure and weird to PRETEND to be a woman to engage other women....
I know a couple of women on Lush who this has happened to and frankly it beggars belief! Something deeply icky and immature about it...
These days I accept no requests from anyone who hasn't msg'd me or commented on my work...
That said, if it's a GIRL who sends a blind request and she's cute and I like her profile I sometimes accept. (See, I really AM a bloke!!! LOL!) Except now I realise that I may be accepting Men In Cyber Drag!!!!!!
Isn't The Web wonderful!!!!
xx SF
As you notice, I have a girl's name and a girl's Avatar... Though I'm a straight guy...
Initially, when I joined Lush my normal monikers Steve F, Stephen, etc were taken and so i went for Stephanie, (rather unusually, I've have both DJ'd, in full drag, and written magazine columns under the moniker of Stephanie.) The main reason I did this was to protect my anonimity. And I chose an Avatar that looked like who she might be and that I fancied and I went to work!
Incidentally, from Day One I always was tagged as MALE on my profile. If anyone bothered to look!
Now...
As many of my friends here will confirm, The First Thing I say upon being contacted by a fellow-Lushie is that I'm a Guy. I'm a great believer in honesty and writing as 'Stephanie' is one thing, (indeed writing under a pseudonym frees my imagination to the point where I can go places where Steve would be hesitant to explore...) BUT msging as 'Stephanie', (I don't really chat and never cyber...) that is pretending I'm female is simply dishonest and counter-productive. I'm around in part to meet people, so what's the point in lying?
I have on numerous occasions received apologetic Msgs from men who obviously have no interest in talking to another bloke. These days, I avoid befriending other guys UNLESS they have commented on the writing, (Blind-befriending!) and I always STILL mention I'm a guy...
Having now turned into a confirmed Lushie I have posted pictures of what I REALLY look like on my profile page. Despite the popularity of Lush Stories, I still haven't been outed in my home town yet, or had stones thrown at me in the street! (Ridiculous as it sounds, I did imagine when I first joined that this could happen!)
I have chosen NOT to change my lush name or Avatar because I've grown to really like what she let's me write and anyway she's really hot! (And that's only a little bit odd, I think!)
It's despicable and sad and terribly insecure and weird to PRETEND to be a woman to engage other women....
I know a couple of women on Lush who this has happened to and frankly it beggars belief! Something deeply icky and immature about it...
These days I accept no requests from anyone who hasn't msg'd me or commented on my work...
That said, if it's a GIRL who sends a blind request and she's cute and I like her profile I sometimes accept. (See, I really AM a bloke!!! LOL!) Except now I realise that I may be accepting Men In Cyber Drag!!!!!!
Isn't The Web wonderful!!!!
xx SF
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Heh, I post my real photo all over Lush. In all manner of fuckeduppedness.
I also post my real photo(s) on all the swinger/alternative-lifestyle-fucking/Match.com type dating sites too. And I don't worry one bit about anyone in my family - stumbling across 'me'.
95% of my family can't figure out how to reply to their own damned emails, let alone send a file to their color printer, unless I'm helping them out or doing it for them - remotely.
For the last 14 years, I've only had to worry about the overly sexed beta geeks who I have worked with, finding 'me' on the LetsFuckStranger, websites. But then, they'd have to admit to being paying members of such websites too. My anonymity is secure by me adopting the old Nuclear War philosophy of MAD - Mutually Assured Destruction.
Of course, I don't call myself WellMadeMale on Alt.SpankMe.com or AFF or FUCKBOOK.com
I generally go by RoccoTool, DamonX or ThePainter. I gotta be original and different on those sites. Naming conventions are EVERTHING, yanno.
Perhaps I'll try StephanieXXX next
I also post my real photo(s) on all the swinger/alternative-lifestyle-fucking/Match.com type dating sites too. And I don't worry one bit about anyone in my family - stumbling across 'me'.
95% of my family can't figure out how to reply to their own damned emails, let alone send a file to their color printer, unless I'm helping them out or doing it for them - remotely.
For the last 14 years, I've only had to worry about the overly sexed beta geeks who I have worked with, finding 'me' on the LetsFuckStranger, websites. But then, they'd have to admit to being paying members of such websites too. My anonymity is secure by me adopting the old Nuclear War philosophy of MAD - Mutually Assured Destruction.
Of course, I don't call myself WellMadeMale on Alt.SpankMe.com or AFF or FUCKBOOK.com
I generally go by RoccoTool, DamonX or ThePainter. I gotta be original and different on those sites. Naming conventions are EVERTHING, yanno.
Perhaps I'll try StephanieXXX next
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Ha! Ha! Ha! I love it!
(Should point out that on www.blindfoldmewithyourpantiesandspankmyass.com I've already taken the name Stephanie XXX)
xx S
(Should point out that on www.blindfoldmewithyourpantiesandspankmyass.com I've already taken the name Stephanie XXX)
xx S
I dont get it either. I have and never will pretend to be a female. I have been on other sites looking for cybering....so that wont work. Not sure what they are looking for. My daughter turned me on to this site and I love it. She is a teenager and we have a very open relationship and honest. She knows what i have been looking for (a place where I can be myself and talk to others with the same interests....so why why not be who you are!).