I'm surprised nobody has already said that it depends on what it tastes like! Not all cum tastes the same. Not all cum tastes like you would WANT to swallow it.
spitting shows you don't enjoy him swallowing is important to show him how much you wanted him and to add to his pleasure
The first few times I swallowed I didn't have a choicee and I guess I got used to it and like it happening that way. I've never seen spitting as optional and wouldn't want to.
you know what they say: what's the difference between like and love? spit or swallow
The first time I tasted semen was a shock and I swallowed not realising what I was doing. I suffered no ill effects. He was amused and I did it again to find out more about it.
I was close to spitting when I tasted his cum after had been eating Asparagus. Now I can handle anything they feed me. I love it.
I fell swallowing is the only way to go.....nothing more exciting than a man feeding you his precious seed.
To each her own! For me, swallowing is something I want to do for any guy I have sex with.
I'm curious about this "spitting". Are we talking like a cowboy in a saloon with a chaw? Onto the sheets in a gagging fashion? Discreetly into a silk hanky on the nightstand? And there is a third alternative. Just let it run back out onto your hand/his cock. Us it for additional lube. Maybe lick at it if it's a quantity/quality/taste issue.
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Swallowing feels better but I don't mind if she needs to spit.
Personally for me, that falls into the women's choice. I dont bring it up unless the woman does and then it's always going to be her choice.
doesn't matter to me, as long as she's giving the bj she can do what she wants
swallow.....shows that she enjoys the act and you..very sexy
Well, it's very much up to the lady in question. Sex with a guy shouldn't be like a hazing ceremony or Fear Factor; it's supposed to fun for her too (I read that somewhere). Expecting her to do something she doesn't want to do is, to say the least, unfair. That applies anytime, anywhere to any person. It's not unreasonable and completely acceptable for a woman to say, "no, I don't want to do that." I just wish there were more women who could apply that rule of thumb to men as well, but that aside, it's up to the lady.
I just always swallowed!! Didn't realized I had a choice. Spitting is just eeew and cumming in my face is a major turn-off.
Swallowing has come naturally to me. I have never spit. Somtimes I let him cum on me if I want to feel slutty.
Spit or swallow either one is fine. Let it run down your chin and onto your tits if you like. I will lick it off for you. Let me shoot in your mouth and kiss me. We can share it.
Well I have had a few girlfriends in my life and they varied from spitting to swallowing
1st wife - didnt suck at all
girlfriend - spit
wife 2 Swallowed
mistress - swallowed
girlfriend - spat
girlfriend - Swallowed
girlfriend spat
girlfriend swallowed
girlfriend spat and swallowed depened on her mood
current gf - Spits
I do prefer a woman who swallows than spit, especially when they suck so hard makes your body go into a spasm and your whole body shakes, then you know its a good BJ and youre totally satisfied. Only happened to me twice out of the above.
I have told all my gf this, idc if you swallow or spit. I just want to cum in your mouth when I'm cumming and you keep sucking until it's all out my pleasure is done I cam and it felt amazing thanks but I cam so what ever you want to do with the cum is up to you
I'm not allowed to cum in my wifes mouth full stop!
It is def a lot more satisfying to see her swallow your orgasm... love it. If you are going to spit, just let it drip out and keep sucking - nothing worse then running away to spit out my cum leaving me stroking my self.
It's a lovely bonus that makes a man feel special. Then again, when you consider that a man takes in quite a bit of a woman's fluid, you shouldn't blame a guy if he's disappointed if you don't.
Spitting or swallowing is fine with me. Her choice.
Now throwing up ... that is a definite turn off.
I wouldn't like it, if he spat my pussy juice out when given me oral. So I always swallow (unless I'm very drunk). I enjoy the taste too but what I enjoy more is how much the guys enjoy it when we girls swallow their loads.
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