Are breast implants a turn-off or turn-on?

21 Apr 2010

I believe we all believe that... oh forget it, how can complete such a sentence... so it boils down to being subjective.

Since we discussed the issue on the personality feats too, I would just say that I have a very bad feeling about implants, and it's all because of a very very bad dream. The "nightmare" included some kind of "living substance" moving under my skin, and doctor was trying to nail it down using his lancet. The wounds didn't matter, though. The feeling of "something else moving under my skin" felt very... unpleasant.

I have never been with someone who has breast implants, but I am sure that same feeling will awaken inside me as soon as I touch them. So I would prefer to stay away.

Of course, this is just the result of a bad personal experience... subjective to the bottom.

21 Apr 2010

I prefer natural, even if you can't always tell, especially these days with enhances in surgery and medical knowlege. But, yes, Natural is better, no matter the size. I know a few female friends that think they are too small and need to go larger, and it's a personal choice for them, but I don't think there's any point in making them bigger. The surgery is supposed to be hell, too. So I think it's too much of a bother.

4 Jun 2010

If you aren't blessed naturally then getting breast implants is all about having the total package. In L.A. a hot playboy body will open doors and will take a girl with a butterface to sexual rockstar status. Just look at Heidi Montag and Pamela Anderson and how their careers have skyrocketed since they amped up their bodies. There is no question that if you invest in your look the payoffs will be there. Most of my buddies in the industry buy implants for their girlfriends or fiancees if they don't already have them, well as long as the girl makes it past the 6 month mark otherwise your just doing a favor for the next guy.

4 Jun 2010

Quote by The_Driver
If you aren't blessed naturally then getting breast implants is all about having the total package. In L.A. a hot playboy body will open doors and will take a girl with a butterface to sexual rockstar status. Just look at Heidi Montag and Pamela Anderson and how their careers have skyrocketed since they amped up their bodies. There is no question that if you invest in your look the payoffs will be there. Most of my buddies in the industry buy implants for their girlfriends or fiancees if they don't already have them, well as long as the girl makes it past the 6 month mark otherwise your just doing a favor for the next guy.

There is so much in that statement that I find incredibly disturbing. How exactly do you have that conversation with your girlfriend? "Baby, I love you, but you just aren't good enough. I think you need enhancement. Don't worry, I'll pay for it." If you and your friends like plastic women so much, I can hook you up with some great ones. Here's a link for you. Date site That way you can stop fucking with the self esteem of beautiful women who don't need any improvements.

Breasts don't need to be big to be beautiful. In fact, I think that too large is more of a problem than too small. I don't need the media to tell me what is beautiful, I can think for myself.

I like a real woman. I know beauty when I see it. My idea of beauty is not as narrow as yours. Beauty isn't just skin deep. It runs through the entire woman to the depths of her soul. It's how she acts when she lets her guard down, and lets you see who she truly is. It's in her mind, the way she thinks about the world around her. It's the imperfections that make a woman unique, special, and beautiful. And until you see that, you are never going to be satisfied.

4 Jun 2010

Quote by Jebru

There is so much in that statement that I find incredibly disturbing. How exactly do you have that conversation with your girlfriend? "Baby, I love you, but you just aren't good enough. I think you need enhancement. Don't worry, I'll pay for it." If you and your friends like plastic women so much, I can hook you up with some great ones. Here's a link for you. Date site That way you can stop fucking with the self esteem of beautiful women who don't need any improvements.

Breasts don't need to be big to be beautiful. In fact, I think that too large is more of a problem than too small. I don't need the media to tell me what is beautiful, I can think for myself.

I like a real woman. I know beauty when I see it. My idea of beauty is not as narrow as yours. Beauty isn't just skin deep. It runs through the entire woman to the depths of her soul. It's how she acts when she lets her guard down, and lets you see who she truly is. It's in her mind, the way she thinks about the world around her. It's the imperfections that make a woman unique, special, and beautiful. And until you see that, you are never going to be satisfied.

Bro, you actually nailed that conversation on the head. That's exactly how it goes! And they are grateful believe me because they end up feeling better about their look, they don't have to worry about stacking up to the other girls if she's been disguising her mosquito bites with padding and push up bras. You want to talk about self-esteem, what can be better than making a girl twice as hot for five figures in cash and a day of outpatient surgery? And she knows it, right away!

Push up bras only take you so far but when you get naked the jig is up and seeing that disappointed look in your eyes affects a woman's self esteem and I'm all about empowering women to feel their best at all times so why not give your girl a competitive edge. Not to mention that you get enjoy them too.

If you want to talk about how men supposedly love the natural look well then take a look at Pamela Anderson and the cash that babe has made from nothing other than her stacked rack and her look. You think she was popular because of her acting skills on Baywatch? She was a hot chick that made millions after she got her implants. There's a reason every flat-chested honey in Hollywood gets urged to buy a new rack- once they do, they are hotter and nobody pays as much attention to how good they are at what they are doing anymore, which means everybody makes more money, too.

So don't feed me the whole "we prefer natural" argument when its obvious that society at large looks at and rewards a well stacked woman, even the artificial variety. When they get a little long in the tooth, that changes to "especially" the artificial variety.

Don't worry bro, I hear you and that was one heartfelt speech you gave. I know you mean it, and I'm sure you will make some girl really happy with that kind of kindness, at least until she gets bored. Maybe you should write screenplays, seriously. God knows we could always use more talent out here. Ever noticed how jacked up the writing is in so many movies and shows? With writing this bad, we need more and more big-breasted jobs every day to distract the viewers that pay all our bills.

I think a rom-com might be up your alley, you got a knack for seeing it from an emotional point of view. The chicks dig that. On TV, anyway.

4 Jun 2010

Quote by Jebru
Quote by The_Driver
If you aren't blessed naturally then getting breast implants is all about having the total package. In L.A. a hot playboy body will open doors and will take a girl with a butterface to sexual rockstar status. Just look at Heidi Montag and Pamela Anderson and how their careers have skyrocketed since they amped up their bodies. There is no question that if you invest in your look the payoffs will be there. Most of my buddies in the industry buy implants for their girlfriends or fiancees if they don't already have them, well as long as the girl makes it past the 6 month mark otherwise your just doing a favor for the next guy.

There is so much in that statement that I find incredibly disturbing. How exactly do you have that conversation with your girlfriend? "Baby, I love you, but you just aren't good enough. I think you need enhancement. Don't worry, I'll pay for it." If you and your friends like plastic women so much, I can hook you up with some great ones. Here's a link for you. Date site That way you can stop fucking with the self esteem of beautiful women who don't need any improvements.

Breasts don't need to be big to be beautiful. In fact, I think that too large is more of a problem than too small. I don't need the media to tell me what is beautiful, I can think for myself.

I like a real woman. I know beauty when I see it. My idea of beauty is not as narrow as yours. Beauty isn't just skin deep. It runs through the entire woman to the depths of her soul. It's how she acts when she lets her guard down, and lets you see who she truly is. It's in her mind, the way she thinks about the world around her. It's the imperfections that make a woman unique, special, and beautiful. And until you see that, you are never going to be satisfied.

I don't think I could like you more than I do at this moment. hello1

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4 Jun 2010

Quote by The_Driver

If you want to talk about how men supposedly love the natural look well then take a look at Pamela Anderson and the cash that babe has made from nothing other than her stacked rack and her look. You think she was popular because of her acting skills on Baywatch? She was a hot chick that made millions after she got her implants. There's a reason every flat-chested honey in Hollywood gets urged to buy a new rack- once they do, they are hotter and nobody pays as much attention to how good they are at what they are doing anymore, which means everybody makes more money, too.

So don't feed me the whole "we prefer natural" argument when its obvious that society at large looks at and rewards a well stacked woman, even the artificial variety. When they get a little long in the tooth, that changes to "especially" the artificial variety.

Don't worry bro, I hear you and that was one heartfelt speech you gave. I know you mean it, and I'm sure you will make some girl really happy with that kind of kindness, at least until she gets bored. Maybe you should write screenplays, seriously. God knows we could always use more talent out here. Ever noticed how jacked up the writing is in so many movies and shows? With writing this bad, we need more and more big-breasted jobs every day to distract the viewers that pay all our bills.

I think a rom-com might be up your alley, you got a knack for seeing it from an emotional point of view. The chicks dig that. On TV, anyway.

Pamela Anderson made a lot of cash as a fantasy figure, sure, I'll give you that. But now, she's a caricature. The punch line of jokes. She even had her implants taken out and replaced with smaller ones. But I think you need to get out of LA a little more often. The rest of the world does not see things the way Hollywood does. Hollywood is fantasy life. We know it isn't real. We want more than just a blonde bombshell. We want someone who can actually excite and interact with us in real life.

As far as the rest of your arrogant, condescending comments, I'll just cover them with this. Who the fuck are you to make assumptions about my life? Girls don't get bored with me because I have something you don't: Substance. I find working out an hour a day boring, it doesn't occupy my mind. But if I wanted to, I could have your rock hard body too. I'm not in bad shape as it is. But no matter how hard you try, you will never have my heart, or my mind.

So fuck off, stop trying to be the big dog here, to make up for the fact you are just a small fish in real life.

4 Jun 2010

Turn off for sure ,I love natural breasts I think most girls have done it for their own, very personal reasons.

4 Jun 2010

I don't have a preference, real or fake, small or big. Its the woman that counts and not the shallow vanity that the LA-mindset strives for.

I have to agree with Jebru on this Driver ... get out of Hollywood and see how life is lived in the real world. It sounds as if your experience is based in the entertainment set and not in the real world ... entertainment is just that. It is not real and never has been, its all a facade and those who bask in its glory and try to justify their lifestyle are as fake and shallow as their business. People like Heidi Montag and Pamela Anderson are the butts of many jokes, there are never a shortage of them. And there will continue to be newer and younger clones of them in the future for LA fanboys to fall in love with while the rest of the world laughs as they shake their heads; Americans shake their heads in embarrassment and the rest shake their heads at the farce that is Hollywood.

And to clarify what I mean by "entertainment business" before a bunch of panties/boxers gets in a wad ... I mean Hollywood entertainment. Not artists, musicians and dancers. I'm speaking directly of the business that The_Driver places so highly in the priorities of the world.

4 Jun 2010

Quote by Jebru

Pamela Anderson made a lot of cash as a fantasy figure, sure, I'll give you that. But now, she's a caricature. The punch line of jokes. She even had her implants taken out and replaced with smaller ones. But I think you need to get out of LA a little more often. The rest of the world does not see things the way Hollywood does. Hollywood is fantasy life. We know it isn't real. We want more than just a blonde bombshell. We want someone who can actually excite and interact with us in real life.

As far as the rest of your arrogant, condescending comments, I'll just cover them with this. Who the fuck are you to make assumptions about my life? Girls don't get bored with me because I have something you don't: Substance. I find working out an hour a day boring, it doesn't occupy my mind. But if I wanted to, I could have your rock hard body too. I'm not in bad shape as it is. But no matter how hard you try, you will never have my heart, or my mind.

So fuck off, stop trying to be the big dog here, to make up for the fact you are just a small fish in real life.

Relax bro, it appears I really ruffled your feathers with one. You think I'm trying to make you look bad, but all we're doing is talking. You want to get all hurt and toss an f-bomb my way then that's okay. We all deal with our feelings different ways. My advice would be to keep that to a minimum though. I don't want to see us get dragged to the principals office in our first conversation here because of some foul language. Nice place, by the way.

First of all about you "being hurt" by my assumptions about you, I'll tell you this. I make assumptions based on what I see. Just like you make assumptions about me. Assumptions are a part of life and they're not always fair. In my business assumptions and impressions are made in the first 5 minutes. So I get it that your a hater. Good looking people get resentment all the time. There's lots of envy and jealousy in the world when you've got your shit together and the rest of the world doesn't. I'm not arrogant or condescending bro, I'm confident. The minute you start doubting yourself that's when you start slowing down and suddenly find yourself at the back of the pack choking on fumes and dust. So I run hard and fast and give life 100% all the time. Sometimes that intimidates people and when they can't keep up, yeah I get the hater-ade.

First of all let's get the facts straight. Pamela Anderson had her breast implants reduced to a smaller size for a few months! Then you know what? She amped them right back up again. Stay current and know the facts if you're going to use them. That's the first tip.

As for women who are exciting and interactive. That's a terrible thing for you to judge women on. So your saying that if a woman gets breast implants she's just a dumb plastic woman? I'll bet there are some honies on Lush that have had some work done that would be very offended by your assumptions. Ah, there's that word again. Assumptions.

I'd say you're in no position to say whether or not the rest of the world sees things they way we do here in LA. For your future information, Hollywood is a neighborhood in LA, not a city or even a state of mind like you hear people between the coasts talk about. And you and others may not think that LA is your reality, but it's our reality here. If LA is not real to you, then you must not listen to any music from major labels, watch any movies, or TV, or porn, or about a third of all print media. I'm a little surprised to see you guys here since that's apparently the case, LA not being your reality, after all.

Hey I get it, not everyone's after the same thing, that's what makes the world go around. Besides cash, that is. But speaking of cash and success, plus the heights of sexually desirous women, tight hard bodies is where it's at. If you like something else, get after it my man. Big dogs like me know what we want in life, we don't question and don't apologize. When you realize that about yourself, you won't ever be a small fish anywhere you go.

Good luck with that hard body, haha.

4 Jun 2010

I'm not sure you don't need some self-esteem lessons, Driver. You're a little too hard on yourself.aFBWnQBAwSjQxdOt

4 Jun 2010

Whoa! This conversation got heated quick.

I agree with Jebru on some points, I mean there are a lot of insecure women out there and they really don’t need any more people helping them lower their self esteem even more. BUT I have to agree with Driver, there are tons of women out there with insecurities that can easily be fixed with a small procedure. I’m all for anything that will make you feel better about yourself, life is too short to live it unhappy.

Yes, Driver may live in a shallow world where most of us wouldn’t fit in but that doesn’t make him or anyone else living in that world a bad person. I share a lot of your views on life Driver, may be that makes me a bitch, I don’t know.

What would you change about me to make me perfect?

4 Jun 2010

The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.

4 Jun 2010

I agree that assumptions go both ways.

It always bothers me that some people assume that those that seek to improve the way they look are somehow morally or intellectually inferior. Wanting to improve the way you look is not "superficial". Thinking less of someone because they try and improve themselves is definately "superficial" in my books.

As always, people tend to place more importance on the characteristics that they believe they themselves possess, while denigrating the characteristics that they feel they don't.

I wasn't aware that inserting a silicon bag under a pectoral muscle somehow affected a woman's brain power or moral reasoning skills. d'oh!

I must have missed that day in anatomy class.

Or...is it simply the morally bankrupt with no self esteem that resort to such "superficial" methods of self improvement? Obviously if a person seeks to make themselves more attractive, they must be trying to compensate for some underlying, emotional void. d'oh!

Human beings have different aspects. Why is improving the physical aspect seen as less noble than working on one's intellectual or emotional characteristics? Why is it a "waste of time" to spend an hour in a gym, but not a waste of time to spend an hour reading a book or going to a class? Aren't they all equal pieces of a pie that makes a person a complete, wellrounded human being?

People will seek to improve themselves in the ways that they believe will improve their life. They will also use the attributes that they possess (and the ones that they work to possess) in order to find their niche in the world. Jebru has obviously found his niche in playing the part of the non-threatening "nice guy." Driver has chosen to adopt the cartoonish caricature of the typical LA douche bag. Neither one is right and neither one is wrong. It all depends on what their goals are.

And above all....whether you're attracted to tits, ass, legs, face, lips, eyes, sense of humour, personality, intelligence, nice guys, bad boys, good girls, sluts....remember that ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE. Being attracted by someone's personality does not make you any more noble than being attracted to the size of their tits.

5 Jun 2010

Damonx, I can let a lot of things slide in life, but to go to the d-bag card? That cost you a little credibility, bro. I am the one and only me, I lack the flaws that might make others play Internet-pretend, and I only adopt principles, not characters, and sure as hell not kids. You strike me as a man who has no problem speaking what's on his mind, and that's all I am here to do too.

Save the character accusations, and I'll do the same for the sake of all the fine ladies and mature dudes hanging out here. It's Friday night and time to club it.

5 Jun 2010

Ehh, personally, when I see an older lady walking down the street and her breasts are touching her knees I sometimes wonder to myself why she doesn't do something about it.

Im all for improving your look. But I don't see the point in having massive DD boobs when you already have perfect A/B/C cups.

SO to sum it up, I find them attractive when it makes the girl look better and makes her more confident about herself, but when they are obviously done just to be seen as more of a sex object... grrr

happy1

5 Jun 2010

Quote by The_Driver
Damonx, I can let a lot of things slide in life, but to go to the d-bag card? That cost you a little credibility, bro. I am the one and only me, I lack the flaws that might make others play Internet-pretend, and I only adopt principles, not characters, and sure as hell not kids. You strike me as a man who has no problem speaking what's on his mind, and that's all I am here to do too.

Save the character accusations, and I'll do the same for the sake of all the fine ladies and mature dudes hanging out here. It's Friday night and time to club it.

Sorry man. It wasn't meant to be a character accusation. Just a run-of-the-mill stereotype of the persona you've been presenting. Maybe I should thank you for taking some of the heat off myself for a change. I appreciate the honesty. I'm just being honest myself, by telling you the image you're depicting. I for one find it entertaining.

5 Jun 2010

I can handle fake breasts (pun intended) but I draw the line at fake asses. I like booties to jiggle.

5 Jun 2010

This is the first time I've ventured into this thread, it's hilarious, and not because of the subject matter either.

The butthurt report form cracked me up too.

My god we have some entertaining characters around the place laughing9

5 Jun 2010

Quote by Necho

Im all for improving your look. But I don't see the point in having massive DD boobs when you already have perfect A/B/C cups.

Me neither! I don't see what this obsession with size is. I find that shape and firmness are far more important. But then again...I'm a leg man, so what do I know. I've actually had girls get upset because I don't pay enough attention to their breasts.

5 Jun 2010

Quote by nicola
This is the first time I've ventured into this thread, it's hilarious, and not because of the subject matter either.

The butthurt report form cracked me up too.

My god we have some entertaining characters around the place

This.

Never knew we would acquire a brilliant Bret Easton Ellis character on lush. evil4

Insert typical super smart ass comment courtesy of thepainter here.

5 Jun 2010

Quote by Necho
Ehh, personally, when I see an older lady walking down the street and her breasts are touching her knees I sometimes wonder to myself why she doesn't do something about it.

Probably because she doesn't have $10,000 to buy new ones. That $10,000 could go towards her kids college fund, or pay off her car. I think the LA (which of course includes Hollywood) mindset has affected too many people and force them to look at the "beautiful ones" that live that lifestyle as the standard as to what to look like. The other 99% of the world (those not in LA) have priorities elsewhere.

And to DamonX 3601

Nice one "bro". I like it when someone calls 'em like they see 'em.

5 Jun 2010

It doesn't bother me. As long as I don't have to pay for 'em. ;)

I prefer natural, but fake are cool too.

"Oh yes, the past can hurt. But the way I see it you can either run from it...or, learn from it." - Rafiki, The Lion King

5 Jun 2010

If I'm in a loving relationship with someone, and she wants implants, then she should get them. She doesn't need my approval.
That would be approval-seeking behavior.

The surveys and studies show a woman is happier and getting more sex after the operation. If she's happy, fine. (Meet me at the Blue Martini.)

For the other part of the question regarding my personal preference, "large" strides have been made in cosmetic surgery.

As DD might have seen in the Pics section, some of those women look great with them, IMHO.

To me, it goes back to the old question: "Would you kick her out of bed for having fake boobs/tats/piercings/a foreign car?"

Hell no.

At the point an opinion is needed about it from the woman or a friend, refer to the first section of my post.

5 Jun 2010

I've dated women that have natural breasts as well as women that have implants and it doesn't bother me either way, provided that the implants were done well. There is a lot more to a woman than her breasts so they really don't factor into how attracted I am to her.

5 Jun 2010

Quote by thepainter
This.

Never knew we would acquire a brilliant Bret Easton Ellis character on lush.

5 Jun 2010

My breasts are real, not that anyone really gives a shit on Lush (not posting pictures of them, guys).

LushPrincess, I highly doubt Driver's views on this topic has to do with the female's self esteem. I suspect (although I really cannot prove this) that they are for the simple reason that he enjoys very large breasts, implants or not. Some males (and females) do, others don't. I'm not defending either, but I do believe Jebru has a point about something.

If my companion was the one to suggest implants, whether or not s/he would pay for them, is entirely irrelevent. To me, what he's really saying is that I'm not good enough for him. So, my response to him, whether I'd 'made it past' the six month mark or not, would be something like, "Baby, I'll get the implants, but I'll ask the surgeon to enlarge your penis as well, it's just not big enough for me."

However, Katie Morgan (I'm sure we all know of her), as well as Pamela Anderson, do have, or have had enhancements for their breasts. They've both have had fairly successful careers. I think Katie even gets a tax deduction for them, because of their use for her job. I'm not planning on going into the porn business.

Also, a female truly believes a simple procedure, like LushPrincess said, will improve her confidence, I say that is sexy. The confidence. The "I know this will make me happy, I've thought about it, and I know I won't regret doing this for myself" is something that should drive the procedure. Not a male suggesting and paying for it for his own amusment and arousal.

So, it does depend on the circumstances, but I prefer natural breasts, personally.

But, as Roccotool stated earlier....I wouldn't kick her out of bed if she had them.

In lust and dreams,

Ashlyn

6 Jun 2010

I think Rocco made a good point with his comment about cosmetic surgery. It seems a lot of people conjure up images of the early 90's pornstar with bleach-blonde hair and disproportionately huge fake boobs...

But most non-pornstar recipients of breast implants wouldn't really stand out in a crowd. Women usually go up 1 cup size, so its not they're walking around with volley balls on their chests. It just gives them a bit more size, better shape, and absence of any pre-existing abnormalities. If the surgery is done correctly, there should very little visible scarring, and the breast shouldn't appear disproportionate in relation to the the body size.

Even in porn these days, the trend towards massive breasts is declining, with many now opting for no enhancement at all. (I know, I watch too much porn). Many directors and performers (including Jenna Haze) now are refusing to work with girls with implants. I don't think implants really "make" an actresses career. Rather they just serve as "icing on the cake" in the same way that fake tans or dental veneers do.

6 Jun 2010

Quote by DamonX
I don't think implants really "make" an actresses career. Rather they just serve as "icing on the cake" in the same way that fake tans or dental veneers do.

I wasn't saying that they 'made' their career. But you phrased it a lot better than I did.

In lust and dreams,

Ashlyn

7 Jun 2010

Quote by Dancing_Doll
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I was wondering if breast implants are a turn-on, turn-off, or irrelevant to a man's attraction to a woman?

AND... just to create more discussion: Let's say you have a girl that has a great tight body, but A-cup breasts. Would you prefer her with implants (if she wanted them), or would you prefer her to stay all natural even though she'd always just be a 'sweet petite'...

Ok for me I don't care it's irrelevant Some women look good with DD's and some women look absolutely perfect with large b's or so

And The question about the sweet petite for me it's her body she can do what she wants to it, If I already like her, her getting Implants won't change that