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so the word dank is dumb in general, but i had some dude use it during sex and it killed my buzz
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so the word dank is dumb in general, but i had some dude use it during sex and it killed my buzz
He might have been Dutch then, thanking you for the awesome sex
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I really detest the following words: cunt and slut. That first one is just foul. Call me either during sex, and it's a wrap. Now during sex...call me by anybody else's name other than my own, and it's a wrap.
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the one word that puts me off is husband, hes a low life and because he has gone off sex why should i go without, well i cant . i get it all i can mmmm
our divorce is due yippeeeeeepeeeee just in the process of milking him dry financially then off for a new life yessssss Jelly xxx
our divorce is due yippeeeeeepeeeee just in the process of milking him dry financially then off for a new life yessssss Jelly xxx
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I swore when I started reading this thread I wasn't going to post A comment. However after reading all this stuff. ( Is that A turn off too?) I just felt compelled. First off the word most complained about was Cunt. I can understand this one because it stands for, (Cant Understand Normal Thinking) which most can't.,but I digress. Bitch runs A close second. Now this is dead wrong. Everybody knows that refers to A dog. Women are not dogs. Men are dogs. Now slut on the other hand Depends on how it's used.Terms like Baby & who's your daddy, I can see the indications there. Quiet or Shush I can see the furry there. One thing women are famous for is never knowing when to shut the hell up. Stop Talking! Are you out of your mind? You might as well say don't breath.And Whore again I could see this being bad, A terrible remark if your not paying for it.( Although we usually do in one way or another) What really shrinks my bat & balls is now I'M hearing complaints about words like Honey or Dear. It's like the perfect man is A deaf mute.If I ever sleep with another woman I'M going to get me A bicycle horn & pretend I'M Harp o Marx. Threads like this one make me want to change from Bi to Gay.Rz0mwnQpnAUJGMhO
PS. I'M not going to complain about the love or lover thing being Jaded myself, I can see how that might press on a nerve.27rctw5HCQmzn9ju
PS. I'M not going to complain about the love or lover thing being Jaded myself, I can see how that might press on a nerve.27rctw5HCQmzn9ju
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the one word that puts me off is husband, hes a low life and because he has gone off sex why should i go without, well i cant . i get it all i can mmmm
our divorce is due yippeeeeeepeeeee just in the process of milking him dry financially then off for a new life yessssss Jelly xxx
If he was such A low life why did you marry him? Oh yea thats rite you explained that the whole milk him dry thing. Thats not being A low life is it?
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Oh yea thats rite you explained that the whole milk him dry thing. Thats not being A low life is it?
"milk him dry" is for the 'Ask the Guys' section I guess
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If he was such A low life why did you marry him? Oh yea thats rite you explained that the whole milk him dry thing. Thats not being A low life is it?
This post only tells part of the story, basically got married too young, like a silly cow i was pregnant everyone said we well suited, but nope we were not. all sorts of problems, you do know the half of it, including violence and , so milking him financially is revenge and to help me and my lil girl start a new normal life.
dont pick on me without knowing me ok
if you want to talk sometime look me up ok x Jelly
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cunt, no matter what context.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
'Daddy' would permanently kill the mood for me - or any related 'big daddy', 'who's your daddy', 'give it to me daddy', or revolting baby-talk or overly sugary sentiments.
I'm all in for the dirtiest of dirty-talk during sex (whore, slut, fuck-doll, cunt, ass licker, cum-slut) - they're all good in my books. The word 'baby' is fine too. I just don't want to feel like a 'little girl' with the cutesy affectionate terminology. It makes me gag (in a bad way).
I totally agree with you! That's a total mood killer. Eesh.
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Bored...
A total turn off. I am not here to entertain you.
A total turn off. I am not here to entertain you.
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I totally agree with you! That's a total mood killer. Eesh.
OK, I know this is for the girls - and I'm not one - but I have a question. I quoted Jenny because she's a friend - and because I know she'll be honest with me - but I'll be happy to get answers from anyone. Come one, come all.
This is for research purposes; I write erotic stories, so here's the question: Are these words that are a turn-off strictly to sex and romance, in a sexual situation, or are some of these words that are a turn-off when you're reading erotica? Cunt is the one I see here a lot as a turn-off, and although I use it never in speech, and very, very rarely in writing stories, should I be avoiding it altogether? What other words should I limit or avoid? Just trying to make what I write more palatable to the ladies, is all. C'mon, help make me a better writer!
Thanks for the help, and please feel free to PM me or whatever you like if you have any thoughts on the subject.
Appreciate y'all!
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OK, I know this is for the girls - and I'm not one - but I have a question. I quoted Jenny because she's a friend - and because I know she'll be honest with me - but I'll be happy to get answers from anyone. Come one, come all.
This is for research purposes; I write erotic stories, so here's the question: Are these words that are a turn-off strictly to sex and romance, in a sexual situation, or are some of these words that are a turn-off when you're reading erotica? Cunt is the one I see here a lot as a turn-off, and although I use it never in speech, and very, very rarely in writing stories, should I be avoiding it altogether? What other words should I limit or avoid? Just trying to make what I write more palatable to the ladies, is all. C'mon, help make me a better writer!
Thanks for the help, and please feel free to PM me or whatever you like if you have any thoughts on the subject.
Appreciate y'all!
storm
Lol, Jeff, for me, it's okay in a story. But in real life? No. Just... no. I don't know about anyone else though!
Top Shot
Like SillyJenny and Dancing_Doll, "Daddy" in a sexual context--however you use it--is an instant turn-off for me. Similarly, calling me "baby" will win you no awards. Not exactly the instant mood-killer "Daddy" is, but close. Anything else, please! Call me your slut, your sweetheart, your cumslut, your little bitch, the light of your life...anything but "baby".
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lol, indeed.
and Hun. I cannot stand the word.
So then it's safe to assume that just shortening it to "Attila" by dropping the descriptor is unacceptable as well?
Sorry, some things are just too hard to resist...
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two = "like" and "you know" especially when put together in a statement.
He was, "Like"..."You Know", so Sexy (crude, hot, handsome) and I, "You Know", really, really, know we could be a really hot match - Like, You Know what I mean??
He was, "Like"..."You Know", so Sexy (crude, hot, handsome) and I, "You Know", really, really, know we could be a really hot match - Like, You Know what I mean??
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Slut. Whore, Bitch. major turn offs for me. i am a kitten, love and cuddles. being called a slut, bitch or whore to me is offensive, and i will take it offensively.
agreed. it's very demeaning and not all sexy in my opinion.
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So then it's safe to assume that just shortening it to "Attila" by dropping the descriptor is unacceptable as well?
Sorry, some things are just too hard to resist...
hahaha, touché. However, I don't think Attila really needs any descriptor.
(..and just to add that I was actually quite lucky in real life and here, because no one dared to refer himself to me as daddy, but yeah, in theory turn off word as well)
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This post only tells part of the story, basically got married too young, like a silly cow i was pregnant everyone said we well suited, but nope we were not. all sorts of problems, you do know the half of it, including violence and , so milking him financially is revenge and to help me and my lil girl start a new normal life.
dont pick on me without knowing me ok
if you want to talk sometime look me up ok x Jelly
Sorry but your original statement made you sound like A gold digger. Perhaps if you were more descriptive I would have been more understanding. And not to get on your case, but divorce is not supposed to be about revenge. Theres A term divorce attorneys use loosely & they shouldn't, Amicable. ( look it up ) It doesn't mean milk him dry.I'M sorry you had A bad marriage, but divorce isn't about getting even, It's about getting on with your life. Not about destroying his. Good Luck with your new life.
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Sorry but your original statement made you sound like A gold digger. Perhaps if you were more descriptive I would have been more understanding. And not to get on your case, but divorce is not supposed to be about revenge. Theres A term divorce attorneys use loosely & they shouldn't, Amicable. ( look it up ) It doesn't mean milk him dry.I'M sorry you had A bad marriage, but divorce isn't about getting even, It's about getting on with your life. Not about destroying his. Good Luck with your new life.
You clearly support what went on, makes you as bad as him. did offer to chat but you chickened out, thats cool.
you know nothing about it, you have a downer about women unless they have a cock lol now is that a little too much one way ha ha
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