Your man tells you he is gay

How would you react if you man told you he was gay

27 Oct 2011

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you two will argue about anything ....

No it's not arguing, all I see is someone changing the base of their post. To me when it happens too often is a little irritating. That's all.

I think from here on, I will avoid any threads that have either of you both posting on.

I think you both do not like each other, and quite frankly, I find it disgusting how every little comment is blown out of proportion.

Peace KIDS

sorry to be a child it just drives me crazy that at one moment he seems sweet and understanding and the next he is stabbing me repeatedly in the back. SO AGGRAVATING

My apologies Rico you are right

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27 Oct 2011

I must be in the minority, because that is straight bullshit to me. I would be angry, dismiss, and move on. Move on WITHOUT him as a friend. I am sorry if that's harsh. My reaction is a direct result of my community. Two (too many) of my friends that were in a relationship like this are HIV+ because of this type of deception. They contracted it from partners who now identify themselves as gay. Both the men knew that they were gay and continued the relationships with women. Intolerable!

If you're confused about your sexuality, be honest from DAY ONE!!

I just can't imagine that so many ladies are replying that they'd be happy that he's found his way to happiness.

EDITED: I understand that every situation is unique and this is not intended to upset anyone. To each his/her own and we can agree to disagree.

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27 Oct 2011

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I must be in the minority, because that is straight bullshit to me. I would be angry, dismiss, and move on. Move on WITHOUT him as a friend. I am sorry if that's harsh. My reaction is a direct result of my community. Two (too many) of my friends that were in a relationship like this are HIV+ because of this type of deception. They contracted it from partners who now identify themselves as gay. Both the men knew that they were gay and continued the relationships with women. Intolerable!

If you're confused about your sexuality, be honest from DAY ONE!!

I just can't imagine that so many ladies are replying that they'd be happy that he's found his way to happiness.

EDITED: I understand that every situation is unique and this is not intended to upset anyone. To each his/her own and we can agree to disagree.

so true, I didn't even think about that aspect! again, honesty is one's best policy!!

27 Oct 2011

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My apologies Rico you are right

Thank you this means a lot to me.

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27 Oct 2011

Quote by cocokisses
My reaction is a direct result of my community. Two (too many) of my friends that were in a relationship like this are HIV+ because of this type of deception. They contracted it from partners who now identify themselves as gay. Both the men knew that they were gay and continued the relationships with women. Intolerable!

If you're confused about your sexuality, be honest from DAY ONE!!

I just can't imagine that so many ladies are replying that they'd be happy that he's found his way to happiness.

EDITED: I understand that every situation is unique and this is not intended to upset anyone. To each his/her own and we can agree to disagree.

too true it is despicable and i agree. however, i am not sure how now being HIV positive has anything to do with the despicable nature. that could have just as easily happened if their partners were straight and sleeping around, however that should not take away from how right you are that people should be up front and honest. "hey baby your really hot, unfortunately i am not 100% secure in my sexual identity. maybe we could test out this relationship and if i turn out to be gay know it wasn't you that made me that way." (or something less dramatic LOL)

27 Oct 2011

I don't believe that people decide to be gay. Nobody wakes up one day and is suddenly gay. If he is gay today then he was gay yesterday. I would probably ask him why he had been fighting himself for so long and then wish him well.

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27 Oct 2011

Some of my friends really do think that one day they can wake up roll over and like pussy. to me that says that they are not secure in their self and it makes me sad. But it is a way of thinking and if there is one thing my parents taught me (by not actually demonstrating it) it is to be accepting and make people feel welcome.

30 Oct 2011

I agree that would explain why I don't get enough. Why he says I get too wet for him...he doesn't like to get messy. If he was gay I would say good and wish him the best. Then I could find someone that would satify me in so many ways.