My first anal experience with a boyfriend involved no lube or stretching and yes, it was dreadful.
I finally reached the end of my tether and threw him out the following year, after many other instances of abuse, when I found out that he had been screwing a mutual friend for a year.
My first anal experience was during my first gang bang when I was 17. Shortly after I became legal. I was dating an older man and I had accepted his collar as his submissive sex slave. He took me to a gang bang party with his Harley biker gang. This was my first time being shared with other men. Also my first time in a full bi experience.
By choice, due to the extreme excitement, I chose to stay and participate in the gang bang. I was restrained on my back spread eagle on a mattress outside near a bonfire. After being used by both men and women at the party I was placed restrained and spread eagle on my stomach. The excitement created by the unknown was indescribably exciting. I trusted my boyfriend completely. When I realized my ass was now the target for their cocks and dildos, the combination of fear and extreme turn on at the same time was intoxicating.
My boyfriend explained what they were going to do to me. I ask him to be the first one to fuck my ass. He was and took his time letting me get use to being penetrated anally. Before the first night was over I had taken all 7 of the guys anally. One was a guy called horse. He had slightly over a foot of cock. I could only take about 2/3 of it in my cunt. Eventually, that night I took the whole 12+ inches up my ass. The orgasms were very strong.
Please do not confuse this action as abuse, or domestic violence. I had and still do have a safe word to use if I do not like what was happening to me. My boyfriend would have taken me home any time I wished.
It was awesome.
Brandie
Had i done once when i was totally drunk. IT WAS NOT PLEASUREABLE......
My first attempt was when I was in high school with a boyfriend. We did not know what we were doing. No lube, painful, he never really got it in.
The next time I did it was with my husband, with plenty of lube. It was so-so for me but he enjoyed it. It has gotten better over the years. It is now part of our repertoire but not an all-the-time thing. Perhaps once every few months. I can tell you this, when I have a vibe in my pussy and him in my ass, the orgasms are WOOOOWWWWW.
to be honest it was a bit of a bummer..
I truly believe that who you are with makes all the difference. My first time was with someone that cared about me, was very gentle and I trusted my body to. He was also a very good lover. The before was so good, it had me so relaxed and still riding that wave. So, the transition was smooth. It took a moment to register what exactly was in the process of happening. It wasn't a total surprise and he already knew that it was something new for me. Of course there was some initial pain and pressure, but it was good too. He offset the negative with some positive stimulation. Direct clitoral stimulation will pretty much make me forget anything. The right words in my ear worked well too. His pleasure and the naughtiness is definitely a turn on, but I actually enjoyed it too. I was already in a pretty heightened state and to me that works best. If it had been done any other way, I would have probably stressed out at the thought of pain and not enjoyed it as well.
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Horrible and will never do it again.
I could show you INCREDIBLE things...
I'll bite, since most guys will post only jokes here (a few good ones are "it was pretty shitty" [wan wan] and "kind of a bummer.....for her" [again, wan wan]).
I haven't been fucked by anyone, and I'm straight, but I once tested myself to fully understand what I was really into. I was always intrigued by Tom Byron videos, and Seymore Butts videos, where gonzo anal sex, in the way it is done in most porn today, was practically invented, in a lot of ways. Seymore Butts was the first director/star that completely blew the lids off of what I expected to want for myself, and want to do with women, and was turned on by. His work with Alisha Klass, Taylor Hayes, and Shane was of such high quality, that I don't think he can make as great stuff as he was doing back then. There is only one Alisha Klass, and she is an absolute legend. I used to really see that she loved anal, but I used to also see that Tom Byron loved anal as well. He loved getting strapped, and definitely his asshole licked and fingered. I was intrigued by that, but not sexually comfortable enough to admit so, until years later. I eventually got the courage to test myself, by basically shoving some plastic tube-like thing up my ass. I quickly discovered that you definitely have to be careful, otherwise you will have a very embarassing story in an Emergency Room (funny story, but I once was in an ER, and saw a guy who came in, with some sort of sex-mask on his face, in a neglige or something, which he coudlnt' get out of, because it was like glued to his face, lol. You would think the male/female nurses would be kind, and not make comments, but they were flat out brutal, and joked right in front of him, and to him. It was better than television).
I discovered after "trying my best" that I was not experiencing any pleasure from it. I also quickly discovered, since I know that every guy has an auto-orgasm button inside his asshole (basically his outer-prostate area), that my prostate was either deeper inside, or that I would literally have to be strapped, or really work hard to actually dildo myself with a vibrator, and stuff like that, in order to actually feel pleasure, if I wanted to do so. However, I decided it wasn't worth the effort at the time, and focused on bodybuilding, and developing the type of body, where I would experience more pleasure from my cock being bigger and more sensitive, as well as my body being fitter, stronger, and more muscular, agile, and aerobically energized, with excellent oxygen flow through my brain, body, and blood, which all adds to increase in hardness of muscles, and cock-hardness and hypertrophy, all literally making you feel perfect mentally, physically, emotionally, and even spiritually (I also meditate); feeling more attractive, confident, primal. T
Tom Byron is the only true alpha type porn star, who used to do that stuff comfortably, allowing women to do that to him. I plan on probably engaging in similar things, but I'm a guy with a huge dick, and I usually prefer to do the fucking, and power-fucking women's asses, rather than having it done to me. It just seems to take a certain type of situation, with the right type of women. I'm more comfortable with regular sex, and more "doing" than "receiving".
I give credit to women, and have respect for their ability, and willingness to be penetrated, deepthroated, and all the hardcore things they get turned on by, once they are turned on by you, and comfortable with you.
As far as giving anal; two words: FUCKING PERFECT!
My first time wasn't good or wasn't bad either lets say it was a little arkward at first butt after some time it felt good. The more I did anal the more I liked it. If he's good at it he'll rock my world. Nowadays I'm anally yours.
First time was with ex-fiance....I hated it. Waited almost a year before we tried again, it was tolerable. Have done it a few times with fuck buddy...being tipsy (vodka and soda), lots of lube, and a gentle guy (even though his dick is bigger than ex fiance) helps. Its not "fav" but he likes it. We did it first time for his b-day and have done it a few times since.
I am an anal fanatic ever since my first time. I can't seem to get enough.
My first time was after I got my new Purple Rabbit. It has a clit vibe on it,
so I used my little Egg vibe und pushed it in my ass for abit extra...smiles
Was a crying-out-loud accident.
My next anal experience will be my first.
It was bad, the guy coaxed me into doing it. Then he got obsessed with always insisting on doing anal because it wouldn't get me pregnant or because my rectum was more pleasurable then my pussy. He didn't care how I felt about it. I hated the pain, how my body would tense up even more as he shoved it in there. The fact he would hold of cumming so it prolonged the torture for me but prolonged the pleasure for him. I could go on but I have issues with it.
For those who enjoy it well I envy you guys. I sadly can not.
during a business trip with my 2 co-workers. 1st night, we had too much alcohol and I'm a light drinker, got fucked by both. 2nd night, lost a bet, got pussy shaved (to my hubby's delight) then got a DP. Hubby was mad, because he always wanted to do a DP with me
Just have to watch out for those big ones..:)
