You mean you wouldn't like a TV dinner and a DVD? Geez.
Just kidding.
A tv dinner and a VHS tape would be cool with me!
as for me i may be playing with other guys here on but i can assure my self that there's only one guy who i love
What a difficult experience. Nobody who has not been down that road could even comprehend the pain you experienced with your wifes sexual choices and then her taking her own life. When I hear of suicide I think. Who was the person punishing?
If it was just the sexual choices, my answer would be Love and Sex are separate issues and should not be confused. Sex is wonderful with someone you love, but it is also very pleasant with others. I have only made love with one man, but I have had sex with many. I would think in the 21st Century we would have moved beyond this issue.
You loss most me greater than we can imagine, but we are here to help.
Hmmm, methinks ye should look at the dates of threads before bringing them back. This person, Dennis, had a rough time to be sure and I feel for him. But he hasn't posted on this site in 2 1/2 years.
To me sex and love are two completely separate things and while lust may make you make some regrettable decisions yes you most certainly can have sex with someone you do not love while being in love with someone else. I will never understand why people get so bent out of shape about infidelity I'd love to find my hubby a little cyber girl friend I think it would be great for his ego - any volunteers?!? Guess when I really love someone I try to be unconditional. Oops just noticed this was a very old thread but here's my 2 cents anyway.
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Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! i'm deeply sorry for your pain! You'll probably never find an exact answer sweets. but I agree with some of the above posts, she had some deep issues and more likely then not they had nothing to do with you. It sounds to me that she was depressed before you left her, depression can make people act in ways they normally never would. It sounds to me that she was a tortured soul. Just look deep inside yourself and ask yourself did you love her the best way you knew how?? regardless of her own demons, did you do everything you could to love her? If you find that you sincerely believe that, beyond little faults and failures, you gave her your everything, let her soul and yours rest in peace honey. Wishes for peaceful days honey..............
I am sorry I thought this was 2010, but it sounds more like 1910! Sex is Sex and Love is Love. They can be separate or be part of the package. Sex with another does not detract from the love for that significant one.
Boyd- I agree with you. There is a difference between sex and love. Before I got married, I was a "practicing" swinger. Enjoyed it!! I've offered trying the lifestyle with my hubby, but he doesn't want to.
yeah ok we all know what you really meant!
