Asking everyone to play by the rules of the website, if your choosing to post about something too early in life. OK.
Just wondering gals, did you first start having sex and then later discover the world of porn/erotica? Or was it the other way around, discovering porn/erotica, be it porn mags or videos or hardcore erotic novels/books and then later at some point, start having sex?
Kinda like which came first, the chicken or,,,,well you know where I'm going.
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Which experience came first, sex or porn/erotica ?
Active Ink Slinger
I was well and truly into sex before I found porn. It was some of the guys I had sex with that showed me some explicit magazines and the positions they wanted to try.
Rainbow Warrior
Sex came first for me. I stumbled on my dad's Playboys later on, and wanted to someday be a nude model myself.
Υπηρέτης της Αφροδίτης
Erotica and a growing sense of who I was and what I wanted, from there everything followed it's natural course.
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.
Είμαι ταξιδιώτης τόσο στο χρόνο όσο και στο διάστημα
Είμαι ταξιδιώτης τόσο στο χρόνο όσο και στο διάστημα
Quote by bulbousknob
Poll count; 3 women had sex first before discovering porn/erotica
1 woman discovered porn/erotica prior to having sex
Cutting in if allowed???
(AS A GUY I find this AMAZING!!! I think MOST GUYS do it the other way about!!!)
xx SF
But then, HOW could we NOT??? Women are OBVIOUSLY sexualised in a way that Men quite simply are not... Even NOW this holds true, I think... Girls DO NOT NECESSARILY imagine FUCKING 'One Direction'... Boys who like Taylor Swift don't relate to her LYRICS, I bet!!!)
Active Ink Slinger
Sex came before porn for me. My first sexual experience was non-consensual and in the course of looking online to work it out I discovered erotica and then started writing it to work through my issues. I write far less these days and I suppose that this would be indicative that I'm getting over my issues.
Active Ink Slinger
I guess it was sex first for me. Unless you count talking about sex with older friends erotica
The Bee's Knees
oh wow lol allow me to break the mold! porn first, erotica second, then sex.
Say. Her. Name.
Bonnet Flaunter
Erotica, then sex for me. Porn came much later and have never been into the mainstream stuff.
Active Ink Slinger
Erotica then sex and then porn
Active Ink Slinger
For me it was sex, then porn and finally erotica...
Unicorn Wrangler
Porn first. The Blonde Next Door. Sex was second and erotica was a super close 3rd (thank you Anne Rice.)
Madam Carol
Sex first. Erotica much later. Never have been into porn myself but have watched with my hubby and FWB.
Active Ink Slinger
When I was a youngin', I stumbled upon a trashy, 2 minute BRAZZERS video, that terrified and excited me at the same time. And it all went downhill from there.
Advanced Wordsmith
Certainly into sex long before I found Porn. That is the way it should be. I think?
The Linebacker
In one of my former lives, I used to be cave pornographer in pre-historic times. I remember that my bear fur garment used to chafe my butt.
Active Ink Slinger
Porn magazines (Found them in my Uncle's bathroom when I was a teenager). Then sex.
Sex first.
Then Porn (you know, only when I finally had access to the internet - or otherwise scrambled tv)
Then Erotica. For some reason getting into Erotica was far more paranoia-inducing than Porn or Sex of any type. Probably because it's more engaging and you actually set aside time to read it. It's the only thing that made me look over my shoulder once or twice. lol
Then Porn (you know, only when I finally had access to the internet - or otherwise scrambled tv)
Then Erotica. For some reason getting into Erotica was far more paranoia-inducing than Porn or Sex of any type. Probably because it's more engaging and you actually set aside time to read it. It's the only thing that made me look over my shoulder once or twice. lol
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
Like many here I found a stash of porn magazines at one point as a kid. I was still at an age though where I was truly horrified to see women putting penises in their mouth. I clearly found these magazines a couple of years too early 
Later, when sex had become very much an interest, a friend found his parents' VHS collection, which we watched when they were away. I also remember these 16 color scans of erotic/porn pics on the Commodore 64. Oh, the joys of a virgin geek in the 80's
Later, when sex had become very much an interest, a friend found his parents' VHS collection, which we watched when they were away. I also remember these 16 color scans of erotic/porn pics on the Commodore 64. Oh, the joys of a virgin geek in the 80's
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