I generally refer to her as my woowoo or, as Liz suggested my foofoo. But that's more general everyday use. When turned on? Well that's another matter entirely lol
I once submitted a story and found after it was published that the moderator who verified my story had changed my wording and inserted the word 'cunt.' I was furious because I have never used that word. Since becoming a 'working member' of Lush I've come to understand that cunt is a very acceptable word in the UK. They don't have a problem with it .. and I find it totally acceptable from British writers.
For myself, I might write something like 'his fingers neared her sex' or 'he found her channel hot and tight,' but for the most part, I'll stick with pussy. As others have said, 'vagina' is just too clinical. Same with 'penis.'
That's just my take on it, but I have spent long minutes trying to think of a different word to a pussy.
I'm partial to sausage wallet but I'll accept pink taco.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
this thread is grossing me out. SNATCH, people, SNATCH!