Would looks matter to you if the guy is stinking rich?
Yes. It wouldnt make a difference if he was the richest man alive, if he was unattractive (in looks and personality) i wouldnt go there. I can get my own money thanks.
Yes it matters, of course it matters. It's not everything, and it's not like a special man has to be rich to get my attention. But if he IS wealthy, let's just say it sweetens the deal. ;)
As long as his personality is good he's got the money for a major make over so what's the problem? Looks fade, money if managed properly grows and a shitty personality is forever!
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Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! You failed to mention if I am using him for his money or looking to enter a relationship with him.. heh heh heh.
But of course it matters, if I want the relationship to matter.
If it didn't I would be a mere escort.
An escort, by choice, is admirable, but nothing long term.
Or as Bambi eludes: maybe it is the woman who uses the guy...
Was that the point of the question?
Not if you are a gold digger... I went out with a dude that was loaded and had a sports car. I changed myself to be with him. He'd look down on me when I was myself. I've grown up a lot since then and figured out what is important to me. Money isn't going to make you fufilled. I like earning my own money anyways(smiles).
Hell no - I'm great at cutting holes in brown paper bags !!
I think it does matter. I think money or the ability to make money is important, because as a young woman I don't think that I could financially raise a family by myself at this point, but I would never date a man just because he has looks or just because he has money...neither of them are the most important thing.
yeah it matters, i'm not the type of girl to go for a guy just for his money, but then again I'm not fixated on just looks either.. and anyways i'm more of the independent type that can take care of myself
Money wouldnt matter to me. It would be the personality, sense of ethics, how he treats me and others that comes first and then looks. Of course, if you are not physically attracted you may never find out the other things but its the other things that would keep me interested. His/her bank account would not be a big factor at all. That would be very shallow.
Money wouldnt matter to me. It would be the personality, sense of ethics, how he treats me and others that comes first and then looks. Of course, if you are not physically attracted you may never find out the other things but its the other things that would keep me interested. His/her bank account would not be a big factor at all. That would be very shallow.
A man's attractiveness to me has no relevance to his financial status, there is much more to a man than his wallet and if he thinks I'm impressed by his money he is sadly mistaken and doesn't know me.
I'm sorry but money means he has done good for himself and can support me so its a turn on!!!
Please, if the dude is rich then he wins, money,power,social status, and Security are all women are after, Love itself is a LIE
Of course it matters, It is not the oly thing by a mong shot but it does matter. I like nice things BUT he must not lok down on me.
It doesnt matter if he is rich or poor. If he will be good to me and make me feel good it doesnt matter. All I want in life is a man that will not lie, screw around, and be mentally stable. He can be poor, ugly, sexy, or rich as long as he treats me like a lady.
I need a little of all to be a potential mate. I've learned through much trial and error that balance is the key. a guy doesn't need to be rich, he just needs to be able to help support his household comfortably. looks are required to some degree because i need to be physically attracted to a man to want to sleep with him. the biggest factor would be personality. If he can't appeal to my mind and heart, there is just no way.
His money means nothing to me. If he's got a job, works hard, enjoys what he does and takes pride in it I dont care what the pay is. A man who thinks his money means a lot isn't much of a man at all. Its not all looks either. He's got to capture my mind.
I was lucky....mine had the whole package & the sweetest!! At first I wouldn't give him the time of day because he was a little older than me. After I gave in I realized that didn't matter either. So no money doesn't trump all!!
Seduction isn't making someone do what they don't want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already!
Interesting question. Money doesnt attract me to be quite honest, he has to be the whole package. If he doesnt have a nice personality or semi decent looks, then no amount of money in the world will make me marry him. What i do like to see though is success, and determination, and intelligence- these things can often go hand in hand with being rich because money is what you get when you work for it!
All in all, i'd rather have the intelligent and gorgeous and funny normal guy than an arrogant and pig faced arse hole billionaire
You must give up the life that you had planned, in order to live the life that is waiting for you..
If I was going to be in relationship then it does matter else who give a fuck how does he looks
He'd need to be to afford me, baby. ???????????????
i'd go straight for a billionaire #nopride
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