You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Good food with fun people. Perhaps sexy and intimate talk over a few glasses of wine. Being touched intimately, and making out with a guy I like. The sight of a beautiful pair of breasts on a beautiful woman. The sight and feel of a nice penis on a friend - the feel of the penis growing harder in my hand. The sight and aroma and taste of pre-cum, and the scent and taste of cum - if i've had some cum in my mouth, I get super horny and want more and more....