A guy has to have at least one photo of themselves(preferably a normal one) before I will chat to them.
be honest, be funny, be different...
littlemissbitch ~ professional face ripper offer, at your service..
They dont need to necesarily have a picture of themselves but a profile with a bit of personality - pictures they like/of what turns them on. A bit about themselves in their profile.
I also like it if, when a guy talks to me that he has bothered to look at my profile too. I have a bit on there about how i dont cyber with strangers but you can tell the ones who havent bothered to read it or just ignore it, from the ones who are genuinely interested in chatting to me, not my tits.
You can also tell if a guy has bothered to look at my profile or not from how he responds to my pictures. They are only for people are my friends on here, yet i still get guys ive never heard of popping up and saying 'you're hot!' - umm yea how would you know?
I quite like it when i get a message from a guy as well as a friend request - even if it says 'hi, would love to chat sometime'.
Lastly, like LMB said - be clever, be funny, be interesting
Grabbing attention is easy, keeping it is the real challenge.
[sorry for posting in the girls' forum, just imagine me in a dress or as one of those dodgy "couples" accounts]
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Why not read some stories instead
NEW! Want a quick read for your coffee break? Why not try this... Flash Erotica: Scrubber *A quick edit here, I forgot the MOST and I cant stress how important this one is for me. Its so important its not a guide line it is the 1, ONE, NUMERO UNO, ( you get the idea) RULE
whatever you do
DO NOT LIE
My basic list to meet, I dont think its a particularly hard list.
1. A photo
2. try and keep the close up picks of your crotch hidden
3. fill out some details on your page.. grab our interest by being a little different from the crowd
4. Refain from coming at me with cock in hand, If it doesnt work in a bar it wont work here
5. Humour, I dont know Dudealicious but I've seen him around the forums and he always has something funny to say. (see smart and funny flirting above with Sprite) That is what is attention grabbing/holding.
You dont have to crack a million jokes to keep a womans interest, just keep things light and interesting. This is what will set you apart from the thousands of other friend invites women recieve that start off with, 'Loved your pics, wanna fuck?'
6. Finally try not to hit a woman up the first time you talk, keep it light and flirty, you will know by her responses whether or not she wants you to take it further
Good luck
Naughtygrl captures it perfectly. "What she said."
I like it when a guy takes the time to fill out his profile information. I also appreciate being able to see a pic of who I am talking to, and no I do not like talking to his penis. I like it when a guy at least lists something in his bio to give you an idea of his personality. As to the conversation bit....don't start a conversation with nice tits, or I want to fuck you. I get that a lot and find it demeaning.
No dick pics. At least one bio sentence that doesn't talk about sex.
1)Profile Pic is key,
2)Bio
3)maybe a PM first the random ass pokes and "hey baby wanna explore our ________sexual________together?" Messages are a serious turn off.
3b)if you don't want to put a bio tell me something in a PM first
4)Some additional pics in the profile area is also never a bad thing I don't need to see your face, I don't show my own, However its nice to get a feel for who is on the other side
5)A story or interest in my stories is also a nice touch Cyber sexing is not me fav and doesn't really turn me on but I could talk about erotic stories with a guy for a long long time!
profile pic. not a fat old man, but young and hot. you can see the guy's face in the profile pic. dick picks in the gallery