even though im a guy, i think your guarented to not be the only girl who thinks like you do. its a big turn on for a lot of people to be controled or do the controlling. it is for me, i love dominiting what can i say. don't think your the only one cause promise you theres probably many many more girls who think the same. also hope you find a great master who can satisfie you. if i could be of any help let me know ;) would love to be your master
hmm I think there are many like you but I doubt they will be claiming it out loud to their friends. It can be hard and there's also the fear that their friends would think they are crazy or just start gossiping about them.
The line between fantasy and reality is sometimes blurred and often fraught with danger. It is sometimes best to keep reality clearly separated from fantasy - it's way more exciting and definitely safer. Many may proclaim to be the kind of "Master" you describe but in reality they are little more than weirdos, perverts and bullies. Sadly you only discover this when you are at your most vulnerable and often when you are not in any position to take care of yourself. The whole Master (or Mistress) / Subbie or slave thing is best experienced as an outcome of a mature and trusting relationship
My very first (and healthy) Dom/sub relationship happened to me when I was 19.
You're not alone.
If you do venture into this type of lifestyle, do so with your eyes wide open. It's nothing I wouldn't say to any of my friends. Just be careful.
There are weirdos, perverts and bullies everywhere, so don't sweat it just because you have different tastes than your friends.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Let me start off by saying I'm no BDSM expert, but you have all the traits of a sub. If giving up control excites you, then you're definitely a submissive. My suggestion to you would be to do all the research you can and determine how you want to be controlled and to what extent. It's really important to know your boundaries before entering this type of relationship. Just because you're submissive doesn't mean you have no say. Find a master who understands your needs. BDSM is all about mutual pleasure...don't let anyone tell you any differently. It's all about trust.
And be careful, especially since you have no experience. There are those (hardalltime, for example) who prey on those who desire to be a sub but don't really know much about it. There's more to it than whips and chains and having someone carry out your every demand. Most real dom/mes or masters know this. If you come across a terrible/selfish "dom/me" (I use the term loosely in this case), it can leave very emotionally, psychologically, and even physically scarred. So again, I must stress how important it is to find a real dom/me who is just as concerned about your needs. It's not just about carrying out every demand given to you. Both you and your dom/me have needs. And the relationship only works if you both understand and meet those needs.
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