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Name your top five deal breakers when it comes to men (that you would consider having a relationship with).

PS. if you have more than five, feel free to elaborate.
1. Has a girl friend/married/cheating
2. Emotionally or Physically Abusive
3. Texts/Calls every minute of every day.
4. Bad breath
5. Low self confidence
6. Brag about your finances or your shiny toys
7. Shorter then me smile
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1. Make me laugh/smile (Sense of humor)
2. Famliy oriented
3. Share the same interest as me (music, sports, hobbies, movies)
4. Confidence
5. Can carry a conversation
6: Great lover


I think you got the "deal breaker" element of the topic slightly wrong.
Insert typical super smart ass comment courtesy of thepainter here.
I think you got the "deal breaker" element of the topic slightly wrong.


Oh shit! I did... to excited about the game!!!!! I got Troy Polamalu on my mind! Hehehe.....
Ill fix it!
1. Abusive
2. Super clingy, calls all the time or text all the time and freaks out if I don't reply.

Ummm thats all I can think of for now :P
1 - a history of violence
2 - anger issues/out of control temper
3 - emotionally or mentally abusive
4 - judgemental
5 - unable or unwilling to be emotional
6 - arrogant
7 - unimaginative

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

Here Are Mine In No Particular Order

1-Arrogant
2-Abusive
3-Poor Hygiene
4-Married
5-Boring
6-Controling
7-Really Short
8-Judgemental
9-Red Sox or Cowboy Fan, Just Kidding!!
No particular order

1. Emotionally or Physically Abusive
2. Dark hidden twisted sexual preferences
3. Bad personal hygiene; grass on teeth, body odor, etc
4. No humor
5. Degrading/condescending behavior to others
6. No character/backbone/balls
7. Dishonesty
1. Insecure about everything
2. Brags about money (specially if they don't have it)
3. Doesn't enjoy just a little danger (sex in public places mm ;))
4. Doesn't take control at least sometimes
5. Acts like he's better than me
if any of these are based on past experience, i'd like to apologize for my gender. some men just don't know how to appreciate beauties like all of you above me
Fun topic.

top five deal breakers...
bad hygiene
no job
bi-sexual (men)
shy about sex
or...worst of all...
DOESN'T EAT PUSSY.
Top 5....hmm....

1) Selfish/self-centred
2) Unmotivated
3) Unable of having a mentally stimulating conversation
4) Out for one thing: sex
5) Short

.....there's a few other ones as well but that's definitely my top 5.
1. Arrogant/vain/self centerd/up his own ass
2. Superficial - only thinks money and material possessions are important
3. Violent/aggressive/abusive/controlling
4. No passion for anything, no interest
5. Bad hygiene
6. No sense of humour
7. Unwilling to talk about relationship issues
8. Takes no initiative and needs to grow a pair

And this isnt a deal breaker as i guess it can be worked on but they have to be willing, adventurous and giving in bed!
1. Selfish
2. Republican
3. Low sex drive
4. No ambition
5. No curiosity
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1. Selfish




I heart Keith.
Insert typical super smart ass comment courtesy of thepainter here.
1. no motivation
2. not willing to try new/spontaneous things
3. no sense of humor
4. abuse/addiction issues
5. involvment in another relationship
6. the inability to carry a stimulating/interesting or perhaps mind challenging conversation
7. cockiness
8. overly possessive

in no particular order
In no particular order....

1. Abusive (emotional or physically)
2. Arrogant and Selfish
3. Poor hygiene
4. Shorter than me
5. Lack of spontaneity
Abuse both physical and mental
Controlling men
No sense of humour
People who are too trendy
People who have an inflated sense of self
1) serious
2) aggressive
3) Like my dad
4) collects action figures and or star wars memorabillia
5) doesn't like fast food or chocolate
6) smells bad
7) is otherwise attatched
8) forgets my birthday/ special occasions
9) doesn't make the effort on me in bed
10) won't watch chick flicks with me

that about covers most of the bases LOL- anymore and i'll let u know
1. Stupidity. Ignorance can be cured. Stupid can't.
2. Lying. The truth always surfaces eventually.
3. Poor hygiene.
4. Emotional/mental issues of ANY kind. If you're taking prescription medication for your Mind, don't even talk to me.
5. Doormat. I can't stand a man that won't stand up for himself against his friends or me.
6. Ass-kisser. Tells me what I want to hear instead of what they actually feel.
7. Whining. If you want something, ASK. Don't Beg.
8. Lazy. Won't keep a Job.
9. My name is not Mama. Can't find his own socks, underwear, TV controller, etc. Won't wash his own clothes. Won't clean up after himself.
10. Violence.
11. Verbal/Mental Abuse.
12. Alcoholic and/or drug user.
13. Already has a wife/girlfriend. I am NOT interested in threesomes where a spouse or steady girlfriend is involved.
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1. Honesty...if this isn't there, none of the following matter, 'cause neither is he
2. Manipulative
3. Self Centred/uncaring
4. Unimaginative
5. Unambitious
6. Humourless
and a few more to a lesser degree
1. Already in a relationship (that they're not willing to leave for me)
2. Unable to be faithful or commit to me
3. Abusive
4. Belittles their girlfriends
5. Does hard drugs
1. Abusive
2. Dishonest
3. Has violent tendencies when angered or frustrated
4. Poor hygiene
5. Insensitive
1. Has a history of cheating/lying
2. Doesn't respect me or others
3. Poor hygiene
4. Immature
5. Is a total douche to people in general.
1. Lying
2. Financial irresponsibility
3. Cheating
4. Uncleanliness - household and/or personal hygiene
5. Arrogance
6. Intelligence with an air of cockiness = a know-it-all = a sarcastic prick
7. Lack of compassion
8. Prejudice/racist/chauvinist/ misogynist
9. Disrespectful
10. Mean-spirited
11. Closed-mindedness


Should I catch a person lying, I'm done upon that revelation. This applies to any type of relationship, be it personal or professional.
1. Married
2. See #1
3. Any sort of alcohol or drug addiction.
4. Cheating, to include a history of cheating (as in, fucking around with me whilst still married or in a relationship).
5. Personality disorders, to include arrogance, pathological lying, compulsive gambling, etc.
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so i notice most are habits and behaviour, with circumstance (e.g.. married) quite common as well, fair enough, no need to complicate our lives, but seriously, what the fuck has a guys height got to do with anything?
if i said "oh yeah, she's great! but i wouldn't consider giving her the time of day because her tits are too small" there would be an uproar, you know, objectifying women etc etc.....
we're all the same height in bed you know, and yes, i'm short. and no, my partner isn't
1. Selfishness
2. A violent disposition
3. A one-track mind when it comes to sex
4. Abusive -- verbal and physical
5. Looking for a mother figure
1. Lack of confidence
2. Lack of experience
3. Mommy issues
4. Prissy attitude
5. Bitchy attitude
1) Can't take a joke

2) Foot Fetish
(not judging those who do, I just don't like feet, sorry)

3) Always has to be the one to drive
(control freaks in general)

4) Eats the last piece of bacon
(yes, I'm completely serious)

5) Incredibly Stupid
(everyone has their dumb moments, but don't make me wish for an envelope of anthrax, yeah?)
She's a saint with the lips of a sinner.
- r.m. drake