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Quote by Dancing_Doll



If the rules are "no kissing, no penetration, don't look at my man, he can't cum anywhere near you blah blah", then I'll definitely take a pass. It's not fun for me if I have to second-guess everything I want to do in the moment or if I'm mainly there to spectate or have a minor role while they enjoy all the fun.



This is so true. Having ground rules is fine, but if I am there only to be a specatator or I have to ask permission before I do anything, then no thanks! I am not gonna do it just so you can please your man by doing something he wants. Go hire an escort for the night!!
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I guess our views on what bisexual is are slightly different. For me I see it as an attraction thing... pleasure is pleasure whether a woman is giving it or a man is giving it, you get enjoyment from that. Am I attracted to women? No. Therefore I do not consider myself as bisexual. But people can think of me how they will, everyone has different opinions and views.


You are right, its just my opinion. But what do you call a woman that enjoys sex with women?

Kind of like saying " I like the to eat meat, but Im a vegetarian"
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You are right, its just my opinion. But what do you call a woman that enjoys sex with women?

Kind of like saying " I like the to eat meat, but Im a vegetarian"


Why is anyone calling me anything? I guess I don't believe in slapping a label on someone because they've done something or been okay with something at some point.

But anyhow, no need to hijack this thread with our opinions of whose sexuality should be what
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Why is anyone calling me anything? I guess I don't believe in slapping a label on someone because they've done something or been okay with something at some point.

But anyhow, no need to hijack this thread with our opinions of whose sexuality should be what


First off, my comment was not about you so I am not calling you anything. You are what you are, as long as your happy, thats all that matters.

Secondly, didnt think 3 posts was hijacking a thread, LOL!!
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First off, my comment was not about you so I am not calling you anything. You are what you are, as long as your happy, thats all that matters.

Secondly, didnt think 3 posts was hijacking a thread, LOL!!


I didn't mean it to sound as though I felt I was being confronted, I can see how it did - but that wasn't how it was meant.

It's not, but I've seen so many posts been steered off course with sub-discussions, it's a shame for the original poster & their question so, for that reason, I try not to be the cause of any such steering off
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Is this what you had in mind? I didn't know he was such a little pervert...



In my mind, I always pictured it doggy...err...nevermind...
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Well I am what I consider pleasure curious..so I would try any combination of threesome..I would be fine with two men...or another woman, there would be no hard and fast rules, as long as we all enjoyed, no one was left out and we respected each other then I wouldn't have an issue with a threesome.
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I would totally love to try either FMF or MFM - even better both. In fact, I fully intend to before the year is out. I think it's a pipe dream for a lot of men to try FFM and as long as they are willing to reciprocate with a MMF then fair's, fair ! (I have to add to this, for me, the third party in both cases would have to be 'removed' from the relationship, this is just 'sex' we are talking about here afterall.)


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Well I have two answers....
If I wasn't married I would jump on a threesome in any scenario.
No rules.
My second answer with being married I just wouldn't do it.
But I have been in a 4 some
sex is like a joke...it's only good if you get it


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ok firstly my now wife and I had a MFM threesome where I had no contact with the other male it was very erotic. The issue arouse after as an agreement was worked out that is she got to have a MFM then I should get a FMF. To this date we have not had the latter which has caused tensions in our relationship. She has told me I can get it elsewhere and without her now in my life I would be open to another MFM where I was involved with the male to try it out.
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Is this what you had in mind? I didn't know he was such a little pervert...



LM buddy I don't care what she told you before your little photo shoot (and you really didn't need to share) but you can stretch it to far. One word my friend, DEPENDS.jABvXhd4aiLiA61X

And for the record, I am very content with one on one sex, but under NO FUCKING CIRCUMSTANCES EVER am I doing mfm.
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Threesomes? Brings back some cherished memories! MFM or MMF or FMF or FFM, no problem, except that I now am in a committed relationship. So there's that.
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I've never given much thought to the MMF scenario.. but FFM is way on top of my bucket list. I consider myself straight, but have that curiosity thing going on. I know SHE wants me and I know HE wants me to experience a woman... so if the wind blows us all together.... could be more fireworks than grand final at the footy
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If I ever had a threesome, it'd have to be with two other girls. I just don't find the idea of a man on top of me attractive. I wouldn't mind being present for an MMF threesome, but the guys would have to be willing to do stuff to each other. Which from what I gather is more than likely to be quite rare.
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Really?!! Wow - I've known lots. Maybe it's because they haven't had the opportunity yet. As well, if they're already in a relationship and don't like the idea of another man with their wife/girlfriend, that can also figure into the "no, I'd never do that" stance.

I've had both varieties of threesomes (with a DP included in the MFM threesome). I don't have an issue with any of them. I'd consider myself "technically" bisexual because I've had sex with women, but I think I'm mostly straight - I'm just open to play when I'm drunk and the girl is really hot.


Hard for me to understand, my husand and I have done threesomes or moresomes just about everyway possible. He was not sure he would like another male in the game, but found he liked some things he never thought he could.
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I've been the 'third party' in the past and I'm ok with basic groundrules, but if they're too complicated or the girl has seemed like she's really only doing it to please her boyfriend and is generally paranoid, then I've declined (I've declined way more often than I have gone for it, actually).

If the rules are "no kissing, no penetration, don't look at my man, he can't cum anywhere near you blah blah", then I'll definitely take a pass. It's not fun for me if I have to second-guess everything I want to do in the moment or if I'm mainly there to spectate or have a minor role while they enjoy all the fun.



If you are not going to enjoy the entire spectrum of human sexuality then why would anyone bother. If the rules start out with NO that is when I generally head for the door!!
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Threesomes? Brings back some cherished memories! MFM or MMF or FMF or FFM, no problem, except that I now am in a committed relationship. So there's that.


Does a committed relationship mean no more fun?
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Sorry to take so much space but there were so many good comments that I just could not control my fingers.
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In my threesomes no one ever brought up any rules. If it was MWM, everything was understood, no fuss, no prob, just go with it, have fun and make sure she was having the time of her life. My favorites have been the WMW's, though, just having fun, lots of fun.

The only draw back to the gangbangy things, haha, is having to perform with all the damned cheering and yelling going on. (Always use a condom in a gangbang!) But after one's freshman year participation got a little old, just observing and cheering was enough for me from then on. By far the most entertaining gangbangs are when 2 or more chicks are participating in the same room. They always seemed to compete with each other as which one could put on the best slutty show.

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This is a good thread.. spme interesting viewpoints.. some will.. some won't.. some will for their mates.. some will for themselves.. a lot of 2 & a halfsomes really.. whether it's mfm or fmf or even fff.. the dynamics may change but the intent is the same.. it's about pleasure and exploration where the word 'NO' is never inappropriate.. I've had my fair share of mfm and fmf.. and I found that those 3somes which were planned and anticipated were far more rewarding than those that happened spontaneously.. one man's opinion.. 'try everything once.. some things more often'..
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I've been the 'third party' in the past and I'm ok with basic groundrules, but if they're too complicated or the girl has seemed like she's really only doing it to please her boyfriend and is generally paranoid, then I've declined (I've declined way more often than I have gone for it, actually).

If the rules are "no kissing, no penetration, don't look at my man, he can't cum anywhere near you blah blah", then I'll definitely take a pass. It's not fun for me if I have to second-guess everything I want to do in the moment or if I'm mainly there to spectate or have a minor role while they enjoy all the fun.




Tell me about it! I've walked away more than I've accepted. In addition, if there's too much alcohol and/or the girl is a zombie, I'm out.

No doubt, threesomes for me are about the girls, but I've had MFM as well. I enjoy FFM so much more...
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First off, my comment was not about you so I am not calling you anything. You are what you are, as long as your happy, thats all that matters.

Secondly, didnt think 3 posts was hijacking a thread, LOL!!


Come on, we hijack threads all the time! Sometimes that's half the fun, the wee tangents...
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Straight women, would you do a threesome with another woman present?


I have tried the fmf .... unless the guy is a STUD with HUGE amounts of energy .... it's highly unlikely he will satisfy BOTH of us ... and I am not interested in playing with another woman .... so ....

bring on the mfm .... oh yeah!!
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Don't nock it in till you had done it ,waching her go to town on some pussy and she lik.es waching me sucking cock also
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I've done both... the MFM and the FMF and to tell the truth, I much prefered the MFM. I really like seeing my wife get pleasured and since I'm a guy who lives by the motto "Try anything once" I had some fun with the guy as well which turned my wife on even more.

I just found the FMF thing totally awkward as I only have one cock and one tongue and keeping two horned up females happy is a tough job (but one that I'm willing to try to master).
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I have been involved in numerous 3-way. All have been MFM and i enjoyed them all and so did my partner.
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There are so many questions there to answer and so hard to understand.

I had my first threesome ever, a week ago, when I stayed with a young lesbian couple; one of whom I met at Lush. It was so fulfilling and that void in my life has now been fulfilled. That was W-W-W of course. I have also fantasized one with my hubby and another woman, if he would be willing. I would not under any circumstances have a threesome with 2 guys. I prefer a nice understanding gentle touch.
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Straight women, would you do a threesome with another woman present?


Yes.
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I have done an MFM and would do it again. Next time it will hopefully be far more sober, the guy will be somewhat well endowed (neither my wife nor I knew that they could be that small) and the guy would be at least somewhat bi-curious. I loved DPing my wife. I was in back and simply love it when my wife totally submits to me, and having another guy there for her to submit to was sooo hot.

As far as FMF, if my wife wanted to (which she would not as far as I know and she has ALWAYS said) I would, but it's not on my bucket list. I can eat a lot of pussy, but worry I wouldn't last long enough. Maybe if I took viagra? Any case, not gonna happen so...
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yes absolutely. if that is what he wants.