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The 'Girls Getting Off' Survey

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When I play-to-cum, the material I use most is:

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Internet porn clips, porn DVDs, downloads (38 votes) 45%
Dirty or sexy pics that I think are hot (2 votes) 2%
Imagining specific guys I know or want to know (17 votes) 20%
Written sex stories, Erotica (41 votes) 49%
Pics of hot celebrities that I crush on (1 vote) 1%
Pics or thoughts of my husband/boyfriend/GF/SO (15 votes) 18%
Cybersex, phonesex, interactive chat (13 votes) 15%
Stuff that's too kinky or weird to mention here (8 votes) 10%
I don't masturbate, I just have sex (1 vote) 1%
Alpha Blonde
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Girls ONLY survey - the same survey is posted in the guy's section (link below). I'm curious if there are differences between the two genders.

Men's Survey Here: http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst24339_The-Spank-Bank-Survey.aspx

The question to the ladies is: What do you most often use to stimulate your mind when you masturbate?

Add your vote to the poll and feel free to elaborate by posting more details.
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hmmm, this one is difficult to answer. On different days I might use different material. Some days its the stories here(although admittedly less so now that I am reading so very many of them) Some days its a chat with some of the very select people I chat with. Sometimes a guy or girl I see or even my BF. Most of the time its about the dirty kinky side of things.
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Very tough to choose just one. I use a bunch of the stuff on the poll. Depends on the mood I'm in.
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Advanced Wordsmith
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Same for me. Most of those at some point.
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I love to read all the time
Lurker
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For me its either my imagination and people i know, or porn
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For me, it's just my imagination and my fingers. I like to think of a particular woman or scene and let my imagination run wild. My eyes closed and pictureing the acts being performed.
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hmm..mine isnt really on here. i have movies that i make up and that play out in my head, when i feel like writing (which is really never anymore) i turn them into stories...
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different day different orgasm..but have to admit..this lush site is my fav for the orgasm du jour
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Girls ONLY survey - the same survey is posted in the guy's section (link below). I'm curious if there are differences between the two genders.

Men's Survey Here: http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst24339_The-Spank-Bank-Survey.aspx

The question to the ladies is: What do you most often use to stimulate your mind when you masturbate?

Add your vote to the poll and feel free to elaborate by posting more details.



I know this is a survey for just woman. But the question is what do you MOST OFTEN use to stimulate when you masturbate. Yea, I'm sure you all use all of those techniques. But something has to be your go-to modus operandi. Enquiring minds want to know.



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I know this is a survey for just woman. But the question is what do you MOST OFTEN use to stimulate when you masturbate. Yea, I'm sure you all use all of those techniques. But something has to be your go-to modus operandi. Enquiring minds want to know.


then i guess the answer is: My own mind.
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I'm probably going to sound like an old prude here but the honest answer is that mostly...

I don't masturbate, I just have sex.

This is because I am a tough nut to crack in the orgasm department (including DIY) so I rarely masturbate.

From the list above "Written sex stories, Erotica" turn me on much more than any of the other options. It stimulates my imagination, if I was going to masturbate that would be the way to get me going.
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I usually think about someone I really fancy.
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I really had to decide what was the most common answer since they all apply, except the 'don't masturbate.' I have been writing and thinking about plot lines for stories lately so that has been how recently. I have a few lush friends that do the trick for me too and a few sites I frequent for the porn I enjoy. I guess you could say my imagination is probably my choice too.
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I haven't picked any of them. I'm so quick at it, I don't actually have time to think about a person, other than some faceless person in my head wanting to be with me. And by the time I've thought that, it's over and done with. I don't think of people I know, or wish I knew, as my imagination is so vivid that if I run with it, I would probably create them into a person they aren't, and find it strange that they react very differently to things I say and do around them. It's not safe for me to think about real people; I would be scared they knew I'd thought about them like that.

I haven't really watched porn; I feel uncomfortable about the little I have seen, like I'm intruding or something. A good writer makes me feel like that too. I read the stories quite clinically. Sometimes an image they create might make my mind wander randomly at a separate time, and I get a bit wiggly if I think about it, but I tend not to. The pictures on peoples' walls make me feel embarrassed, like I shouldn't be looking, or it's like a train wreck - I can't look away because I'm horrified at the size of stuff people can fit in them.

I don't have a partner, and I don't chat about sexy stuff with people. I either feel wiggly, or I don't. And if I do, I just deal with it. I'm not used to sharing sexual things with people, which is why my story writing has been a huge journey for me. It's not stuff I know much about, or am used to, or am comfortable with. But I would like to be; I'd like to be normal, if there is such a thing. That's why I enjoy the forums here so much, trying to understand what normal people do and like and think about.
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sexy stories or taking sexy with someone will get me off, but most of the time all i have to do is close me eyes and let my imagination go...
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Depends where I am usually. If on the sofa in the lounge in front of laptop then usually start with stories, then move to videos. If in bed, then stories only and my imagination to finish ;)
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For me it is either reading erotica or just myself fantasizing, these are my most common ways. But another way I love is having someone tell me about their fantasies or experiences while I masturbate. That can really make me HOT!
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There was a very young blonde that I found masturbating on the internet and of course I downloaded it. She appears to have the most amazing orgasms.

I know I am not the only one, but I wonder if she has any idea how many women cum with her to start their day?

If it was not for her I would be reading DD's Erotica
Sarcastic Coffee Aficionado
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The mind is so powerful and sexy.

It always starts with a chat .... and the mind feels the words ... which moves the words over the body like the lick of a tongue, the kiss of lips, the slow teasing rub of a wet cock head .....

hmmmmmmmm
Velvet-Voiced Titillator
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If it's available then I will watch internet porn, but if i'm not by the laptop or its not pratical (the bath for instance) then I will go for the option of fantasy, thinking about a person or situation.

I tend to read erotic stories as a warm up, it gets me excited and then I find myself watching porn to get a release.

Hope this helps x
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If I want a quick orgasm, most often it will be porn gang-bang vids coupled with my finger on my clit, if I'm alone, have time and am feeling horny, it will be a multitude of things coupled with my imagination and wicked thoughts.
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I tend to stick with my imagination, even if I've been reading a story on here more often than not, by the end my eyes are shut and I'm imagining something different to what I was reading.

Sometimes I need someone else to help out and I will sext, cyber and if the right guy is free then there's phone sex too. Depending on how badly I need to cum I might just text, or send someone a message asking them for their help, i.e. telling me to cum, one word from them does the trick.
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agree with most it just depends on the time, place, mood etc. As women I think we have more of an imagination then men anyway but it's always nice to find out what makes others horny either through chat or their stories. Porn works for me too and there is some genuinely horny sensual films out there in amongst all the ridiculously over acted or down right abusive stuff that men seem to want to watch.
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There was a very young blonde that I found masturbating on the internet and of course I downloaded it. She appears to have the most amazing orgasms.

I know I am not the only one, but I wonder if she has any idea how many women cum with her to start their day?

If it was not for her I would be reading DD's Erotica


I'm still happy to come in as runner-up to the hot naked blonde...lol Thank you for reading, by the way.


As for me - I tend to go for porn clips the most, followed by fantasies involving guys I know and/or phone sex. Visual porn is really easily accessible but usually I go for clips that feature my current real-life fantasies or desires - sort of like background visuals to my own imagination and projected fantasies.
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Quote by Janey79
agree with most it just depends on the time, place, mood etc. As women I think we have more of an imagination then men anyway but it's always nice to find out what makes others horny either through chat or their stories. Porn works for me too and there is some genuinely horny sensual films out there in amongst all the ridiculously over acted or down right abusive stuff that men seem to want to watch.


You and I are soooo similar Jane!
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I'm still happy to come in as runner-up to the hot naked blonde...lol Thank you for reading, by the way.


As for me - I tend to go for porn clips the most, followed by fantasies involving guys I know and/or phone sex. Visual porn is really easily accessible but usually I go for clips that feature my current real-life fantasies or desires - sort of like background visuals to my own imagination and projected fantasies.


Oh DD the way you look and the way you write, no one could even think of you as being less than tie for first place in the race to orgasm.











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Oh DD the way you look and the way you write, no one could even think of you as being less than tie for first place in the race to orgasm.



This thread is good for my ego!

hehe... kidding. Thank you, Lani. smile



It's an interesting comparison so far of the survey. It seems like men mainly choose visual porn, whereas women are a lot more diverse in the way they get off, with a lot more erotica reading. I *think* I knew this before - for some reason I was expecting to be surprised though. lol
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Hmm... men seem to like things right out there where they can see them, like with pics or videos. Whereas for women, whether through chat, sexting, phone, stories or fantasies, it's all in our heads, for the most part. I tend to go that way, as well. A video can turn me on, so can a picture... but if I'm stuck with DIY, a good fantasy can push me over in about 30 seconds.