Sleeping with my Boyfriend's dad

16 Sep 2016

I am having sex with my boyfriend's dad for 6 months now. BF doesn't knows it. I am jobless at home studying my masters online. And his dad freelances from home. We have sex everyday when my BF is out for work.

Am i doing this right. Should i tell this to my BF and live a threesome kind of relationship ? or just secretly fuck my father in law ?

Help me confused5

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

How about not fucking your boyfriend's father?

@Lizerotica

16 Sep 2016

Bcoz, He fucks me better than my BF. Satisfaction level is too damn high. BF's sex and his stamina is really boring. He is always busy working

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

I agree with Liz. Maybe you shouldn't be sleeping with the father. Did you ever stop to think of your boyfriend's feelings and how it would make him feel?

16 Sep 2016

Thanks Liz and Laura.

To be honest, this is the truth. I am in love with both of them. I love my BF very romantically and father in law in a more sexual way. Every night when i go to sleep, i think fo stopping this affair. But next day we fuck. It goes on.

My current situation is i want both of them. I can't choose one for another. What should i do ?

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

Quote by Lauradj
I agree with Liz. Maybe you shouldn't be sleeping with the father. Did you ever stop to think of your boyfriend's feelings and how it would make him feel?

Thanks Laura.

To be honest, this is the truth. I am in love with both of them. I love my BF very romantically and father in law in a more sexual way. Every night when i go to sleep, i think fo stopping this affair. But next day we fuck. It goes on.

My current situation is i want both of them. I can't choose one for another. What should i do ?

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

Quote by arjinof
Thanks Liz and Laura.

To be honest, this is the truth. I am in love with both of them. I love my BF very romantically and father in law in a more sexual way. Every night when i go to sleep, i think fo stopping this affair. But next day we fuck. It goes on.

My current situation is i want both of them. I can't choose one for another. What should i do ?

There is really only one logical solution to this problem. Drop both of them and hookup with the Grandpa.

16 Sep 2016

Quote by roymunson101

There is really only one logical solution to this problem. Drop both of them and hookup with the Grandpa.

LOL. But this is not funny. Tell me a solution

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

No one can tell you the solution, you need to choose between them or come clean to your bf and decide between the 2 of you how to proceed. I would imagine most men would not like you fucking their Dad while you're still dating them but you can't carry on as it is, it's really unfair on your boyfriend.

16 Sep 2016

Quote by Oshi
No one can tell you the solution, you need to choose between them or come clean to your bf and decide between the 2 of you how to proceed. I would imagine most men would not like you fucking their Dad while you're still dating them but you can't carry on as it is, it's really unfair on your boyfriend.

Thanks Oshi for the comment. Yes. True. But i think i am more sexually addicted to my BF's Father and my BF doesn't satisfy me at all.

Me and my BF are together for 2 yrs now. We badly wanted a baby and even he cream-pie me all these months. I am not getting pregnant. But my father in law tells me that he can give me a baby. So he wants to fuck me without condom and make me pregnant so that i can have a baby in that family and claim as his son's child. No one is gonna find. He says. I haven't accepted that yet.

I don't want to move out from that family. They are dirty rich and i want money and luxury life.

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

I think you have already made up your mind that sex with your BF's father is more important than ur relationship with your BF...You have to be prepared that you are about to ruin a father/son relationship for your greediness. Sex is wonderful, but people's feelings really do need to factor into things and come first. I can't even imagine how this could even be a real issue to have to decide upon. The solution is obvious and the fact that you can't see it, is the real issue.

I won't even get into my thoughts about this so called Father...

16 Sep 2016

Quote by arjinof

I don't want to move out from that family. They are dirty rich and i want money and luxury life.

(Yes, I'm a guy, but I think a male perspective might help here)

I think here lies the real problem. Are you really interested in either man or in the money? Are you unsure of what to do because you're afraid the wrong answer could end both relationships and your meal ticket? Sorry to sound harsh, but as soon as I saw your last sentence, it set off some alarm bells. IOW, you first decision may not be which man, but whether your heart or your pocketbook is what matters. If the latter, then you've already ceded a lot of the power in this situation to the father, who I assume controls the pursestrings and whether your boyfriend gets to inherit the family fortune.

I am probably closer to the father in age and, personally, I think he's being a bit of an ass banging his son's girl. I wouldn't do it to my son in the first place. In short, he's unethical and untrustworthy and a terrible father. To my eye, he is using you and you'll be getting grief from that eventually whether you end it or not. So he's the one I'd ditch but be prepared to kiss the money goodbye if you do. And maybe the son, too, though if he really loves you, he might be willing to stick by you against the family even after this.

16 Sep 2016

What Roy Munson says. =d>

16 Sep 2016

Quote by JustFriends101
I think you have already made up your mind that sex with your BF's father is more important than ur relationship with your BF...You have to be prepared that you are about to ruin a father/son relationship for your greediness. Sex is wonderful, but people's feelings really do need to factor into things and come first. I can't even imagine how this could even be a real issue to have to decide upon. The solution is obvious and the fact that you can't see it, is the real issue.

Yes. I understand the situation darling. But i am very selfish in this situation. I am an orphan and lost my parents in my small ages. Grown up in a charity home.
From the small ages, money was a problem for me. I lived a slut to finish my college. I put so much effort to date this guy, marry him and move into this rich family. This Sexual Affair with my Father In law was unexpected.

But i want this life. This luxury life driving BMW and Lamborghini. Wearing top quality lingerie, watches and Jewellery. I am addicted to it.
I can simply ditch my BF and get into a full time relationship with his father. My BF is 28 , I am 31 and his father is 49. 49 is not a big age for a man. But i don't want to break my BF's heart. Also don't want to oppose my Father in law's actions and go back to the poor life i used to have. NOOO. I CAN'T.

I want a open threesome relationship. Where i satisfy both the men in the house and live a luxury life. biggrin

His mom has passed away few yrs ago.

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

Quote by seeker4

(Yes, I'm a guy, but I think a male perspective might help here)

I think here lies the real problem. Are you really interested in either man or in the money? Are you unsure of what to do because you're afraid the wrong answer could end both relationships and your meal ticket? Sorry to sound harsh, but as soon as I saw your last sentence, it set off some alarm bells. IOW, you first decision may not be which man, but whether your heart or your pocketbook is what matters. If the latter, then you've already ceded a lot of the power in this situation to the father, who I assume controls the pursestrings and whether your boyfriend gets to inherit the family fortune.

I am probably closer to the father in age and, personally, I think he's being a bit of an ass banging his son's girl. I wouldn't do it to my son in the first place. In short, he's unethical and untrustworthy and a terrible father. To my eye, he is using you and you'll be getting grief from that eventually whether you end it or not. So he's the one I'd ditch but be prepared to kiss the money goodbye if you do. And maybe the son, too, though if he really loves you, he might be willing to stick by you against the family even after this.

Yes. I want money. i can't go back to my old poor life.

How can i convert this complex relationship of mine into a open threesome relationship where i can sleep with both the men and satisfy them. And live the luxury life i want. Any ideas ???

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

Why not become an escort? I'm not trying to be offensive. My 2 cents

There are high class ones too, I think. dontknow

16 Sep 2016

Quote by MostPreciousLittle
Why not become an escort? I'm not trying to be offensive.

There are high class ones too, I think.

Yes. I have done escorting to pay my tuition fee a long ago. But now more than earning money. I wanna live a luxury life which showoff class. For that i wanna keep both of this men (son and dad) closer to me. If not i am finished. I think i should fuck both of these men in parallel or just fuck them on the same bed.

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

Quote by arjinof

Yes. I want money. i can't go back to my old poor life.

How can i convert this complex relationship of mine into a open threesome relationship where i can sleep with both the men and satisfy them. And live the luxury life i want. Any ideas ???

Open communication is the only way to get what you want. It could turn out well or you could lose both men.

I would talk to the father first. He knows you're having sex with both. He knows his son best. If he agrees and thinks his son will, talk to your BF together. Since you've already been lying, I would tell your BF that it's something you'd LIKE to do and not something you've DONE. Best case scenario, they both love the idea, agree to an open relationship, and you get what you want. Worst case, Dad or BF says no, and you have to accept what you have or choose between them.

I honestly hope you stop sleeping with the father and use your skills to help your BF be a better lover. But, as for getting what you want, I think this is the path to take.

16 Sep 2016

Quote by arjinof
Yes. I have done escorting to pay my tuition fee a long ago. But now more than earning money. I wanna live a luxury life which showoff class. For that i wanna keep both of this men (son and dad) closer to me. If not i am finished. I think i should fuck both of these men in parallel or just fuck them on the same bed.

Any rich uncles you can throw into the mix?

@Lizerotica

16 Sep 2016

Quote by Liz

Any rich uncles you can throw into the mix?

If there's a rich uncle (and he's single), lose both BF and Dad and go for him. Complication solved!

16 Sep 2016

Quote by arjinof

Yes. I have done escorting to pay my tuition fee a long ago. But now more than earning money. I wanna live a luxury life which showoff class. For that i wanna keep both of this men (son and dad) closer to me. If not i am finished. I think i should fuck both of these men in parallel or just fuck them on the same bed.

So...just keeping score here. You're working on a master's degree of some sort. You're 31. Yet you think that the only way to "live a luxury life which [sic] showoff class" is to obtain money via marriage or fucking or whatever?

My take: Put on your damn big girl panties, quit wanting what others have and either figure out how to attain that/those thing/things on your own or forgo them entirely, and stop taking advantage of this family--note that I said "family", not "these two men".

If nothing else, men are fickle creatures, and what is going to become of you when you fall pregnant or one or both of your paramours, neither of which have offered to marry you, decide that you're too old or too needy or too whatever?

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16 Sep 2016

Quote by Burquette

Open communication is the only way to get what you want. It could turn out well or you could lose both men.

I would talk to the father first. He knows you're having sex with both. He knows his son best. If he agrees and thinks his son will, talk to your BF together. Since you've already been lying, I would tell your BF that it's something you'd LIKE to do and not something you've DONE. Best case scenario, they both love the idea, agree to an open relationship, and you get what you want. Worst case, Dad or BF says no, and you have to accept what you have or choose between them.

I honestly hope you stop sleeping with the father and use your skills to help your BF be a better lover. But, as for getting what you want, I think this is the path to take.

Thanks

But if i say 'NO' to my father in Law , i will be fired out of the house ASAP. That's the issue.

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

Quote by Burquette

If there's a rich uncle (and he's single), lose both BF and Dad and go for him. Complication solved!

I will try. hahaha

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

Quote by HeraTeleia

So...just keeping score here. You're working on a master's degree of some sort. You're 31. Yet you think that the only way to "live a luxury life which [sic] showoff class" is to obtain money via marriage or fucking or whatever?

My take: Put on your damn big girl panties, quit wanting what others have and either figure out how to attain that/those thing/things on your own or forgo them entirely, and stop taking advantage of this family--note that I said "family", not "these two men".

If nothing else, men are fickle creatures, and what is going to become of you when you fall pregnant or one or both of your paramours, neither of which have offered to marry you, decide that you're too old or too needy or too whatever?

My father in law is funding my Master degree in fashion designing. His idea was to quit job and finish my masters. I quit job and started masters 6 months ago. From the first day we are fucking on a daily basis. He drops me for the special classes. And if i do like what you said. I have another 1.5 yrs to finish my masters. I don't want to do part-time jobs. Just enjoying the luxury i got here with these men.

Talking about pregnant. My father in law wants to make me pregnant on behalf of his son. He thinks his son is impotent and i also think so, coz we dont have a bay yet after 2 yrs of sex

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

Quote by MostPreciousLittle
What Roy Munson says. =d>

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

This situation will probably not only destroy your relationship with your boyfriend but will forever destroy his relationship with his father. It could even have violent consequences.

It was a bad idea to begin with and has the great possibility of being much worse.

16 Sep 2016

Quote by Buz
This situation will probably not only destroy your relationship with your boyfriend but will forever destroy his relationship with his father. It could even have violent consequences.

It was a bad idea to begin with and has the great possibility of being much worse.

Yes. true. And i can't still figure out what he thinks about his son internally. Because he is definitely not guilty of banging his son's wife.

He has used my money needs as powerful element here. I am also unknowingly addicted to the luxurious sexual fun he gives. Now i am middle of everything sad

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

I thought this was a genuine post when it started but now I can't help thinking you're fucking with us.

It sounds like a plot from a cheap Mexican soap opera.

@Lizerotica

16 Sep 2016

Quote by Liz
I thought this was a genuine post when it started but now I can't help thinking you're fucking with us.

It sounds like a plot from a cheap Mexican soap opera.

Not at all. I am sorry if i said something wrong. very sorry !

- Arjino Ferrera

16 Sep 2016

Quote by Liz
I thought this was a genuine post when it started but now I can't help thinking you're fucking with us.

It sounds like a plot from a cheap Mexican soap opera.

You thought it was genuine at the start?

My bullshit meter must be stronger than yours....or I'm a cynical bastard. I'll let the viewers decide

Are you sure?