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Are any of you ladies in a sexless marriage or, have been in a sexless marriage? How do or did you cope with this?
Quote by HandsomeScientist
My SO and I live together and have been together about 3 years so although it's not quite a marriage there has been plenty of time for the sex to get less frequent. It's gone from once or twice a day to two to five times a week and I don't see it getting any less than that. Twice a week is a bad week, we both work full time in our first 'proper' jobs and that's a culture shock for us, when we met we were students and just spent all day in bed kissing or fucking or both. I'd love to go back to that and she would too but I don't feel bad that we have sex a lot less now, it stands to reason.
I would seriously question whether I wanted to be with her or not if we had sex infrequently. I hope that doesn't sound too shallow. It's by no means the only reason I'm with her but it's a big big thing for me. Not being able to fuck the person I was with would feel all sorts of wrong.
Quote by HandsomeScientist
My SO and I live together and have been together about 3 years so although it's not quite a marriage there has been plenty of time for the sex to get less frequent. It's gone from once or twice a day to two to five times a week and I don't see it getting any less than that. Twice a week is a bad week, we both work full time in our first 'proper' jobs and that's a culture shock for us, when we met we were students and just spent all day in bed kissing or fucking or both. I'd love to go back to that and she would too but I don't feel bad that we have sex a lot less now, it stands to reason.
I would seriously question whether I wanted to be with her or not if we had sex infrequently. I hope that doesn't sound too shallow. It's by no means the only reason I'm with her but it's a big big thing for me. Not being able to fuck the person I was with would feel all sorts of wrong.
Quote by sh4357I have a friend whose husband is what you just described, low-T due to medical problems. She has 2 fwb's that she's known for something like 14 years, she see's them once a month for about 8 years now. She does still love here hubby, however.
I am a 56 year old male, been married for 32 years. Wife has a medical condition that realy limits sex. She has had it for 10 years. Sex is about 2 or 3 times a year. I have been true ! I t is very frustating, we both had a very good and adventuos sex life before, and alot more we would like to do also. Hopefuly things will get better ! And no I have no plans on leaving her.
Quote by BlackHawk1967
I have a friend whose husband is what you just described, low-T due to medical problems. She has 2 fwb's that she's known for something like 14 years, she see's them once a month for about 8 years now. She does still love here hubby, however.
Quote by AriOli101She happens to have a high sex drive, and she's not a nun. She see's two seperate guys once a month for a couple hours when she can fit it in to her schedule, She's not having a romantic affair with either of them..
See, that to my mind is wrong. Just personal preference, though
Quote by LangleyBest of luck to you, you seem like a decent, genuinely straight up, no bullshit, sort of fellow.
I have been married 31 years to a nice girl, but she is not a girl that likes or even wants sex. I can not even tell you the last time that we kissed. So I come to lush looking to find a special lady or special ladies to become friends with. I am room mates with my wife and that is fine but I am looking for someone to have some romance with even if it is just on lush. I am sure every one on here has a story close to mine but I am a very nice guy who is not all about sex. I want to get to know the ladies of lush better
Quote by SouthernCharm
My husband and I have been together for 10 year. The last few years I have been in a sexless marriage. Im lucky if we have sex 4 times a year. We are pretty much like roommates. It sucks really bad. Unfortunately my husband has low testosterone and has no concerns in the world to have it taken care of. On the off chance we do have sex, it is when he wants it and how he wants it. He is the one that gets off and Im left to tend to myself. I don't feel a marriage should be based on sex but when your in a sexless marriage it does become frustrating. Hence another reason I frequent lush.
Quote by boybeater19
I have been married for almost 4 years and we have sex about once ever 3 months.. he was a virgin when we married.. thought maybe he would like to make up 32 years of no sex but no.. that is why im on lush.. we all ahve to do what we have to do to make us happy
Quote by crazydiamond
It is all sorts of wrong.
Quote by Alexa8497
Yes and it's terrible. We are both young (under 30) and we went through a period of two years where we were lucky to have sex once every three months. I tried everything and nothing worked. We spoke/fought about it countless times and it's still not good - I'm not sure what I'll do if it continues. Hence why I'm on Lush.