Awkward question but it's better to ask a group of strangers than embarrass myself with a friend, right?!
I am thinking strongly about getting a dildo but have no idea what to start with
anyone got any advice please?
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Any woman I ever asked all said the rabbit. Its the best. I suppose its down to you. There must be one friend you could ask.
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Specifically a Dildo? Or a sex toy in general? It all depends on what you are looking to do. Do you want something that will penetrate you? Something to stimulate your clit? Both? How much do you want to spend?
If you have a local Adult toy store, preferably a more upscale one rather than the dark, dirty combination sex shop and peep show, you can go and ask to see many different types of toys and get an idea what they all can do. Or google sex toys, dildos and vibrators and see some toys and read reviews. Many sites have demo vids (not porn, just explaining how they work).
I love the Lelo line of vibes. Granted, they are more expensive but they are amazin! They last long especially if you are rough with them. I have heard of many women who have used less expensive toys only to have them break. They are rechargable so you dont have to worry about batteries, they are very quite so it is easy to be discreet when using them if that is an issue.
But there are literally 1000's of toys on the market. Im sure you will find your new best friend by just doing a little research. Good luck and please let us know what you choose.
Enjoy!!
If you have a local Adult toy store, preferably a more upscale one rather than the dark, dirty combination sex shop and peep show, you can go and ask to see many different types of toys and get an idea what they all can do. Or google sex toys, dildos and vibrators and see some toys and read reviews. Many sites have demo vids (not porn, just explaining how they work).
I love the Lelo line of vibes. Granted, they are more expensive but they are amazin! They last long especially if you are rough with them. I have heard of many women who have used less expensive toys only to have them break. They are rechargable so you dont have to worry about batteries, they are very quite so it is easy to be discreet when using them if that is an issue.
But there are literally 1000's of toys on the market. Im sure you will find your new best friend by just doing a little research. Good luck and please let us know what you choose.
Enjoy!!
Alpha Blonde
If you're getting anything that vibrates, go with Lelo.
The motors on a lot of inexpensive toys are absolute shit and the noise is distracting. If you're just looking for a cheap $20 clit vibe, then the Pocket Rocket is a pretty decent starter-toy.
Lelo has had the market cornered for a while now when it comes to sex toys. And they make a far superior version to The Rabbit. You can buy Lelo off Amazon if you don't have access to a Toy Shop in your area. And you can find demos on all their stuff on youtube - just google whatever model you're interested in.
If you're going for a random dildo, I'd go with a real-skin type one. Doc Johnson makes good quality ones. Go for one a bit longer than you think you need - it's nice to have the extra length to manipulate and hang onto and if your partner is using it on you, they'll appreciate it for easier handling as well.
The motors on a lot of inexpensive toys are absolute shit and the noise is distracting. If you're just looking for a cheap $20 clit vibe, then the Pocket Rocket is a pretty decent starter-toy.
Lelo has had the market cornered for a while now when it comes to sex toys. And they make a far superior version to The Rabbit. You can buy Lelo off Amazon if you don't have access to a Toy Shop in your area. And you can find demos on all their stuff on youtube - just google whatever model you're interested in.
If you're going for a random dildo, I'd go with a real-skin type one. Doc Johnson makes good quality ones. Go for one a bit longer than you think you need - it's nice to have the extra length to manipulate and hang onto and if your partner is using it on you, they'll appreciate it for easier handling as well.
Clumeleon
Y'know, as soon as I saw this thread, I knew DD would be plugging Lelo (no pun intended). She should get paid commission.
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Y'know, as soon as I saw this thread, I knew DD would be plugging Lelo (no pun intended). She should get paid commission.
for every 10 Lushies who buy a Lelo, she gets a freebie. btw, i've seen her collection. it's pretty amazing. she is the queen of vibrators ;)
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
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It's all part of my master plan to one day run the Lelo empire. Ten years from now when you see the 'Lelo Ashleigh', you will know who was responsible for it!
Off hand I'm thinking of a three-pronged vibrator that gets the ass, pussy and clit at the same time, charges in 5 minutes, insignia collection style, and it will come in the following colours: slutty-hot-pink, fuck-me-purple and bad-girl-black.
Off hand I'm thinking of a three-pronged vibrator that gets the ass, pussy and clit at the same time, charges in 5 minutes, insignia collection style, and it will come in the following colours: slutty-hot-pink, fuck-me-purple and bad-girl-black.
I agree on the Lelo, plus they look very elegant and sleek. And women appreciate men or women lovers who keep up to the higher levels of toys. Cheap toys are just that and smack of a lack of sensuality and finesse. Some women also enjoy the glass dildos for style, feel, and look. If you're a visually oriented person go for the life-likes, but make sure about allergic reactions before you decide on latex or silicone or whatever. The pocket or bullet vibes are versatile and handy but they can make annoying noises. For the power tool it's the plug in Hitachi. Noisy, true, but the reactions and control are amazing. Guys, spend a little high dollar cash for quality toys for your lady/ladies pleasure. It is soooo worth it and so are they!
Alpha Blonde
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I agree on the Lelo, plus they look very elegant and sleek. And women appreciate men or women lovers who keep up to the higher levels of toys. Cheap toys are just that and smack of a lack of sensuality and finesse. Some women also enjoy the glass dildos for style, feel, and look. If you're a visually oriented person go for the life-likes, but make sure about allergic reactions before you decide on latex or silicone or whatever. The pocket or bullet vibes are versatile and handy but they can make annoying noises. For the power tool it's the plug in Hitachi. Noisy, true, but the reactions and control are amazing. Guys, spend a little high dollar cash for quality toys for your lady/ladies pleasure. It is soooo worth it and so are they!
Soooo true!
The one thing you'll appreciate is that when you use your toys with a partner that they're not those ugly/cheap models made of smelly plastic with that loud obnoxious buzzing sound. It totally kills the mood. You want something 'sleek and sexy' and quiet. Toys can really make a sexual experience a total sensory adventure and suddenly you have so many more pleasure options! They're not just toys - they're like... sex instruments! lol
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Soooo true!
The one thing you'll appreciate is that when you use your toys with a partner that they're not those ugly/cheap models made of smelly plastic with that loud obnoxious buzzing sound. It totally kills the mood. You want something 'sleek and sexy' and quiet. Toys can really make a sexual experience a total sensory adventure.
i started out with the cheap versions and hesitated to spend the kind of money some of the high end versions cost - that said, now that i have experience with both, i am slowly upgrading to nicer toys
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
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I remember buying my first rabbit. I was so embarrased!! Literally ran into the shop garbled something to the assistants, stuffed it in a unmarked bag and ran out so embarrased but OMG the first orgasm I had using it was sooo good and had built up the anticipation lol.
I've just brought another vibrator and a few other things on line. If your uncomfortable going into a shop its a great way of buying, although I buried the packaging at the bottom of the bin. The one I just got was a Doc Johnson realistic one which I love for the thickness compared to my rabbit, but its not as long and I like my clit stimulated so usually end up finishing off with my rabbit so I get both.
Rabbits are fun and if you like your cllit stimulated and I highly recommend. If you don't then a normal realistic vibrator is just as good.
I've just brought another vibrator and a few other things on line. If your uncomfortable going into a shop its a great way of buying, although I buried the packaging at the bottom of the bin. The one I just got was a Doc Johnson realistic one which I love for the thickness compared to my rabbit, but its not as long and I like my clit stimulated so usually end up finishing off with my rabbit so I get both.
Rabbits are fun and if you like your cllit stimulated and I highly recommend. If you don't then a normal realistic vibrator is just as good.
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It's all part of my master plan to one day run the Lelo empire. Ten years from now when you see the 'Lelo Ashleigh', you will know who was responsible for it!
Off hand I'm thinking of a three-pronged vibrator that gets the ass, pussy and clit at the same time, charges in 5 minutes, insignia collection style, and it will come in the following colours: slutty-hot-pink, fuck-me-purple and bad-girl-black.
Maybe something like this!!
Put me down for one in Fuck-Me-Purple!!
Alpha Blonde
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Maybe something like this!!
Put me down for one in Fuck-Me-Purple!!
LOL... that is EXACTLY what I had in mind, too.
The Bee's Knees
i agree with everyone about buying more expensive toys. my first toys were cheap and didn't last long our feel as good as the toys i own now. i keep hearing about lelo toys...may need to browse amazon ;)
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Maybe something like this!!
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Put me down for one in Fuck-Me-Purple!!
I'll take a purple one too please!!
Sarcastic Coffee Aficionado
a few years ago, DD suggested the Lelo ....
hands down!! anything Lelo is worth the money .... you will not be disappointed!!
hands down!! anything Lelo is worth the money .... you will not be disappointed!!
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I would love one of those.
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It's all part of my master plan to one day run the Lelo empire. Ten years from now when you see the 'Lelo Ashleigh', you will know who was responsible for it!
Off hand I'm thinking of a three-pronged vibrator that gets the ass, pussy and clit at the same time, charges in 5 minutes, insignia collection style, and it will come in the following colours: slutty-hot-pink, fuck-me-purple and bad-girl-black.
I would love one of those.
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love my rabbit y'all
but have to say the hitachi hand wand is really good too
depends on what u are looking for
a orgasm through penetration or just a clitoral orgasm
i like the website babeland
def though my next will be a lelo
happy masturbation..lol
but have to say the hitachi hand wand is really good too
depends on what u are looking for
a orgasm through penetration or just a clitoral orgasm
i like the website babeland
def though my next will be a lelo
happy masturbation..lol
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LOL... that is EXACTLY what I had in mind, too.
DD and Nikki you do not know me but I am a long time friend of former Lushie WHR43, who I am sure you know.
Will you be looking for investors in this start up company?
Just go for the rabbit or check out some virtual sex shops and place an order. Most of them can be quite enjoyable.
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hitachi wand is the best