Ok this will take some honesty. Have you ever had sex with a guy and got paid for it? I'm not talking about a new outfit or jewelry from hubby or a boyfriend. I am talking about a cash deal from a stranger or a guy that wanted it so bad he was willing to pay.
I have been offered money for sex back when I was younger and in better shape, but I have never taken money in exchange for sex.
No, I haven't, however it has been offered to me on several occasions. I can't imagine I would ever do it unless I was in a very serious financial crunch with no other options available.
I was once offered $1,000 to make out with a female friend for two minutes though. Explained: a girlfriend and I were in a high end strip club and some high rollers thought it would be more fun to pay non-strippers to do something just for the novelty of it. Of course, we locked lips and took the cash. We were students and $500 each to kiss was irresistible.
I did have one offer a while ago but declined it
Had an offer at the end of last year that would have covered my clothing budget for the year....turned it down. Slept with him anyway - probably should have accepted it LOL
I have been offered money but would not accept it. But I also have had a guy once offer to pay me and a friend if we made out in front of him. We were happy to oblige him and took his money. Unfortunately, it wasnt as much as what DD was offered, LOL!
But I do believe if a woman wants to have sex for money, it is her business and it does not make her a bad person. If no one is getting hurt and it is consentual, it should be here right. It is just not something I would do. JMO!
I have, yes. I don't do it anymore.
I hate to state the obvious, but I'd hate to not say what needs to be said anyway: If you're presented with an opportunity to do this- sex for cash- think long and hard first. Once you do it, it will be twice as easy to do it again, then again. Soon, it's just another thing you do, and possibly lucratively. Even if it's the only time, which is unlikely, once you it, you can't undo it.
I go back and forth about how I feel about it. Sometimes, I'm deeply ashamed. After all, for all the times that women are offensively called whores, in that case, you are exactly that, in the purest sense of the word. Letting that sink in is not a painless process.
Most of the time though, I'm at peace with it. Like Nikki says, as long as you're doing it on your own terms (which is a big 'if', and a gray area for lots of women), then it's nobody's business and nobody's right to judge. Peace within yourself is really all that matters. Anyone that would characterize you for your actions unrelated to them are probably not worth investing time and friendship in.
Thanks for the responses and I hope we get some more. I will be honest and tell about the first time I did this. When I was 30 my husband talked me into the swinger scene. This was a big line to cross, having sex with other people. I tried it and got comfortable with the lifestyle. At one particular swinger party I noticed an older guy. I found out later he was 60. He was there with his wife. He wasn't having much luck getting some of the women interested in having sex with him. I decided to make his night and took him to a back bedroom and let him do whatever he wanted with me. After he asked me in private if we could meet on occasion, just him and me, for sexual encounters. I hesitated and he said he would pay me. Now at the time I was taking online college courses trying to get a degree. Extra cash would come in very handy. I thought about it and finally agreed. We would meet at a motel a couple of times a month. His wife and my husband didn't know. It was always a cash deal and really wasn't all that much, but it did pay for that semester's tuition. I'm not ashamed of doing this and it has not warped my brain. I was doing him a favor and he helped me out.
i dont know whether it counts but i tried moving out when i was 17, one month i knew i didnt have all the money for my landlord, he was in his mid 30's and actually quite atrractive. i was £65 short and we came to a mutual agreement that we would fuck and he would forget the other £65.
when it comes right down to the brass tacks...most all of us have been a whore for something at one time or another.
Every J.O.B. I've ever had...I've been a whore to. Sometimes, I've accepted gifts to fuck women...guess I'm a whore.
Sounds crass perhaps, but you go out with a guy (or gal) and your evening dinner/entertainment is paid for...and you agree to have sex with that person on your date - technically, you have just whored yourself.
Whore - a repugnant term thrown around by those who wish to elevate themselves in a moral fashion (above others). GFY moral evaluator!
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
I see nothing wrong with sex for money. I just don't. As long as both parties are being careful and safe. One person has commodity/service, the other is in need of that commodity/service. Seems like a logical thing to me.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates Omifuck that story racked me into hysterics!!!! Any bloke who doesn't know its his job to buy girls drinks at a bar has got to be a right virgin or scared of girls. Theres no girl on the globe thats going to be talking intros with a guy at a club and then go buy and pay for her own drink while hes just standing there chatting her. Giggles. How embarassing! I guess its good for those types to spend their time online then because in the real world everyone knows that buying drinks is social and a way to buy a girls attention to have a chat with her. Its not being a whore its called being a normal person in a bar! I will chat until the drink is finished and if I like him we'll keep it up and he can buy me another.
Its not just because you give someone something it makes you a whore. I dont get the warped logic in this thread-posting at all.
Cash for a shag is a clear transaction. I have some male friendz in different parts of the world that help me out with rent sometimes or give me a little loan but it doesnt mean I absolutely have to have sex with them but if I'm staying at their place or on their boat and were partying and wrecked then sometimes things happen and so if I flash a little nipp to put a smile on his face or we party so much we end up having a bit of a shag then big deal no? My friendz tend to be loaded and nice to me if I need it but its not the same as a stranger paying you right out for a BJ.
IMO anyways.
xx B.
I'd never *expect* a guy to buy anything for me, if he wants to then that's lovely....but I don't see it as his place or as his job. If I'm in a relationship with someone then I expect them to not be overly stingey in the sense that if I'm the one doing all the travelling I want him to go halves with me on the fuel or train fare... but that's about it.
I mean, I look at it this way - if I was a guy and in the same sort of money situation I'm in now....I wouldn't be able to afford to buy her drinks or a meal out as well as my own! ....So what happens when a guy can't afford that sort of thing? Does that mean he shouldn't be approaching girls at the bar etc etc?
I have been offered it, and considered it, butnever done it. I don't see anything wrong with people who choose to, like it was said before, you have to think about long and hard and know that it is something that you can personally handle. It is different for everybody. Although like others I have been paid to make out with a girlfriend and have never minded taking the cash!
No I have never had sex for money, but I have accepted a monetary gift as appreciation for a special weekend.
I was in my early 20's and met a very attractive older couple, not so older now. Spent the weekend with them a few weeks later. Wonderful time, both socially as well as sexually. On the Social side I met some powerful, interesting and influential people. On the Sexual side the three of us had a wonderful time and I would join them again anytime.
As I left the wife slipped an envelope into my hand it obviously had money in it. I declined to accept the money, but she insisted. I told her "I am not that kind of girl" to which she replied "We are all that kind of girl, just the medium of payment may be different!"
I am not ashamed that I accepted the money and would do it again in the right circumstances.
Lush Brother's and Sister's you will need to make you own judgement of the morality of accepting such a gift.
