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Quote by lilgirl1414
I've only recently discovered in the past couple of years that a sense of humour is pivotal for me, in every way. The attraction to a guy's personality is amped waaay up if he has a great sense of humour; which in turn (for me) makes me even more physically attracted to him. I've known guys who don't have one at all, and some who are insanely physically-hot but my attraction plummeted when I discovered there was no sense of humour in them. I was even once very attracted to a guy that wasn't my type at all (mainly physically) but his sense of humour was 10/10...there ya go.
So very important!!
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Quite a powerful tool, really.
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The question is not specific enough, because what about the humor is important?
That you have the same humor? The frequency of jokes? The amount of smiles/laughter you exchange?
I personally am more on the serious side and tend to fall for a lot of jokes by taking them seriously. This gives people a good time too. Also when I do make a joke they tend to really hit the mark because for one nobody expects them from me and I only make jokes when they're really good ;)
Anyway.. My point is.. even though I don't make a lot of jokes, I tend to make people around me smile a lot. Is the happy feeling most important or that what causes the smiles/laughter?
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If the importance of fun, smiles and laughter is measured here I have to give it a 10 also!
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I agree with this entirely. I'm practically the same ; I'm generally calm and serious, but smile easily and can throw hilarious punch-lines here and there when no one expects it. When people witnessed that funny side of me, even serious conversations will be considered fun and humorous as people expect me to say something funny at any moment. I'm quite unpredictable, which is even more enticing and keeps people on their toes.
And there is such a thing as too muchhumor I believe. Some guys are not really funny, but goof around just to attract attention. Often times people will laugh at them simply because they make a fool of themselves. They also act childishly and can't hold serious/meaningful discussions, which can be annoying, and even boring.
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There's really not too much to read into this. When girls say they like a guy with a sense of humor, they just mean a guy that doesn't take himself too seriously. And a guy they can share a laugh with...like laugh at things that are actually funny...and even laugh at each other. And having a guy that can make you laugh is great on a bad and/or long day.
When it's not cool is when a guy tries too hard to be funny. It just comes off as obnoxious...and lame...and annoying. There's something really special about a guy that's naturally funny and/or a really charming amount of goofy/silly.