Well, and this is not just arrogance, I normally don't. I normally try to get a man to notice me and then he normally does his best to seduce me.
depends on the man. different guys should be seduced differently.
i can't help but be the aggressor since i get impatient playing the game. for me it doesn't take much, you just smile, say a couple flirtatious things and then tell him your heading out and suggest he leave as well. if he's not thick in the head he'll get what you're saying and follow you home, like a good boy ;)
If I just smile at them, they're all over me!
I am not sure there's any set way to seduce a man, I think that when a man gets interested in a woman he seduces himself. However, I have found that if men find pleasure in my company, like the way I dress, enjoy being fed, then it isn't too difficult to end up in a compromised position!