question...

16 Sep 2018

Could the goddesses that grace this forum please shower me with knowledge? How long after a divorce before I should get back out there???

It's been 6 years since my divorce and I'm more than a little gun shy(afraid to get burned again)

Thanks

Sword Fight

16 Sep 2018

dude. 6 years? you're totally overdue. what the hell are you waiting for? smile

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16 Sep 2018

Yeah, what Sprite said smile

16 Sep 2018

5 years and several months behind. A dinner isn't a second marriage.

16 Sep 2018

Quote by Ls63563
5 years and several months behind. A dinner isn't a second marriage.

could be a blow job, tho. happy8

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

17 Sep 2018

I bet your partner hasn't waited six years. In these situations the best form of revenge is to live a damned good, fulfilling life. Good luck mate.

17 Sep 2018

Have fun and don't bring up being a divorcé too soon unless you use those dating sites.

I don't know if it's good or bad bringing that subject up.

17 Sep 2018

I would ease yourself into it . Don't rush things and end up with someone you really don't want to be with ie stick to your types . Things have changed a bit in 6 years such as more emphasis on Online dating so I would do a bit of background reading first to catch up on things.

17 Sep 2018

It's just a date Dude, don't make a huge deal out of it. 2 people have a drink, maybe a meal, talk a little bit and go home. Maybe they see each other again and maybe not. Millions of people have done it for thousands of years.

18 Sep 2018

Six years is plenty of time to get back into the dating game. I agree with others, take it slowly. Find someone and ask on a date, dinner, a fun activity get to know them. I wish you luck.

18 Sep 2018

i thank you all for your support....

18 Sep 2018

Six weeks, six months, six years? Everyone is different. I would say that after six years you should try to dip your toe in the dating game again, get a feel for it. Only you will know when you're ready. Best of luck to you.

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18 Sep 2018

I heard you say that you were a bit gun shy but remember we aren't all bad people. You and your ex just didnt work out for whatever reason. I had a wonderful marriage for about 16 years and a crappy marriage for 2. I have been divorced about a year, am seeing someone and we are really happy together. Just be yourself and let whomever you date be there self and things will happen when the time is right.

18 Sep 2018

You're not one of those fellows who falls head over heels for any or every looker who pays them a little courteous attention are ya?

A kiss does not a relationship make. Nor a weekend of fucking like rabbits.

Relax, Max... don't overthink this kind of thing.

There are plenty of women out there who don't wanna get burned again either. Those who don't want to risk emotional turmoil - become social hermits.

That's not exactly what you want either is it?

Get out, go play, show 'em how charming you are.

Nothing ventured, nothing lost or crushed or embarrassed or however that goes.

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21 Sep 2018

you have kept yourself out of the game far to long huni

21 Sep 2018

Quote by carlyhughes2018
you have kept yourself out of the game far to long huni

I didn't have any game before my marriage..... angry7

24 Sep 2018

meant since your split huni x

1 Oct 2018

Quote by KnightTemplar

I didn't have any game before my marriage.....

6 years! Must have been nasty divorce??? I been divorced 9 months but together before divorce for 30 years!!! Can't imagine dating again. My heart is still broke and I physically hurt from the pain. My ex started before the divorce!!! Chose the absolute most disgusting nasty trashiest whore in town!! Before that had many more with secretaries, online, years of inappropriate chat with more whores. He loves white trash - chatted with a white trash whore who helped coach softball!! His new whore and the coach in a tight race for the BIGGEST WHITE TRASH WHORE/PROSTITUTE IN THE STATE!!! Hope it goes well!!! I love my children and they are also broken hearted so trying to focus on them because ex is focused on whores and several dicks!!! He likes to suck dicks!! Actually probably his favorite but keeps the whores because he has a phobia about being gay???? Loves him some dick and has met up with complete strangers for dick but would never admit it!!! I have the evidence! Hired a PI several years ago!!

1 Oct 2018

Honestly think it is up to the OP. Everyone is different in terms of how they react to things like breakups. Suspect the fact you posted here means you are ready, but see how it goes.

1 Oct 2018

Quote by jhwhite33

6 years! Must have been nasty divorce??? I been divorced 9 months but together before divorce for 30 years!!! Can't imagine dating again. My heart is still broke and I physically hurt from the pain. My ex started before the divorce!!! Chose the absolute most disgusting nasty trashiest whore in town!! Before that had many more with secretaries, online, years of inappropriate chat with more whores. He loves white trash - chatted with a white trash whore who helped coach softball!! His new whore and the coach in a tight race for the BIGGEST WHITE TRASH WHORE/PROSTITUTE IN THE STATE!!! Hope it goes well!!! I love my children and they are also broken hearted so trying to focus on them because ex is focused on whores and several dicks!!! He likes to suck dicks!! Actually probably his favorite but keeps the whores because he has a phobia about being gay???? Loves him some dick and has met up with complete strangers for dick but would never admit it!!! I have the evidence! Hired a PI several years ago!!

And this would have what to do with OP's question, exactly?

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10 Oct 2018

Get back out there and have fun. Enjoy meeting casual friends who have no expectations of you beyond that moment.

10 Oct 2018

Think positive. Avoid any of the negative vibes as you don't need to see them . Like I said before ease yourself into it. It can be a lot of fun so don't regard it as a chore . Start socialising with friends first. Then when ready go for the chase , the eye contact across a room , that smile. You just cant beat it. Its all exciting stuff.

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